haha i have the same problem. try "love" like "goodnight love!" or "handsome" sounds gay but its cute to say "hellooo handsome" or "babe" is good too. babe isnt girly.

show her the emails to prove it didnt mean anything, and sit her down and look her in the eyes and tell her that you love her and could care less about your ex. i wouldnt suggest emailing her anymore, even though its not anything bad, your gf just needs some reassurance ya know?

SCREW LABELS! just be YOU. i dont believe in the word "emo" because we're all emotional and theres no such thing as"half emo and half preppy" you are who you are, we all have a wide variety of personality traits that make up one unique amazing person and all you can do is jsut be yourself and approach him and talk to him as often as possible.

nope. just tough it out, if it sucks, dont worry itll be over by the end of the night! if it starts to get bad, just tell him you have to go home soon so you wont get in toruble. bringing a friend makes it awkward though, it could be a great one-on-one date.

she knows you love her, but she is scared of losing you. its COMPLETELY normal. tell her this: sweetie, (or whatever word you choose) all you have to do is be you. i'll always love you no matter what.

ONLY SAY IT IF YOU MEAN IT but i know that if my boyfriend said that to me i would smile to ear to ear.

people are so rude sometimes. i hate when friends try to make things awkward. don't give in to anything youre not ready for because of peer pressure. stand strong and just say something like "do you not have anything better to do..i dont see YOU kissing anyone" or if you dont wanna do that just blow it off and change the subject. if you begin to like the guy and want to start a relationship, thats your choice and NO ONE elses. dont let them get to you. and maybe try just hanging with him alone if you like him. good luck!

haha yes he definetely is. you were moving around on his lap which probably gave him an erection. guys get erections over the SLIGHTEST things, and hes obviously very attracted to you. im glad he respects you though, and just kept tickling you and didnt try to do anything. how long have you been with him? have you ever kissed or anything?

no, no, and no. not a good idea AT ALL! its completely unsafe, the age difference is way too much, and internet is NEVER a way to trust people. internet relationships are useless. relationships require getting to know somebody in person and knowing who they are and trusting them and them trusting and respecting you. please dont do this, he could be a pedafile and its a very bad idea. you'll find a boyfriend your age when the time is right, someone who lives in your town and you can hang out with and trust. be patient and just be careful okay? internet is a scary place.

you dont need to do anything to change, besides learn to love yourself. loving yourself completely is the best thing you can do in life. first of all, youre only 15..you have ALOT of time ahead of you for those special things to happen and the longer the wait, the more exciting it is. making out isnt important, and as for boyfriends, its better that you havent had a whole bunch of meaningless relationships, because when you get your first boyfriend its gonna be so much better. plus, they may be kissing boys, but that doesnt mean theyre any better than you or that thats anything to be jealous of because its not meaningful when its just random guys at parties. what you need to do is everyday think about the things you like about yourself and remind yourself that you're unique and NOBODY will ever be like you and you can do anything you want with your life. if you have the right attitude and confidence, anything can happen. love who you are, be who you are, enjoy life and don't worry because everything thats meant to happen for you will happen when its supposed to. i'm sure you are beautiful and feeling beautiful makes such a difference. hope i helped.

the main difference is the attraction. if you find yourself always wanting to kiss him, thinking about what could happen sexually, if you feel butterflies and just generally wanna be near him always, then thats romantic love. it also includes qualities of friendships like being comfortable, trust, alwyas having a good time..but if youre in love you would know..its like you cant see yourself being without them in the future..you want to be with them all the time and love them no matter what their faults are. i hope i helped

1. dont believe the rumors, his life is a mystery to everyone besides him because people make up EVERYTHING.
2. get to know him!! one thing i have learned is reputation doesnt matter and if youre falling for someone, dont let anything hold you back. he may not even be into drugs anymore and everybody has their faults..if anything you could help him get clean. he may need someone like you to help him turn his life around but if you have alot in common then definetely go for him. forget the words good girl & bad guy and just let love work its way. this could be something great and im sure hes a great guy at heart..most drug-users just have gone through alot but really are not bad people at all in fact theyre alot more creative.

ask questions! girls LOVE to talk about themselves.

let your personality shine. if you have beauty AND personality any man would love that. just remember its not all about looks. be confident in who you are and get to know as many people as possible.

try pulling his face in close to yours suddenly and holding his head while you kiss him with alot of pressure. or running your hands through his hair & just give a little bit of tongue. its mostly all in the feeling. if you love someone the passion is gonna be MUCH stronger

you DEFINETELY need to talk to him..my boyfriend goes to a different school and we hang out almost every day..its not being posseseive to want to spend time with him and if you guys are truly good for each other and he cares about you alot he should take time away from his best friend to come see you after school..does he drive? if not then its ALOT harder to hang out alot thankfully my boyfriend drives..but anyway just tell him that you really wanna see him more often and see what he says and just carry on from there..relationships need time spent together! hope i helped.

oh trust me, shes definetely developing a crush on you! if she laughs at a stupid joke, thats the ultimate flirt. and the whole asking you to sit by her thing, yup thats a for sure interest. im a girl ive done these EXACT same things. she probably has an idea you may like her, or maybe shes liked you all along and wonders if YOU have an idea! things are crazy that way. laughing & telling jokes & having fun together shows you guys hit it off GREAT..dont be afraid..ask her on a date! or just ask if she wants to hang out before making it an offical date..starting off friends always helps. i hope you guys fall in love! hahah i seriously do you deserve it. let me know how it goes if you want!

i really wanna find out how it goes so if you wanna let me know you can message me at www.myspace.com/soozlovesyou
or leave it on my advice column!

i would start off talking to him in person,THEN myspace because its always better that way. just muster all the courage you have and start a random conversation with him, start off with a compliment thats what i always do! and then after a few days you could add him on myspace and just send him a message and be like "hey hows everything going?" thats a lame example but you know what i mean! if he seems to like you, then who knows..maybe him and his gf arent meant to be and you guys are..go for him completely..its better to go for him & it not work out then to hold back & be scared! hope i helped. oh and by the way : confidence is key. you can talk about ANYTHING if you have confidence because he'll just be like ooh this girl isnt afraid to strike up a conversation..nice...
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this is why i hate the word slut. its become so common that many girls feel like if they makeout with a guy theyre attracted to, theyre a slut. TRUST ME..youre young & having fun..yourej ust being a girl! us girls have hormones and if were just making out with a guy for fun, why is it anyones business! so do not worry, as long as youre not off having sex or something then youre still respecting yourself by not letting him go any further. but if he keeps wanting to do more, stand your ground & dont let him. older guys are PRETTAY horny! hes cute, you wanted to makeout with him, thats that! its your life to live, dont worry about that term. its a stupid term. we're all meant to be sexual. and plus you were just making out. okay hope i helped!

its great that you guys are in love, but you gotta make time for friends too! because in the end, friends are the ones who are ALWAYS there and plus every girl needs some girltime! you should consider apologizing to all of your friends and trying to hang out with them more often, if theyre true friends that is..if theyre not even good friends then dont worry about it but if you genuinely love them then you should definetely hang out with them and you can still hang out with your boyfriend alot too. plus absence makes the heart grow fonder..space is necessary in a relationship..and im sure he'd enjoy hanging with his friends too. but yay for you & your boyfriend and being crazy about each other though!

OH HELL NO! i literally said that out loud when i read this. NEVER EVER put up with somebody saying that to you..he is obviously disgusting and just wants action and ALWAYS stay true to who you are and if hes THAT much of a jerk to try to change you then he has serious serious problems. he doesnt respect you, dont put up with him. definetely time to find someone else, i promise youll be better off without that jerk.

hey all you pretty people out there.my names susan but i love to spell it Soozin..im passionate about helping people and making people laugh and just being weird..i believe that anybody has the power to change the world and love really is all we need. ask me anything you want i love this site its kickass!

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