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i kinda feel like a slut.
im a freshman girl, ive been in relationships before but only w/ guys my own age in like 8th grade were we kissed and thought it was a big deal. ive been flirting with this junior guy, (gorgeous and could get anyone) he called and asked me if i wanted to hangout last night so i had him over. lets just get to the point, we made out a lot, he felt me up, and i wouldnt let him do anythign else. I feel kinda bad, i dont like this guy really he's cuteee and so sweet to me (and when he met my parents). i dont think he's using me but im kinda using him i mean i dont love him or anything like that not even a crush. is this slutty? its highschool your supposed to have fun right?
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don't feel bad, thats normal girls hook - up with guys all the time. there allowed too no one ever has to be boyfriend and girlfriend to hook - up its not bad at all, you can be hook - up buddies or whatever if your into that but yeah thats totally normal don't feel like a slut thats just a word to make girls feel down on themselves and to give them disrespect i totally agree in highschool your going to hook - up and meet a lot of boys and a lot of those boys your not going to date, so don't feel bad at all sometimes girls just wanna have fun thats normal not bad at all but just make sure he knows your just having fun cause if theres a misunderstanding things could get awkward between you and that guy ohkay, hope i've helped - misunderstoodx3
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this is why i hate the word slut. its become so common that many girls feel like if they makeout with a guy theyre attracted to, theyre a slut. TRUST ME..youre young & having fun..yourej ust being a girl! us girls have hormones and if were just making out with a guy for fun, why is it anyones business! so do not worry, as long as youre not off having sex or something then youre still respecting yourself by not letting him go any further. but if he keeps wanting to do more, stand your ground & dont let him. older guys are PRETTAY horny! hes cute, you wanted to makeout with him, thats that! its your life to live, dont worry about that term. its a stupid term. we're all meant to be sexual. and plus you were just making out. okay hope i helped!
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Don't feel bad, or take that into any negative thought. As long as your not "fully" involved with this person, you're fine.
But the real problem in this situation is:
You don't really like him, and he has no idea. Both parties should be ok to be "kissing buddies" as long as there's no real attachment. By not including him in on your true feelings, its not fair to him.
You have to let him know what your only intentions are, see if he is willing to go forth with it. And take things from there.
Slutty? No, I don't think so, if you slept with him, it may be in another story. But again, think of if you were in his shoes and had no idea, that the person you're "messing with" doesn't feel anything towards you.
Think About it. Put yourself in his shoes.
Good Luck!
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well there is fun to a degree its only making out you guys didnt have sex and you didnt give him head or anything like that im glad you didnt have him do anything else to you and no that doesnt make you a slut in my book making out is no big deal i think. just dont do it with every guy you see and your no slut in my book.
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