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The Wrong Person
So i'm pretty much the typical good girl but i've recently been talking with a guy in my english class who is the opposite of me. He uses drugs and skips classes, and there are many rumors going around about him all the time.
I didn't expect him to be a frequent reader of philosophical novels... we discuss ayn rand and many other topics in our english class and i'm kind of falling for him.
the thing is, all my friends hate him. i love my friends a lot and i wouldn't want to hurt them by getting too close with this guy.
what can i do?
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1. dont believe the rumors, his life is a mystery to everyone besides him because people make up EVERYTHING.
2. get to know him!! one thing i have learned is reputation doesnt matter and if youre falling for someone, dont let anything hold you back. he may not even be into drugs anymore and everybody has their faults..if anything you could help him get clean. he may need someone like you to help him turn his life around but if you have alot in common then definetely go for him. forget the words good girl & bad guy and just let love work its way. this could be something great and im sure hes a great guy at heart..most drug-users just have gone through alot but really are not bad people at all in fact theyre alot more creative.
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sounds like the *bad Boy* type haha it normal..to fall for guy like that ..he must be gorgeuos haha...and his your typical high school bad boy...why dont you try getting to know him alot better,,,,and tel yor friends when your ready...or atkeast one of your most turstworthy friend..if there your friends theyll understand..you and why you like him and mabby they wont like him but they wont hate him and if he falls for you then you can proove al your friends worng..and they wont hate him.so just try my advice get to know him and see if his not like the actually typical bad boy ------>>> uses girls , has sex and then walks out...<<<< then yoir friends will be really mad..=)
x0x0 Y.b Hope I helped
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This reminds of this guy at my school. He's really smart and all of that, but he's emo. I've come accept that this is a way to project his personality to others. But the one thing which bugs me about him is the fact that he doesn't put any effort (well, i think) and it's a shame because he could do so well.
But your guy puts the effort in. When he first met him, i suppose that you didn't like him, thinking that he wouldn't come to anything or you didn't think anything. You've managed to see past all of the drugs, the class skiping and the rumours to see somebody whom you like and i think that it is wonderful.
I can see that your friends will ask you "What do you see in him?" and you can tell them what you feel for him and what you do see, beyond what others do. They will in turn want to give you advice and don't brush it aside, accept it and keep it into consideration.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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First, I would get to know him better. I know you talk to him, but you don't know much about him. Then decide whether you want to let a guy go because your friends don't know him, just because they don't know him, just like you don't now. Maybe tell them who he really is once you have decided yourself. At the same time relationships aren't worth losing over a boy that you have no reason to like. But if your friends can't support you, they aren't true friends. So it all depends on who this guy is, to you and to others. So get to know him and then decide who is more important, him or friends who don't support you? I hope this helped. Hope the guy turns out to be better than the rumors say (which they usually do. Rumors get out of hand.)
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