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internet realtionships


Question Posted Sunday June 8 2008, 8:16 pm

well ive been single for a really long time and,im only 15, i know. i decided to sign up on a dating site, well this guy i though was really cute he's 24yrs old, i think thats an ok age so he asked 4 my email and were chatting, except he lives in korea& on his site theres only 1 pic do you think i should trust him,and believe he's what he says he is? also umm..do you think online realtionships work out??and can you actually call them a realtionship even though you cant see them>??

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crazyme6 answered Tuesday June 10 2008, 1:15 am:
no, no, and no. not a good idea AT ALL! its completely unsafe, the age difference is way too much, and internet is NEVER a way to trust people. internet relationships are useless. relationships require getting to know somebody in person and knowing who they are and trusting them and them trusting and respecting you. please dont do this, he could be a pedafile and its a very bad idea. you'll find a boyfriend your age when the time is right, someone who lives in your town and you can hang out with and trust. be patient and just be careful okay? internet is a scary place.

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schochie16 answered Monday June 9 2008, 11:55 am:
Online relationships are hard. You have to have a great deal of trust. I think that you should try to stick with real life relationships. This would probally not work out because of the fact that you guys don't even know each other. You have no idea if what he's saying is even true! If you don't trust him there is absolotly no way this relationship would work out. I don't think that it would be smart to presue this realtionship. Don't give oout ANY personal information like phone number, cell number, pictures, address, etc.

This is also not safe. Cut this off.

hope i helped

-E

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Disconnected answered Monday June 9 2008, 11:39 am:
I really don't recommend internet dating. I mean he's almost 10 years older than you, and he lives in Korea.
I mean, internet relationships hardly ever work, especially if you've never met him, and probably never will.

Also the age difference.

I mean, my friend was 16 and she started going out with a 25 year old. He wanted a lot of things from her. Since it was long distance (so basically an online relationship) he always wanted her to do stuff on webcam, which was some very extreme s*it, and send him pictures.
She felt so dirty and used, but she was scared to break up with him.

You're only 15, you will have boyfriends that are in the same continent, you'll see them in person, and they are in your age range.

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uisforukelele answered Monday June 9 2008, 11:38 am:
Holy crap. He's 9 years older than you. Any 24-year-old who tries to have a relationship with a 15-year-old is a freaking pervert. Sure, there may be exceptions, but for the sake of your SAFETY, please do not contact him any more.

You can never trust anyone you meet online. Really. Not even me. I could tell you my age and gender and ask to be your friend, but I could be lying.

This online relationship will not work out. Nothing good can come of this. End it.

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xxkelsxx answered Monday June 9 2008, 1:27 am:
absolutely not! internet relationships have bad idea writtien all over them. you are only 15 years old, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend and you dont have to go to a dating website in order to do that! and 24 is way old... and you dont honestly know if that is the truth. please please be careful and break it off. there are plenty of places to meet boys that you can actually see and that are your age! don't be discouraged because it has been a long time since you've had a boyfriend. the right guy will come along!

good luck :)

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