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I hate me.
At parties and things, i always feel im just there.
All my friends end up kissing boys, and getting with people, and im ALWAYS just there.
Also, im never the girl the boys flirt with its always other people.
Im not the prettiest of all lasses, and its really starting to affect me, as i thought buy the age of 15 i would have had atleast one boyfriend, or made out with someone more than once.
Can i do anything to change alot?
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i dont think you need to change yourself to get someone else to like you. someone out there likes you for who you are. i know someone will end up liking you.
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you dont need to do anything to change, besides learn to love yourself. loving yourself completely is the best thing you can do in life. first of all, youre only 15..you have ALOT of time ahead of you for those special things to happen and the longer the wait, the more exciting it is. making out isnt important, and as for boyfriends, its better that you havent had a whole bunch of meaningless relationships, because when you get your first boyfriend its gonna be so much better. plus, they may be kissing boys, but that doesnt mean theyre any better than you or that thats anything to be jealous of because its not meaningful when its just random guys at parties. what you need to do is everyday think about the things you like about yourself and remind yourself that you're unique and NOBODY will ever be like you and you can do anything you want with your life. if you have the right attitude and confidence, anything can happen. love who you are, be who you are, enjoy life and don't worry because everything thats meant to happen for you will happen when its supposed to. i'm sure you are beautiful and feeling beautiful makes such a difference. hope i helped.
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You are 15 years old.
Seriously..
You aren't behind. Infact, I don't know many people who were getting with others at parties at that age when I was younger.
There isn't a set time to get with someone. Just because everyone else is doing it shouldn't make you feel like you're "just there" and not pretty enough to get with boys. It will happen in time.
The whole point of parties is to enjoy yourself in the company of the people you know... not be stressing over not kissing boys.
Your time WILL come... maybe sooner.. maybe later.
Think positive. and just wait. :)
Focus on enjoying the parties for now :)
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I understand how you feel. I feel the same way. But the only way to really solve this problem is to just step out of your comfort zone and just make the first move. Insted of waiting for the guys to come to you just go to them. Flirt with them first. Also, I learned this the hard way, if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then do you really want the guy? You should be proud to be who you are. Just remember, everyone is pretty in their own way. I'm sure there is something that is just absolotly GORGEOUS about you. Just remember, your waiting for the special guy. Just be yourself around guys. Everyone, including guys, hate it when people act fake. And when your not being yourself or who you are you are being fake.
hope i helped
if you have any more questions please feel free to drop them in my inbox.
-E
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Your not alone,and definitely not the only person like this.Don't be shy,if you see a cute guy alone jump in and talk,most guy's want YOU to make the first move,and most of the guy's who make the first move,just want to mess around and not be serious.Trust me,be the girl who stand's out,be yourself. image should'nt matter to most.just FLIRTFLIRTFLIRT.Walk up to someone and let the convo become your love,your life.
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