Sherling123 answered Monday July 21 2008, 10:03 pm: just talk to the guy. find out the things you have in common. i know how it feels to like a guy but you don't if he likes you for you.
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LOL_x0x answered Monday July 21 2008, 5:00 pm: You can start by not sterotyping and labeling him?
From there:
"First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =]."
Volleyball2150 answered Monday July 21 2008, 4:50 pm: talk to him about the things you both have in common. Im sort of in the same spot as you, except im not emo but i sorta like this guy who is half emo and half preppy. just talk to him about the things you both have in common. be his friend and when you think that you two could almost be best friends... ask him out. =D [ Volleyball2150's advice column | Ask Volleyball2150 A Question ]
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE answered Monday July 21 2008, 4:50 pm: I really don't think it matters if you're emo or preppy. If you like him, you should try talking to you. First try talking about things you have in common. Music is always a good place to start. You guys can become friends. And then when you're comfortable tell him how you feel about him and that you like him.
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