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does he rule my life?
hi okay so i have a boyfriend and weve been together for 9 months and these past couple of month have been amazing for us. like i love him alot but the thing is, i stopped talking to all my friends and so did he. like we didnt completly isolate ourselves or anyhting its just, whenever im chilling with my friends or something i always find myself trying to find him. its not like we ditched them or anyhting but im in my last year of highschool i have a couple months of school left, and honestly the only thing that matter to me in my life right now is my family, homework, and my boyfriend. me and boyfriend just click so well and hes my best friend before everything else so thats why its so amazing between us. do you think im totally insane for not wanting to chill with my friends and i should distance myself from him? or has this happend to any of you guys? anything would be greatly appreciated. <3
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its great that you guys are in love, but you gotta make time for friends too! because in the end, friends are the ones who are ALWAYS there and plus every girl needs some girltime! you should consider apologizing to all of your friends and trying to hang out with them more often, if theyre true friends that is..if theyre not even good friends then dont worry about it but if you genuinely love them then you should definetely hang out with them and you can still hang out with your boyfriend alot too. plus absence makes the heart grow fonder..space is necessary in a relationship..and im sure he'd enjoy hanging with his friends too. but yay for you & your boyfriend and being crazy about each other though!
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No, I don't think you are insane, but I think you should consider making time for relationships with friends.
I don't mean distance yourself from him, but make time away from him to spend with others. You know, once a week, or something, that is a "friend day."
You don't want to look back on your senior year and regret time that wasn't spend with "my friend so and so."
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Personally I think its great you guys work so well with each other and want to be together as often as possible. But keep in mind other friends are almost just as important. Cause there will eventually be times you just don't want to see his face or talk to him, and without other friends, your stuck being alone to boil in your problems. I still think its great you guys build the foundation of your relationship higher and higher, but other relationships are needed as well...
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