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i never see my boyfriend :(
me and my boyfriend hav been going out for a month now, and its hard cuz we go 2 different schools. well we barely see each other, and hes ALWAYS with his bestfriend. i know guys need their time with the guys and everything but it seems like he always breaks our plans to hangout to be with his friend. he doesent really make any effort to hangout, either. i dont want him to think im like being, posesive, but i never see him! what should i do?
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you DEFINETELY need to talk to him..my boyfriend goes to a different school and we hang out almost every day..its not being posseseive to want to spend time with him and if you guys are truly good for each other and he cares about you alot he should take time away from his best friend to come see you after school..does he drive? if not then its ALOT harder to hang out alot thankfully my boyfriend drives..but anyway just tell him that you really wanna see him more often and see what he says and just carry on from there..relationships need time spent together! hope i helped.
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You need to set him down and talk to him.
I know it will be hard, but you need to
find out just how serious he is about
dating you.
Yes, guys do need time to hang out with
their friends. However, if he makes plans
with you, he shouldn't be breaking those
plans to hang out with his friends. That
is rude and inconsiderate. If he knows he
already has plans with you, he needs to
keep those plans, unless an emergency
comes up.
If he isn't willing to put you ahead of
the friends when plans have already been
made, you need to seriously decide if
you want to play second fiddle to his
friends. It sounds like he may be a
little to immature for a serious
relationship.
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Yes, guys do need time to hang out with their friends, but if this guy is breaking plans with you to do it something is wrong. If he honestly likes you he should want to spend time with you. Maybe not all the time, but he should be trying to see you. Especially since he doesn't get to see you at school. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. It's not being possessive, it's being concerned, and you have a right to be. Maybe he doesn't realize that it bothers you when you don't get to hang out, and when he cancels plans to hang out with his friends. See how he reacts. If he seems like he's going to change, let it slide. If he doesn't respond well, drop this guy. He isn't worth your time or effort.
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