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15/f I am okay with having multiple bfs and so when me and my bf started going out I told him how I felt about having more than one person and he said he doesnt agree. I said that even he could have another girlfriend and he said he wouldnt want another girlfriend because he doesnt agree with more than one. Now I dont know what to do. I dont want to break up with him but I want to have other boyfriends to.
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You want more than one - he doesn't.
The obvious thing to do is break up because he doesn't meet your needs.
If you want to keep him, you simply can't have other boys on the go at the same time. I know if I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't like you having other boyfriends at the same time. To me, the whole point of being in a relationship is so you can be with that one person. Commit to that one person. He obviously feels the same way.
So unless you can respect his views and find a way to only be with him, I doubt he is going to change his mind on this because sharing you with other people isn't exactly everyones cup of tea.
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You have to decide what is more important to you: having more than one boyfriend or keeping this guy. Obviously he likes you enough that he doesn't like the idea of you being with other guys, and he isn't interested in other girls. So you need to either commit to him on the same level as he is commited to you, or find a guy who likes having numerous girlfriends too. However, this may be hard because most guys that are like that are more interested in multiple hookups, not multiple girlfriends.
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You are going to have to compromise or break up.
His opinion is just as valid as yours. So, either you will change your mind, or you need to break up. Period.
Nothing else is respectful or rational.
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