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i spoke to my ex via email but didnt mean anything
i been with my gf for 10 months and 8 months ago i spoke to my ex through email but it didnt mean anything..she asked me how i was doing so i answered back saying im doing great and im happy with my current gf..and then i asked how she was and she said the same..me and my ex were just dating for 4 months it wasnt official or anything so when we she broke it off cuz she wasnt happy we spoke rarely afterwards,she just wanted to be friends..so i tried getting back together with her after we broke up i met her for lunch a couple times tried to get back with her i tried kissing her it didnt work i was just a real jerk..so my final email with her was me apologising to her how i was a jerk..well my current gf found out and now she dont trust me because she has had previous problems like this..she thinks i still talk to her behind her back but i told her so many times i dont want nothing to do with her..so now she wont even talk to me or nothing she said she wants her space to figure things out..but i think we should discuss things and work it out...i just need advice..my question is what should i do, what advice can you give me?
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show her the emails to prove it didnt mean anything, and sit her down and look her in the eyes and tell her that you love her and could care less about your ex. i wouldnt suggest emailing her anymore, even though its not anything bad, your gf just needs some reassurance ya know?
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Wow. Sounds like you were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Well if you have had problems in the past, you can't blame her. I have the same problems with my boyfriend. It's hard to cope with. I think you should show her the e-mail as proof that it didn't mean anything. If you are ashamed of something you said, then there isn't much you can do except keep trying to get her trust back. My boyfriend gave me his myspace login to see if I can trust him, I worry about him texting a lot though. So I check his messages every once in a while. Tell her that she is open to do that. And you would do anything to get her trust. But this stuff doesn't happen fast, it takes time. A lot of time. But give her some space, don't beg. That might make things worse. Do something for her though, bring flowers to her door or something sweet like that to really show her that you care for her and only her
Hope I helped :D
--Jenna
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Don't talk to your ex ever again. It's simple. If she means nothing to you, then you should respect your girlfriend's wishes.
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