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He's got a girlfriend but I'm still interested
I'm in college. There's a guy in my class I'm interested in but I just recently found out he has a girlfriend. I still want to make some sort of a move because he is very attractive and I may not have an opportunity to see him again. I don't know him very well. We have hardly spoken to each other. He seems to like me but then again he is very friendly with everyone.
I found his profile on myspace and I'd like to contact him but I don't know what to say considering we hardly know each other.
Any advice would be great.
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Try to keep it short and sweet. Ask him out for a cup of coffee or a drink. Then you can get a good feel on if you like him or not, also to see how serious he is about this girl. To make sure you don't step on any toes.
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Talk talk talk! Just talk and listen to him. Don't act extremly flirtatious but maybe drop subtle hints. Make sure to not get your hopes up that he will dump his girl for you. If it is meant to be you will get with him.
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Since he's in your class, it should be pretty easy to start a conversation. Be like "Whoa! That paper/test sucked! What do you think of the professor?" Or something along those lines.
After that, introduce yourself formally and ask a little more about him. I.e. his major, where he's from, where he works, etc.
Don't contact him on myspace until you talk to him in person. That might creep him out.
Anyway, once you start talking to him, invite him out for coffee or to the movies with all your friends. In college, it's really easy to get people to hang out with just by saying "Duuude... what are you doing this weekend?!" And if they aren't busy, you'll probably end up hanging out.
I promise it works. :)
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i would start off talking to him in person,THEN myspace because its always better that way. just muster all the courage you have and start a random conversation with him, start off with a compliment thats what i always do! and then after a few days you could add him on myspace and just send him a message and be like "hey hows everything going?" thats a lame example but you know what i mean! if he seems to like you, then who knows..maybe him and his gf arent meant to be and you guys are..go for him completely..its better to go for him & it not work out then to hold back & be scared! hope i helped. oh and by the way : confidence is key. you can talk about ANYTHING if you have confidence because he'll just be like ooh this girl isnt afraid to strike up a conversation..nice...
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