I love my boyfriend. We've been together for 2 years, but he's my first boyfriend.
He wants to marry me eventually. He's positive about it. He tells me all the time. And I love him so much and he's my best friend...
But I feel like... we're not right for the long run. I feel like we're perfect for each other at this point in our lives though.
But I know I'd never be sure about marriage with him since I've never dated anyone else.
I'm happy, but I feel like I'm still not sure what I want in a relationship because I haven't had experience with other guys...
But, is it okay to date someone you don't want to marry as long as you're both happy at the time?
Am I being unfair by staying in the relationship when he wants marriage? Is it okay to date someone you love but don't think you'll marry?
We're both happy and we both love each other... but looking to the future... I feel like he's not the one. Though I always want him to be my best friend.
My first boyfriend was "THE ONE" ... or so I thought. For three years. I dated him and I did love him. It was new and exciting and we had no idea what we were doing. And I really loved it and my time with him. But before long he started talking about how we would get married and start a family. I had this feeling. Not of joy or hopefulness but of just uncertainty.
I knew that it wasn't what I should be feeling whenever the guy you love is talking about marrying you. You SHOULD feel bliss and pure happiness. Well I ignored my gut feeling for the whole three years we dated. By the end of our relationship I realized that in my heart I didn't love him the way he loved me. YES I did love him, I cared for him, he was my best friend. But I didn't have plans to be with him forever and I couldn't continue acting like I did. I dated him for 9 months knowing that he wasn't "the one". I mean that was my first relationship I didn't know if that's how everything was supposed to "feel". When you kiss someone you're supposed to have that "feeling" but I'd only ever kissed him. So I would always wonder.
Finally after 9 months I got up the courage to tell him that we were over. It devastated him, and maybe me a little too.
It was hard for a month or two. Breakups always are. But then I moved on. Started dating a new boy from my church. Let me tell you. The two relationships and guys are worlds apart in difference! I hadn't truly kissed till I kissed the church boy.
So long story short. You're not doing anything wrong. Dating is what people do. However when you have different ideals about where the relationship is going things get rocky. Eventually you will either tell him the truth about your feelings (which might lead to a breakup or not. I'm not saying that he isn't the one. I just think everyone should experience other relationships) OR you will lie to him and make him believe you feel just like he does. I hope that you don't stay in the relationship though because he is safe and he loves you. You need to know for a fact that you love him too. Sometimes dating others helps.
If you continue with that gut feeling that you're not meant to be together forever I think you should tell him. I wish I had broke up with my ex sooner whenever I felt like you did. It's my biggest regret for last year.
Good Luck.
Remember there are no rules in love and life. Just follow your heart.
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How do I break up with my boyfriend that is in love with me but I dont even like him? Hes 15 and im 14.
Oh my... memories ( and not positive ones sadly).
I dated a guy for three years and I just broke up with him a month ago. Honestly though, I hadn't "loved" him for about 9-10 months before I broke up with him. The biggest mistake of my senior year in high school was NOT breaking up with him sooner. In fact now I see it ruined a lot for me because I didn't have the guts to do it.
So here is my first piece of advice- and this will be the MOST important so pay close attention :
* DO IT NOW. THIS WEEK. DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER! *
Okay now that I've got that out of the way I'll tell you how I broke up with my boyfriend of almost three years that I no longer liked, yet he was completely head over heels in love with me.
I called him on the phone (we lived two hours apart and I felt more comfortable behind the phone) and told him that I cared for him, so much. I would always remember how wonderful he is and how much he loved me. However my feelings had changed, I didn't love him like he loved me. While I would always be here if he needed to talk I felt that our relationship was over. I apologized for hurting him and I asked if he had any questions. Of course he was angry- he cried. He had questions. I answer honestly and then ended the call. He called for a few days. I would answer and tell him the same thing I did the first night. Then I quit answering his calls and texts. This is where I moved on.
I found another boyfriend about a month or so later. He's incredible and I truly think I'm in love. Totally different than my ex. I wish I had broke up sooner!!!
But don't waste your time or his by staying in the relationship. When you know it's over.. it's over. Nothing can change that.
Good Luck!
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How do you know if your in love?
When you don't have to question it. When you love this person with all the faults in them, when you can't imagine life without them and would do anything for them.
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Hi I'm 15 f and last summer2010 I fell for this guyAlomost17 but hes16and he fell for me but the whole summer we hung out but after things just randomly were not the same. I wanna go back all the time and restart things hence kiss him. What bugs me we both didn't tell each other and my guy friends told me. But anyways it's the first day of my summer and just now I balled my eyes out and it's been so long it's normal for me to cry like that. Basically Ive been on here asking the same thing nothing is working I've tried liking other guys and just keeping busy but nothing works. I want to tell him but itd be so awkwrd bc I haven't spoken to him since march. What's wrong with me how do I deal with this. I'm crazy:((((((
This is just me but I think that LOVE is what we live for. Love is one of the greatest and most precious things there is. Regret though has got to be the worst. Regret will always leave you wondering, and wishing of what COULD have been had you done something differently.
Now time for a sad little example that I hope will help: I have a friend who is in her late sixties and lives about 20 minutes away. She is in contact with a man she has known since highschool ( he is 70) who now lives across the country. They dated back in highschool and things got weird and she walked away. They truly loved each other and to this day they have NEVER got over what COULD have happened if they had just told one another how they felt. The man went on to marry and have 3 kids, shortly after he was divorced and that is when they became freinds again. To this day he asks himself WHAT IF I had just told her... maybe things would be different.
Now some people believe in fate, that if it's ment to happen it will. Well this is partially true I guess but you don't need the regret of wondering how things might've turned out. Not saying you guys will even get married, but you just never know.
SO now that my example is out of the way I just want to leave you and tell you that you should talk to him. Do it when no one else is hanging around and tell him how you feel... if it helps tell him how awkward it is ( it does help believe it or not, and you don't sound stupid. I am speaking from experience). I wish you the best.
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My boyfriend says that we haven't been together long enough to be married and I don't understand. He and i met each other when i was 16 and he was 17. He always told me that once we graduated from college that we could get married. We were in programs in college that didn't allow us to get married or we'd get kicked out. Now that I'm 23 and he's 24. He still hasn't proposed after 7 years.After all of the family christmases, sex and 'i love you's'... It hurts. Do you think we haven't been together long enough?
Yes, For you I think you've been together plenty long enough. Men are a different story. Sometimes I think my boyfriend is... well... clueless. But we still love our men through all the crap they do.
Now as for your boyfriend I would just keep quiet, let him make his move. BUT give him a time frame ( don't tell him this though). Let's say by the time he you are 25-26 if he hasn't proposed you should start giving him not so subtle hints, or boldly tell him. Now I don't know if you are willing to wait that long but sometimes men are slow and , idk.... its like they have to take certain things slower or they will mess up. Sort of like how we have a plan of our future, husband, house, job, kids... all that is planned out. But for men... they know that they want or don't want those things but they really don't have any sort of plan or order for it. So they don't have a plan of when things will happen but that they will just know. I know this sounds really complicated and I did just drink a large black coffee... but I hope that makes sense. Give him a little more time, THEN hint if he is still being slow. Also some men want to be stable before they bring marriage into the picture, with a job and a way to financially support them as well as their wife. So maybe that's the case, I don't know, but you do. Be patient, this will not be the last time that he is dragging his feet on something. I wish you the best of luck.
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Hey. 13/f. So I went to a school dance and many guys were being kinda rude to me.(ok fat guys grinding the hell outta meand my friend.) I met a guy who took me away from those guys and like saved me. he told me i was really pretty, we should text, and he couldnt wait to see me again some other time. Weve been texting alot and hes really great. he says the same bout me and how good i look. we r going to c a movie soon and he wants to kiss me. from this info, is this relationship gunna work out? THANKS
Of course there is no way to know 100% unfortunately, but it sounds like it definitely has the possibility of working. He likes you, you've got a date, he isn't a jerk ( since he saved you). He sounds really sincere so I say that yes it can work out.
CD
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recently i asked a question about this boy i had an major crush, Kyle. i really like him and still do to this day . well yesterday he didn't go to skater city and it was crazy boring , so i Texted last night said ' you should be happy you didn't come ' he said ' why ' i was like ' it crazy boring ' he said ' haha ' and i was like ' hahaa , thats not nice' and that was the end of our conversation he still doesn't noe i like hi
but i just don't want to tell him , and then he will probably think im a creep . this always happen to me i Have a crush on a boy and realize why are you trying your ugly . so i just feel like i should give up on love because i feel Gur never going to work . people call me pretty etc still i don't see when it comes to boys . its like if im not ugly than why cant i be happy in love .
Just because you're pretty doesn't mean you're gonna find a guy. Sure guy's love pretty girls, at first. But in order to fall in love you have to find that one guy who loves every part of you, flaws and all.
So, before you start thinking about telling a boy you like him, or dating him I would get to know him. Make sure he gives you crazy butterflies whenever you accidentally brush against his hand... you will KNOW when he likes you. You just do. I know that sounds crazy but I know that you will find that out soon. This Kyle ... I'm not so sure he is the one. Now he could be. I'd invite him out to the movies or bowling, if that is more casual. Do a small group of friends if you want. Hang out with him. Give a week then see if you want to tell him how you feel.
I'm sure you're not ugly. You just haven't found the guy that will think you're the love of his life ... yet. ( be optimistic and don't ever doubt yourself)
CD
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Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up last year, and like most break ups it was a horrible time for me. I missed him so much etc. I feel worse because I initiated the break up but by the time I realised (the day later) what i'd lost, he wasn't interested.
From then onwards i've felt so down. I've tried meeting new guys but it's just not working out for me. I meet so many guys and I get to know them but I feel like they aren't "for me" It's not that i'm holding onto my ex, because i'm not. But after the great relationship I had with him, I want to better that in my next. Is it normal to feel this way? It's getting me really down.
Your ex showed you what its like to have a really good relationship. Even though things ended you wouldnt want to date someone you feel would be , how do I put this... "lower" then your ex. So its only natural you are looking for someone to make you just, and more, happy in the relationship. The only problems that will occur will be the ones you've already discovered. There are few guys in the world that are absolutely AMAZING, so it takes a while to find them. Keep looking. Don't settle.
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F/15I have told my parents I was thinking of having sex for he first time with my boyfriend we've been dating for about 5 monks and He is really sweet my parents agree with me and hy say it is ok to have sex with Alejandro (boyfriend) I don't understand why they said yes but me and my boyfriend are pretty happy abou them saying yes along as we use protection why did my parents say yes I dnt get it
Probably because you talked to them about or told them. They probably know that you're gonna do it anyways with permission or whatever.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 8 months. He is also my first boyfriend, which I know is a little weird since I was 17 when we started going out.
Before him, there was only one other guy who I briefly casually dated a few times but it fizzled out. Other than that my guy history is empty.
Whenever my current boyfriend asks me about who I've last dated I change the subject or dance around it. To me its awkward and embarrasing to talk about since he has had numerous people he's dated before me. I also know that he deserves to know this stuff and it shouldn't be a big deal, but it just makes me feel weird.
I really don't know what to do about it, but the subject does come up from time to time.
Any advice on how to approach this?
Deja Vu same thing happened to me. I only dated ONE guy before meeting the love of my life. I felt so ... inexperienced I guess you could say, never kissed anyone before either. Finally I just told him about the one guy. He was shocked and I thought .... oh no... he thinks I'm a freak :/
HOWEVER he was shocked and he was glad... he couldn't believe it but he didn't think I was a freak at all. He said that it showed that I don't date around I truely care about someone when I chose them. 7 months later we are still together
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so my bf and i have been gng out for awhile and everytime he comes to kiss me like french kiss i get all nervous and pull away and its starting to worry him. i know its stupid but its also starting to worry me..... any ideas????????
I agree with WingYang start out a little softer get close arms around with closed mouth kissing. Shut those eyes and feel what your body is telling you. When you're ready open your mouth some and he will get the hint.
Going slow is actually better in my opinion because it just builds up... also I suggest putting your arms around his waist. I mean I know its ideal for them to be around his neck, but having your hands around his waist just seems better to me.. idk.. try it
CD
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Hi. I'm Penny, 17 years old, college freshman.
So, last week I think I realized that I liked my classmate. We've been classmates since the school year started and I've been sort of liking him on and off. So, anyways, now that I've established the fact that I liked him, I decided to try my best to engage in conversation.
So the other day, we were together in school because we were both headed to the same building. So it was just us two. Alone. I'd ask him a question and then he'd just answer and then it'd be quiet again. I kept going at it but it still ended the same way. We decided to eat a little before getting to class and well, whenever I said something, he'd just answer, and then it'd be quiet and then it'd be awkward. I felt so defeated it's almost as if I wanted to give up (but I don't intend to).
Anyways, there. I don't really know what to do. I've studied in an exclusive girls school for four years of high school and I think I've forgotten how to act around guys.
Aside from this, our relationship is kind of complex. I don't know if we're like friends or merely classmates. But we've been around together lately 'cause we have 3 classes together. He tends to make fun of me sometimes (and he does it to other people too, unfortunately). I tend to make fun of him as well. And somehow it's kinda weird to transition from that into idk something else? Well, idk. This is why I need advice.
So, please help me?:( I really wanna know how to handle the situation (and maybe someone could give me flirting tips and tips on what to talk about, etc.). Thanks in advance!
xoxo
Alright so you need a refresher on flirting. First off make eye contact, but don't stare. You can occasionally give him a glance in class if he catches you look him in the eye for about 3 seconds then glance back to the teacher or your work, phone... something.
Do your best with your makeup ( if you don't already dab some lip gloss on... dress cute. don't go over the top)
Laugh at his jokes ( your normal laugh) and smile. Maybe next time compliment him on something... shirt... hair... anything. Maybe ask if you can look at his notes over dinner at a place a little more fancy after class. Ask him about something that will require him to talk. Where he grew up at, hometown, life goals.. whatever to get him talking and to find out more about him.
Classic flirting tip is to occasionally brush against his hand or touch his arm when you're walking together and laughing. If he has a facebook or email or something get it. If he does have a facebook don't stalk him infact I don't suggest even adding him but give him a poke.
Give it a little time and see if things change.
CD
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and as we get closer and closer I find more and more things to love about him. He has been telling me he had something he had to tell me but every time he would try it would be really hard for him and he would just say he would tell me another time. Well last night we finally talked. The story is way too complex to share all the details, so in a nutshell, his ex-girlfriend he was with for 3 years had an abortion. She is bipolar and he had reason to believe she wasn't even telling the truth. He went along with it until the day she actually took care of it.... I could tell by the way he was telling me and by him crying that he feels so guilty. This girl was cheating with him on another guy and so he will never even know for sure if it was his baby or not. But the fact that there is a chance that it could have been his just eats away at him. He told me he felt like I needed to know in case it ever came up down the road. He just sat there crying and saying how he was a bad person and how he should have stopped her...... what can I do to help him with this guilt? I have no experience with this matter and I have no idea what to say....... I really want to help him....
You have been together for quite some time now. So I get that you feel for him, maybe love, idk. I know how it feels to love and care for someone but not being able to do anything to help them. In my case it had to do with family issues. BUT in any case you have to be there for him. Show him you care and you are trying to understand. You need to show empathy for him and what has happened don't act like you feel sorry. Try to relate to how he is feeling. Try and pull him back down to life, I'd just hug him if he wants to cry.. cry. You don't want him to think that you think he is weak by crying and showing emotion.
Next I suggest talking about it some more and if he can't with you then someone else. He has to get these feelings out or they will eat away at him forever.
It might help by saying that what happened was awful. But he can't change that. He has a future ahead... maybe a family ( maybe with you).
I'm sorry you are in this situation and I feel for your relationship. This can make it stronger though. Couples who overcome things grow closer. If you need someone to talk to about what you're feeling let me know. I'm sure that this has affected you in some way. Be there for him, comfort him,
CD
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So, my boyfriend & I broke up in August. We'd been dating for 11 months. Hes a junior, Im a freshman. We were in love, but i guess i got too clingy or something and he just didnt feel the same love as before. Its now February, and for about a month I've been talking to this senior. He's super nice, but I think he still likes this chick he had a thing with a few months ago. I dunno how she feels about him but whatever. So yeah I kinda like this senior. DONT tell me Im too young, because at my school this happens all the time. My ex and I still talk, but he's such a flirt sometimes I dont know if its genuine. Recently he seems to like talking to me again. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I always will. But I kinda do wanna give this senior thing a try, & he's also nice and we have things in common already. Even after typing this all out, I'm thinking to give the senior thing a go, but I'd like a little bit more experienced advice please. Thanks very much! :)
You are definetely not too young, I hated when people tried to tell me that. Keep an eye on this other girl though guys sometimes use someone new to either make the old girlfriend jealous or maybe he is trying to forget about her and use the new girl for a distraction. I'm not saying this is the case. Of course you know him better than I do. Just watch out because it hurts to have your heart broken, which I'm guessing you know. I guess if I was in your position I would just ask my ex what is going on. From past experiences I wish I would've done that with one of my ex's in highschool. I always felt like there was something between us, like there once was but I NEVER asked. I wish I had. It's better to know. So once you figure that out I'd just do the whole " follow your heart" thing and if you wanna try this new senior go for it. Just remember to watch out.
CD
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I met this guy on this chatting website last summer. We started talking alot & we even started texting. Now it's been like 8 months since we've been talking to each other as friends. We flirt & stuff (; ahaa but its just normal convos. He always texts me first, but in some weeks he doesn't textt me at all. Should I text him? Do you think he wants me to text him? Or does he just not text me because he gets bored of me? Pleasee help. I would like to know . Thnks (:
Text him... you never know what is going on he could be overwhelmed by school work or sports. From personal experience, maybe he likes you a lot and is afraid you don't return the same feeling. Don't be afriad text him and and ask what is going on.
CD
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My exboyfriend and I broke up less than a week ago and he has some serious issues and thinks im crazy (because im not going to lie i got angry and said some hateful things, but doesn't everyone do that after a bad breakup?), but thats just to make him feel better for the decision he made. I am unemployed and have applied at over 30 places and the one place that calls me back is in the same shopping center to where he works (and it looks like we will be working the same hours). Once he sees my car or me going into work he is going to think im stalking him or "oh she got a job right beside me so she can spy on me or harass me" i just want to get over him and hope that nothing will happen. my plan is to just go to work; in and out with my head down and not even look his way. I wish i had a choice to not take this job, but i need it and have no choice. How am I going to deal with working right next door to him? what if he blows it out of porportion and starts to harass me? Please help!
If he has a problem tell him that he is completely paranoid and that you could care less if he was in the same place or not. You've moved on and that you think its time he should too.
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hi. im a senior in my school and i will graduate pretty soon.
but i actually don't want to because i have a big crush on one of my last year's teachers who is 10 years older than me.
i dont mean to brag or anything, but i am a kind of nice looking girl and 4 guys in the school keep asking me out. but i avoid all of them just because of him :(. he is really nice to me, he always says hi to me, always hugs me, stares at me, and sometimes even winks at me. and every time he does not say hi i get depressed. but i try to run away from him, because i think it will be embarrassing if he finds out about my feelings.
do you think i should tell him about my feelings?!?
i really really like him. what should i do? helpp!
STOP, don't tell him anything. Atleast not yet. If you do care about him then wait till you graduate and find out how he feels, atleast so you'll know. Then decide if you want a relationship. I wouldn't advise you to though especially if you are going to go to college and start a future, this man is 10 years old than you and I know age doesn't matter, but a whole decade???
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k so i have a huge problem... i had a long distance relationship with a guy i admit he was kind of a jerk most of the time but recently he's been doing things right, he cares and proves it to me that he loves me, he's about to come to my city to visit for a while in about 3 weeks, ive stayed faithful the WHOLE time, but then i just recently met a new guy who's just here on exchange and he will be leaving at the end of the semester so either of these guys won't be here with me for long, i do love my long distance bf cause we've been through alot ! and the fact he cares so much to come all the way over here he literally lives in the other side of the world...but also ive been spending alot of time with this new guy and i do like him alot aswell although i dont know his intentions yet ( like just hook up or to be a couple ) i mean tbh i thought ok so he's just looking for a hook up and we didnt do anything but kissed and he has never tried to do anything other than that with me, which to be honest its impressive cause most guys who are here just temporarily come to look for girls etc and meaningless encounters ... but he hasnt tried ANYTHING but to hold my hand kiss me and hold me even when we're at uni which to be honest seemed weird ! cause most guys here who are just fooling around wouldn't actually want to be seen with just one girl....so i feel VERY bad for my bf i mean we were finally gonna meet and he was gonna be here for quiet a long time and hes comming in about 3 weeks !! so it's like...i don't know what to do !! i wanna keep hanging with this guy and see where it leads but sometimes im dying out of guilt !! when ive been with him all day and then find out i have tons of missing texts from my bf ....and i have to lie to him about it, he has always been paranoid about me cheating and the truth is i never did !! not even close! i dont know why like i just didnt care about getting close to other guys even if it was just a one time date ! even if theye were hot and all! and this guy comes and i dont know why i agreed to go out with him ! but at the same time i dont wanna choose between the two of them ! i feel i NEED to meet the other guy cause after a very long time he is finally comming (he had trouble with money etc) but at the same time i like the idea of being with the new guy cause at least id be able to see him often of course until he finally leaves FOREVER ....and my bf i could keep seeing him through months cause he's gonna start receiving alot of money per month which means he can come more often....i dont know what to do ...... i have never done anything like this before ever :S and now im just so confused and feeling guilty !
Alright, you're cleary in a tough situation. You need to figure things out ASAP. I'd just talk to the new guy. He sounds great and caring, and just ask him what his intentions are. So confront him about it and if he wants to be in a relationship then talk about how you are going to make this work sinse it would be long distance. No he won't be gone forever ,if you can make your relationship work with your BF then you can this new guy too. I wouldn't tell your BF anything until you find out what you're going to do. Find out soon and if you decide you want to try this relationship with this new guy I would. I'd tell your boyfriend that things are complicated right now and you need to take a break. Maybe if you tell him soon enough he can put this trip on hold for awhile. Then you need to go out with this new guy some and if you truely are feeling things for him you have to end the long distant relationship with your boyfrine. Never lead someone on. Don't tell him you are dating someone but if you have to just say you're interested in someone.
I hope things workout for the best, CD Inbox me if you need to talk
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Hopefully u remember I'm the one who isn't happy well I have French with him .... Here's the main part my kinda friend from a different school is talking talking to him and they both like each other but nothing is happening it's like me and him back then.. So I don't know what to do things just keep getting worse.... I have noone to go to anymore I think my friend thinks I'm pathetic with him so I just don't feel comfortable talking bout it and plus im kinda a shy girl well I'm the girl who has the boys come and talk to me I mean I'm not freakishly shy just a little I get scared idk what's wrong with me:/
There isn't a thing in the world wrong with you. It's normal to feel like that, especially around someone that you like. I still feel that way. Evertime my boyfriend of 8 months calls I get nervous. In the future I guess we will all look back at our teen years and laugh ( I hope so). But this friend of yours isn't someone I would talk to about your relationship status. Again from personal experience my BEST FRIEND hates when I talk about my boyfriend or about concerns I have. She thinks that I am crazy and she isn't afraid to tell me. It used to hurt my feels someone because your FRIEND shouldn't be like that. I don't know what it is but I've learned to overlook her and I suggest the same for you. No one knows how you feel but YOU. Now as for the boy. He can't read your mind. Guys usually are terrible at seeing when a girl likes them. I would try your best to talk to him again. You can't stop him from having feelings for the other girl. Which I can only imagine must make you feel bad. Keep in mind if you do start talking to him and he does end up dating this other girl that it is NOT the end. Of course he isn't going to go out on a date or anything like that with you but keep a friendship with him because chances are he is going to either break up with her because he was going to anyways or because he likes you too much. Just work on building a relationship with him.
Hope that this helps, let me know what happens if you have anymore problems or just wanna talk :)
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This is my 3 Ed time asking basically the same question ... Well just advice I need it I'm pathetic I'm getting angry with other people including my family. So here the thing me and this guy hung out so much in the summerlike every day but after the group was done our talking kept getting distant. I started to really like him after summer even though I shoulda liked him when I had more of a chance he use to like me but I know hesitant like me anymore.. Bc I heard he's talking with another girl. He made me so happy I was nicer to people and now I'm stressed bc well I'm not happy like I tried so hard to get him back and to get over him it's to a point where it's gone to far. He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman he was in my math class but now we switch classes so I think I might have French with him but I'm not sure anyways it makes it worse that I see him all the time in school I just can't get my mind off of him and me not with him I'm just moody with different people. I have tried so hard to get over this guy believe and I gave it time it's just not working I've tried everything I'm stuck I'm moody and it's annoying 15 f I need elp:/
Ever think this might be a little more than a crush. When you find someone who makes YOU a better person its a really special thing. You can't make someone like you but chances are if you felt this way then he probably still has feelings for you. I would find out what class you have with him wait a couple days and try to act normal maybe say hello. Then ask if you can hang out sometime or if you have the same lunch ask if he would like to eat with you. After a week of that or maybe two of getting back to talking and he is single I would tell him you like him. Yes putting yourself out there for your heart to be broken is hard but its worth it in the end. Plus, I've been there. Just talking to him at first may hurt but just be patient and be thankful that you get to do that.
Best of luck and inbox me if you need to talk
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