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Torn Between Ex & New Boy..
So, my boyfriend & I broke up in August. We'd been dating for 11 months. Hes a junior, Im a freshman. We were in love, but i guess i got too clingy or something and he just didnt feel the same love as before. Its now February, and for about a month I've been talking to this senior. He's super nice, but I think he still likes this chick he had a thing with a few months ago. I dunno how she feels about him but whatever. So yeah I kinda like this senior. DONT tell me Im too young, because at my school this happens all the time. My ex and I still talk, but he's such a flirt sometimes I dont know if its genuine. Recently he seems to like talking to me again. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I always will. But I kinda do wanna give this senior thing a try, & he's also nice and we have things in common already. Even after typing this all out, I'm thinking to give the senior thing a go, but I'd like a little bit more experienced advice please. Thanks very much! :)
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take it from me! i made theee mistake of ditching a new boy for my ex-moral of the story-GO WITH THE NEW BOY TRY SOMETHING NEW because all the same problems were there with my ex once time started unfolding. i still regret taking him back and not fully giving the new boy a chance...seeing as i wound up dumping my ex and havent been able to get the new boy back :(
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Everything happens for a reason , your break up happen for a reason . Idkk , if it was for the senior and obviously you dont know ither, but you should try out that senior and give him a shot and move on to something big and better, and if it doesnt work out not saying it wont then you will see were you made your mistake and just look for someone else , but if it does you will be looking lucky you did listen too my advice . GOOD LUCK . (:
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Your relationship with your ex ended for a reason. Moving onto another guy doesnt make what you had with your ex any less meaningful nor does it erase your past with him. And feelings dont just go away overnight. But you owe it to yourself to be happy.
Dont think about the future or a commitment with him. Keep things light hearted, no pressure, and invite him out for a drink. You can both see where this goes.
You can still be friends with your ex whether things work out with this senior or not and you'll soon know if the relationship progresses whether or not hes still into his ex.
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You are definetely not too young, I hated when people tried to tell me that. Keep an eye on this other girl though guys sometimes use someone new to either make the old girlfriend jealous or maybe he is trying to forget about her and use the new girl for a distraction. I'm not saying this is the case. Of course you know him better than I do. Just watch out because it hurts to have your heart broken, which I'm guessing you know. I guess if I was in your position I would just ask my ex what is going on. From past experiences I wish I would've done that with one of my ex's in highschool. I always felt like there was something between us, like there once was but I NEVER asked. I wish I had. It's better to know. So once you figure that out I'd just do the whole " follow your heart" thing and if you wanna try this new senior go for it. Just remember to watch out.
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