Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2011, 7:47 pm
Hopefully u remember I'm the one who isn't happy well I have French with him .... Here's the main part my kinda friend from a different school is talking talking to him and they both like each other but nothing is happening it's like me and him back then.. So I don't know what to do things just keep getting worse.... I have noone to go to anymore I think my friend thinks I'm pathetic with him so I just don't feel comfortable talking bout it and plus im kinda a shy girl well I'm the girl who has the boys come and talk to me I mean I'm not freakishly shy just a little I get scared idk what's wrong with me:/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cheryl_diamond answered Thursday January 20 2011, 4:46 pm: There isn't a thing in the world wrong with you. It's normal to feel like that, especially around someone that you like. I still feel that way. Evertime my boyfriend of 8 months calls I get nervous. In the future I guess we will all look back at our teen years and laugh ( I hope so). But this friend of yours isn't someone I would talk to about your relationship status. Again from personal experience my BEST FRIEND hates when I talk about my boyfriend or about concerns I have. She thinks that I am crazy and she isn't afraid to tell me. It used to hurt my feels someone because your FRIEND shouldn't be like that. I don't know what it is but I've learned to overlook her and I suggest the same for you. No one knows how you feel but YOU. Now as for the boy. He can't read your mind. Guys usually are terrible at seeing when a girl likes them. I would try your best to talk to him again. You can't stop him from having feelings for the other girl. Which I can only imagine must make you feel bad. Keep in mind if you do start talking to him and he does end up dating this other girl that it is NOT the end. Of course he isn't going to go out on a date or anything like that with you but keep a friendship with him because chances are he is going to either break up with her because he was going to anyways or because he likes you too much. Just work on building a relationship with him.
Hope that this helps, let me know what happens if you have anymore problems or just wanna talk :) [ cheryl_diamond's advice column | Ask cheryl_diamond A Question ]
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