so my bf and i have been gng out for awhile and everytime he comes to kiss me like french kiss i get all nervous and pull away and its starting to worry him. i know its stupid but its also starting to worry me..... any ideas????????
itdependsonyoux3 answered Tuesday February 1 2011, 10:12 pm: Just go with the flow.
theres a first time for everything and i know its scary, but if you never try it, youll never get better at it.
honestly, "french kissing" is so natural. you just have to start out slow [like everyone else said] and get into it. itll help you not think about it as much. and if you mess up, laugh about it.
practice makes perfect hun.
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DearAbby92 answered Tuesday February 1 2011, 5:43 pm: Don't worry so much about it. Tell him that you are kind of new at this and that you want him to teach you. Follow what he does and as you do it more the better the both of you will get.
cheryl_diamond answered Tuesday February 1 2011, 5:43 pm: I agree with WingYang start out a little softer get close arms around with closed mouth kissing. Shut those eyes and feel what your body is telling you. When you're ready open your mouth some and he will get the hint.
Going slow is actually better in my opinion because it just builds up... also I suggest putting your arms around his waist. I mean I know its ideal for them to be around his neck, but having your hands around his waist just seems better to me.. idk.. try it
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WingYan answered Tuesday February 1 2011, 3:59 pm: It's normal to be nervous in doing things we have no experience in. But there's only one way you're going to be confident about it and that's simply by practice. Instead of diving into the deep end start by giving him soft and sensual closed mouth kisses and as you feel more comfortable in doing so you can go a little further. It comes naturally. All you have to do is feel it. You'll feel the time is right so just let it happen naturally. D'ont force it. [ WingYan's advice column | Ask WingYan A Question ]
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