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whats goodd everyonee? let me tell you a little about myself. im 16 i live in newjersey, most of my freinds come to me for advice and i love it. i plan on being a psychologist so this is good practice for me :) dont be scared on asking me anything, i will try my best on helping youu.-xoxo, Juju
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Hi there,
This:
"No because sperm dies when it touches air or any fabric so your fine dont worry :)"
... is not true.
We usually ban people for spreading rumors like this, but you obviously try in your other answers, so I deleted the answer and thought I would just send you a friendly warning. :-)
Please be more careful what you tell people. To be clear, the answer you gave is 100% rumor. Remember that in your own life too. ;-)
okaythanks !
Okay well my uncle got very sick one day & ever since i've just been so down; i dont want anything to happen to him, i cry every day & im starting to think im getting depressed ... my grades are going down, im getting in fights with my sister, i dont know how to handle this; help! :(
hey cheer up and read this.
So my boyfriend and I have sex, with no problem. But if we try and switch positions to where i'm on top, we have to stop cause it hurts. Many people do it, but i just can't. It really does hurt. Is there a way where I can be on top, and it won't hurt, or at least tell me why it does. Please help, Thanks.
He may be getting too deep for you when you are on the top. There is also a serious virus that can cause pain when making love. It can turn into cervical cancer, if left undiagnosed. You might want to talk to your gynecologist about this.
hope i helped!
Okay so like i have a crush on this guy & im starting to think hes gay.. he doesnt talk to any girls, his friends told me my crush has touched them in the butt, or tried to hug them or something... HELP!
1. Get to know him
Just go and talk about things that relate to him and see his reaction. Viewing his reactions to stimuli allow you to get inside his head and connect with him by recognizing his pattern behavior.
Once he feels you understand him, friendship and trust are soon to follow. He’ll come to you with more personal conversations, and eventually the topic of sexual desire is sure to come up. Remember, the closer you get to him, the more signs of homosexuality will reveal themselves!
2. Observe his eye-contact style
How does he look at you and other guys? Does he give friendly looks or is it an erotic gaze? Eyes truly are the window of the soul! Observe his eye-contact style with men in conversation and compare it to his looks at women when speaking to them.
Finally, when investigating a guy’s sexuality, look for most, if not all of these signs. And remember that there is no system that is full or fool proof. But, there is one for sure is that if you see him holding hands with another cute boy in a tight pink t-shirt, then he's probably a gay!
hope i helped! :)
Hey you guys, I really need your help. I only been dating my boyfriend less than a week right now and valentines day is coming up, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. So can you guys give me some gift suggestions? I really am stuck.
1. Something related to his hobby
If your boyfriend has a specific hobby try considering them something relates to it. If he is a musician and plays guitar try buying some guitar picks and putting them in a little box tied with a ribbon and a card. Guitar picks are not expensive and they are very useful.You could even make jewelry out of them. All you'd need is a guitar pick and a chain. Get the guitar pic and poke a hole (it's best to use a very flimsy guitar pick as one that is to hard will make it difficult to get a hole through it.) you just want a hole that is big enough to thread the chain through. I used a hammer and small
nail to make my hole, you can be creative and use anything that will make a small sufficient hole. Then thread the string through and you have a necklace that is unisex.
If he plays the drums try getting some new sticks for him, find out which one he uses and buy those, tie them with red ribbon and a card and you're done.
2. Small box with Kisses.
You can get a small box like a small gift box and fill it with 365 chocolate kisses! Then add a little note explaining that he now can have a kiss everyday of the year from you. This is a great idea especially for those long distance relationships.
3. Pictures.
Another great gift idea is to take a picture of you and your boyfriend or even just one of yourself and have it framed nicely. If he has his own place itwould be a great addition don't you think?
4. Little gift box.
Most local dollar stores offer little gift boxes that are decorative and inexpensive. Then just be creative! You can fill it with his favorite chocolates, candy, coffee, a small stuffed animal, and even add something pertaining to his hobby like guitar picks or drum sticks, even sports memorabilia. Wrap it in cellophane and add a card and bow. It's quick, creative and yummy too!
hope i helped!
one of my best friend i fall in love with him and i propsed him also but he says that he is not having feeling on with me.. please i need help.truely im in love...
you need to move on and stay friends with him because you dont wan him to be out of your life so just respect his decision and try going out and meeting other guys and stay friends with him.
hope i helped!
I am 15 and a girl. I am having trouble at school. My friendship group are very Geeky, however i am not. I just moved last term but now i have realised I got myself into the wrong group.
There is a popular group who all the boys like and they are all close and good friends.
How do i brake from my current group and join what we call "the populars"
Please help!
From, currently geeky teen.
maybeee you shoulddd ask one of them to be your partner in class and just talk to one of them and get to know her and maybe she will ask you tooo hangouttt. :)
it must be hard being the new girl but dontworry your gonna fit in sooner or later . just try to talk to themm if there in your classes.
wats the best sex position to give ur girlfriend an orgasm?
try doggy stylee :p
OK so i think some blackberry's have this..but say I am texting somebody and my friend who is sitting next to me tries to peak at the screen..she can't see it. what is this called? & what blackberry's have this capability
its called privacy screen and its not on your blackberry its an actual screen protector that you have to buy.
hope i helped!
if u have any questions just ask
-Juju
17/f My problem is that there's this, i guess you could call him my friend - he's actually my teacher but i'm a sixth year and we live in a small community so we know each other out of school. He's also gay before anyone comes to any conclusions about whats going on - but he been acting strange for the past week or two. He's not his usual cheery self or even his sarcastic or grumpy self, it's like he's completely vacant. usually when we're together, we're laughing or joking around, we do talk seriously but usually that's not necessary, however at the moment, it's almost awkward when we're together. Uncomfortable. What i need advice on is whether i should ask what the heck his problem is or just let him work it all out, because despite everything he's still my teacher.
by the way i'm pretty sure it's nothing to do with his home life because i work with his partner and he seems fine.
cheers
i think you should ask him what is wrong because even though he is you teacher, he is also your friend and if he felt something was wrong with you he would probably and if he doesn't want to tell you, just respect it and tell him you will be there for him if he needs anything.
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju
Hi,
I'm having more of a problem with my hair as time goes by. I have elbow length hair. My hair needs to be washed every other day as my scalp/hair- esp front gets oily otherwise. After I wash it- I use Garnier shampoo and the deep conditioner- my hair becomes extremely tangled. i can never brush it, it needs combing for a good 20minutes and then can i only style it. I usually let it airdry and only on occasion I blowdry and straighten. Since the last year it feels as if my hair is getting more damaged/unhealthy. Am not sure what to do. I dont use anything else, no styling products, no hair color. Some say not to wash it as often but I ve been doing that since forever and otehrwise it will get oily. Am I using the right shampoo. Do I need to use any other product. Please advice for both the unhealthy and tangled problems!
THanks.
heyy girly,
well this happans to me so let me tell you what i ussually do.
-when im in the shower i put tons of conditioner in my hair then put it up in a bun for atleast 5 min. then take it out and run my fingers through it to take the tangles out and then wash it out.
that really lets the conditioner set in our hair and makes it very smooth.
-i bought Nexxus deep conditioner which i use twice a week. but for you u can use it how ever much ure hair needs.
this is used after you get out of the shower, comb ure hair with a wide toothe comb (this does less damage than a brush) then i put the deep conditioner all over my hair and run the comb over and leave it in over night or how ever long you wish.
-i also have a frizz eaze leave in conditiong spray which is used after i get out of the shower, i spray it in and it detangles and conditions my hair all day long. :)
hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.
-xoxo juju
Why do people say i look asian when im not? I'm mexican and i don't see how i look asian. It really pisses me off when someone tells me i look filipino or something and it really lowers my self- esteem. Please helpp.
Maybe they tell you this because your eyes? im not sure because ive never seen you but you probably are very pretty and if you just stop listening to people you will be happy because people in this world love to push buttons and they probably tell you that because they want to get you mad or somting so dont give them the satisfaction of you being mad. just say thanks and walk away :)
i hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju
How do you tell a dude that goes to the same school as you how you feel about him and not be afraid to tell him to his face?
well if you really think hes feels the same way and your are 100 percent sure than you should hangout with him during the weekend and tell him. but if ure not quite sure then you may get hurt since he might not feel the same way. another way is for you to wait till he grows some balls and tells you.
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju
Hey everyone 13/f I was wondering how you get a guy you don't even know to like you? I like this guy but he don't even really no me I have talked to him twice but he wouldn't know me if he saw me. He goes to a differen't school than me but I am going to his school tomorrow for a basketball game and I want him to notice me. The thing is is that he is super popular so that makes it worse. I really need help:) Thanks(:
welll maybe you like him because you just want a boyfriend because since you neveer hung out with him you dont really know him enough for you to like him. but if you want him to notice you maybe you should straighten your hair, put alittle mascara on and most importantly dont be obnoxious for ex. (laughing really loud)(tlking too much) beause guys find that annnoying maybe you should sit by him and look at him a few times and if he recognizes looks at youu maybe u should be like heyy do i know you from somewhere? or somthing like thatt. :)
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask.
-xoxo juju
This boy I have been dating for a year and a half just dumped me. He has done this several times since november. He always ends up coming back. He thinks hes not good enough for me because he isnt doing well in college and is basically doing nothing right now. The problem is, I cant get him out of my head. It happened friday, he called me that night but i ended the conversation early. Then he called me twice on saturday but I ignored them because I dont know what he could possibly want to say to a girl he dumped? I guess I just dont know what to do. I know I SHOULD move on. but I kind of want to talk to him, but I will probably end up getting sucked back in. I love him a lot and Im scared if i move on until maybe hes made himself happy more than I will loose him forever or he will find another girl or something. Theres so much anxiety that I have. But everyones telling me its the best thing for me to be without him because I am driven and doing well while he doesn't really move on. Any thoughts or words of wisdom to help me would be greatly appreciated. Ive never felt this lost :/
aaww :( dont worry everyone goes through this. its the worst feeling in the world because you love him and miss him so much and you have anxiety not talking to him. i know the feeling. I honestly dont think he broke up with you for that reason because if he really did feel that way he would appriciate that your in his life not take you out of it, there for you need to move on.
here are a few helping ways to do it.
1. Delete him from EVERYTHING phone, facebook, pictures.
2. Focus on making your self happy and not needing someone there to make you happy.
3. Go out with your friends and try not to stay home too much.
4. Always be around possitive loving people.
5. Get your hair done, make your self feel good :)
and remember that you need someone who will never wanan let you go nomatter the situation.
hope i helped girly :)
if you have any questions just ask
-xoxo Juju
I'm 15 and a girl my boyfriend says we been dating along time And it's true he says we should take our relationship to he next level and to him that means getting intamite I'm not sure what to do out of my friends I'm still the only virgin
please dont do it if your not ready!
all of my friends had sex around 15 and they say they regretted it so much and they wish they waited. dont do anything just because you friends do it. if your boyfriend treats you amazing and loves you for you and you both are bestfreinds then its your descision but if you have an unstable relationship and he doesnt treat you good and you think he will just use you. then please wait.
i hope i helped!
if you have questions just ask
-xoxo Juju
so my bf and i have been gng out for awhile and everytime he comes to kiss me like french kiss i get all nervous and pull away and its starting to worry him. i know its stupid but its also starting to worry me..... any ideas????????
yes the first time can be veryyyyy scarey. you might shake and palms get sweaty, but thats COMPLETLY normal:) if you keep pulling away he might think you dont really like him and dont make him think that! i think you should go in and its will come naturally i promis.
hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju
Well anyways my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and we had been together about a month. And I really liked him yet I didnt cry when we broke up. But now I just feel like I need rebound or something to makeout with or something. Ive found a good guy clean and has no strings. Is this normal for someone to do?
SO NORMAL haha. you just miss having someone there for you. but i honestly think you should focus on loving your self and making your self happy first before getting started with someone else.
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he wants to start having sex. Hes not a virgin and really likes sex. We do a lot of other stuff together like oral sex and fingering and he says it feels good but he has been asking for sex for a while now. Im a virgin not for religious or moral reasons but just because I never felt it was right, but Im beginning to think whats the big deal and maybe I should just do it with him already. I mean we play with my toys and he plays with those inside me and he fingers inside me so whats the difference? The only thing my friends tell me is that with sex its harder to cum - is that true? How can I make sure I cum because that seems to be the main things my friends dont like about sex?
well hun i honestly think you should think twice before having sex because the more you have sex with him the more you will be get more and more attatched so i think if you guys have a stable and really good relationship then go for it but if the relationship consist around doing things and its not really on that emotional level then i htink you both should wait and get it there before having sex. but anyways back to your question i dont think you will cum the first time having sex because it will probs hurt ALOT lol. but if you do then i think you guys should forplay for a LONG time then have sex.
I have been friends with this girl for 11 years. We're both 17. Her parents are about to lose their house. When they lose it, they'll have to live with someone. Her parents will probably want to live with her Grandma. My friend wants to stay in our school district. Her step-dad is extremely proud and stubborn/childish. Do you think I should offer to have her stay with my family and me or would that be insulting?
i honestly think you should, i dont think it would be insulting because they know you love and care about her and would want to see her everyday and if she moves they know then that wouldnt happen.
hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.
-xoxo Juju