|
It really hurts when I am on top during sex, any advice?
So my boyfriend and I have sex, with no problem. But if we try and switch positions to where i'm on top, we have to stop cause it hurts. Many people do it, but i just can't. It really does hurt. Is there a way where I can be on top, and it won't hurt, or at least tell me why it does. Please help, Thanks.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You do not say where the pain is that you feel. One Of the things my wife likes about being on top is the deeper penetration but along with this is that I bump her Uterus. A few bumps is not a problem but repeatedly bumping it is uncomfortable. This could be your problem.
If this is the only time you feel pain you may just have a sensitive uterus though I do suggest you have your gynecologist check it out as it could be signs of something else. If you have not had a PAP smear in the last 6mo then I would make a appointment with your doctor as soon as possible. Especially if this is something that is relatively a new problem.
]
He may be getting too deep for you when you are on the top. There is also a serious virus that can cause pain when making love. It can turn into cervical cancer, if left undiagnosed. You might want to talk to your gynecologist about this.
hope i helped!
]
I'm sort of in the same boat. It doesn't hurt to be on top for me anymore, but it doesn't feel good either. It feels like a weird pressure and like its pressing on the wrong things, it just doesn't feel good at all!
I'm not sure what the deal is, but I suggest looking up some different positions and seeing what feels good. Maybe after time being on top will hurt less for you, thats usually what happens.
Good luck,
-Abby
]
More Questions: |