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Why wait to have sex anymore?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he wants to start having sex. Hes not a virgin and really likes sex. We do a lot of other stuff together like oral sex and fingering and he says it feels good but he has been asking for sex for a while now. Im a virgin not for religious or moral reasons but just because I never felt it was right, but Im beginning to think whats the big deal and maybe I should just do it with him already. I mean we play with my toys and he plays with those inside me and he fingers inside me so whats the difference? The only thing my friends tell me is that with sex its harder to cum - is that true? How can I make sure I cum because that seems to be the main things my friends dont like about sex?
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Im 17 so im going to be 100% honest with you because i know. If you have fooled around with toys and stuff its not going to hurt that bad first of all. might not at all. And to make sure you cum..just make sure you are very relaxed and while having sex change positions try bottom, top from the back..whatever try to figure out what is more comfortable and most pleasurable. As long as your relaxed it should go great:]
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well hun i honestly think you should think twice before having sex because the more you have sex with him the more you will be get more and more attatched so i think if you guys have a stable and really good relationship then go for it but if the relationship consist around doing things and its not really on that emotional level then i htink you both should wait and get it there before having sex. but anyways back to your question i dont think you will cum the first time having sex because it will probs hurt ALOT lol. but if you do then i think you guys should forplay for a LONG time then have sex.
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Many women find penetration less pleasurable but all it takes is practice and time. Take things slowly and make sure youre aroused. Also take the time to explore your body and what works for you. Everyone is different and it may take a few times to get it right. Try lots of foreplay beforehand. Its all about experience. If you're really ready and you're well informed then go for it. Just remember to relax. If youre not interested, not aroused, tense etc then it wont be pleasurable.
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Don't feel pressured into having sex. Have sex when you're ready and you feel the time is right. You're friends are correct as it's more difficult to orgasm from straight sex. I rarely cum from regular sex and if i do, it's a small one. If you have a small vibrator, I would suggest using it during sex. Make sure your boyfriend understands that it's not a reflection on his performance but an enhancement to bring you pleasure. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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