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Member Since: February 4, 2011
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18/f
I'm really into this guy I've been talking to for awhile and I want to have sex with him, he's the perfect guy and he's so sweet. He wants to have sex with me too we just haven't picked a time to hangout yet. I'm ready so please no lectures about "finding the right guy". I haven't told him that I'm a virgin, I'm guessing he thinks I'm not because he knows that my last relationship was a year and a half long and probably figures I had sex with my exboyfriend. He's not a virgin. I'm really nervous about what it'll be like, so I have a couple questions: Did it hurt/what'd it feel like? Can you compare it to putting in a tampon? I wear tampons. And should I tell him that I'm a virgin? I don't want him to go like super hard on me because he thinks I'm not. (link)
This varies from different girls. As long as you relax yourself and your comfortable you should be fine. And its kinda in a way like wearing tampons depends on the guy. It does not hurt that bad and if it does only for a few secs..just breath. And def tell him your a virgin.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and he wants to start having sex. Hes not a virgin and really likes sex. We do a lot of other stuff together like oral sex and fingering and he says it feels good but he has been asking for sex for a while now. Im a virgin not for religious or moral reasons but just because I never felt it was right, but Im beginning to think whats the big deal and maybe I should just do it with him already. I mean we play with my toys and he plays with those inside me and he fingers inside me so whats the difference? The only thing my friends tell me is that with sex its harder to cum - is that true? How can I make sure I cum because that seems to be the main things my friends dont like about sex? (link)
Im 17 so im going to be 100% honest with you because i know. If you have fooled around with toys and stuff its not going to hurt that bad first of all. might not at all. And to make sure you cum..just make sure you are very relaxed and while having sex change positions try bottom, top from the back..whatever try to figure out what is more comfortable and most pleasurable. As long as your relaxed it should go great:]




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