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Q: I got into a fight with me stepdad this afternoon. He really pissed me off and I freaked out and kicked at him and hit his stomach.

Now I'm afraid he will tell my mom when she gets home. What can I do?
The best, most wise, and most humble thing you can do is say sorry. Whether he does or does not tell your mother. We are all children to our parents and our elders. No matter what age a mistake can happen that we can learn from. Explaining that you have thought about your actions and even explaining that you have reached out for advice on how to mend the situation will show that you are being noble and true. Express yourself with the feelings of others in mind and you will be heard. Best of luck and keep your head up.

Q: There is this cute that I always pass on my way to my 9:00 am class. I either pass him on the way there or the way back. Basically, all we accomplished was eye contact, haha. I want to talk to him but I'm the type of person that won't talk to someone unless there is a reason. I think it's weird, and it'd make me feel uncomfortable if he didn't seem enthused, for me to go up to someone that I do not know and just say "hey, I'm ___!" So, I was thinking of ways to kinda get a friendship going before Christmas. I usually see him by himself and he sometimes takes dinner back to his room to eat while he studies but tonight I saw him with a guy friend having dinner. So, he either has a girlfriend at another school or no girlfriend because he isn't with girls a lot here. Don't be brutal but be honest in telling me if you think this is weird or not. I was going to catch up with him tomorrow on my way to class and tell him that my roommate thinks he is cute and I was wondering if I could get his number for her. When I get his number and get back to my room, I was going to text him that by roommate, I meant me. I don't know if that'd be weird to some guys or if they'd like it. Just help me out, please don't tell me to go up and just introduce myself because this entire thing is basically me telling you that I can't do that hence creative ideas.

I'd like to get at least a friendship going before the 19th of December because that starts Christmas break and our break is 5 weeks long and I don't know if I could go that whole time without talking to him. Plus, our schedule changes after break so I wouldn't be able to catch him on the way to class anymore.

18/f

Thanks!
I think your Idea is actually very creative & cute. I think it will definitely spark an interest in him. Guys have a playful personality & your idea I think will definitely draw him in. I think you should fallow your gut instinct & I think it will work perfectly for you!

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