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I can't get over him I have so much regret
Hi I'm 15 f and last summer2010 I fell for this guyAlomost17 but hes16and he fell for me but the whole summer we hung out but after things just randomly were not the same. I wanna go back all the time and restart things hence kiss him. What bugs me we both didn't tell each other and my guy friends told me. But anyways it's the first day of my summer and just now I balled my eyes out and it's been so long it's normal for me to cry like that. Basically Ive been on here asking the same thing nothing is working I've tried liking other guys and just keeping busy but nothing works. I want to tell him but itd be so awkwrd bc I haven't spoken to him since march. What's wrong with me how do I deal with this. I'm crazy:((((((
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
This is just me but I think that LOVE is what we live for. Love is one of the greatest and most precious things there is. Regret though has got to be the worst. Regret will always leave you wondering, and wishing of what COULD have been had you done something differently.
Now time for a sad little example that I hope will help: I have a friend who is in her late sixties and lives about 20 minutes away. She is in contact with a man she has known since highschool ( he is 70) who now lives across the country. They dated back in highschool and things got weird and she walked away. They truly loved each other and to this day they have NEVER got over what COULD have happened if they had just told one another how they felt. The man went on to marry and have 3 kids, shortly after he was divorced and that is when they became freinds again. To this day he asks himself WHAT IF I had just told her... maybe things would be different.
Now some people believe in fate, that if it's ment to happen it will. Well this is partially true I guess but you don't need the regret of wondering how things might've turned out. Not saying you guys will even get married, but you just never know.
SO now that my example is out of the way I just want to leave you and tell you that you should talk to him. Do it when no one else is hanging around and tell him how you feel... if it helps tell him how awkward it is ( it does help believe it or not, and you don't sound stupid. I am speaking from experience). I wish you the best.
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