Q: I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

Q: Ok, so this will be pretty long. (sorry). I am 17 and my boyfriend is almost eighteen. We have been together for almost three years straight, and we have had our ups and downs. I understand in relationships everyone argues but when we argue its brutal. We have discussed things we need to work on, mine for instance is not to get an attitude so much and not to yell but to speak calmly. So everytime we argue I dont do those things and I make sure not to at all. But its not good enough. No matter how quiet or nicely I talk its like we still argue just as bad, if not worse. Whenever we argue its like its always my fault, and he makes sure I know he feels that way every second of the argument. It's like he tells me every single thing I do wrong, but when I even hint to him doing one thing wrong he either twists it to me causing it somehow, or he says im fussing at him. I mean the arguments never ever get physical by no means, not even close, but its just like me fixing things in order to make our relationship better just is not good enough. But I mean another thing we argue about is him going out with his friends. Like whenever we hang out all he wants to do is sit at the house, but when hes with his friends he is always going out to eat, or going out sitting outside of "wal mart.?" But when I ask him to go somewhere he says he does not feel like it. I try talking to him about it but all he says is he cant help it if he dont feel like going anywhere and for me to stop bugging him so much. He says he is happy just staying at home with me because I am fun no matter what we do. But he says he gets bored with his friends so he has to go somewhere. I mean, I know I have made it seem like we argue 24/7 but we rarely argue. Its just when we do its horrible. It never gets better at all until I cry. When we are not arguing its wonderful, and we get along so great. We are like best friends. I just want to know what to do that could make our arguing better, because it needs help bad. Please, no answers saying to break up, or we arent meant to be because that is most certainly not right. We have grown up together since we were born, and we have been best friends for years before we started dating. We have our ups and downs but we truly love each other. Just please help with what to do about the arguing, I need some help fast. Thanks so much in advance.



--Taylor

Q: So me and my ex go way back...a year ago in february. So like feb 09. Anyways, we were a thing for a while, until he turned around and chose my best friend over me. Which of course crushed me. And then 3 months later he begged for me back for 2 weeks until finally i forgave him and started dating him a month later. After 2 months of dating we broke up, because I had just lost feelings ever since things went bad. We haven't been very close since, and it's always been kind of awkward around him. I'm not sure what to do, because I want to be close with him. I want to be able to talk to him again without their being any tension.

The truth is, I still kind of have feelings for him...It's really hard because I know he's way over me, but he tells his best friend (who's also one of my good friends) that when we dated, he really cared about me. I just wish it was the same. And I don't know how to approach him..

I guess I'm just wondering what I should do? How do you view my situation? I'm just really confused /: And I want him to be around again. I miss him.

I'd appreciate anyone's help, I'll rate you all a 5 just for a simple input. Thanks.

Q: 19M

Ok, so the first question is easy really. Though it's something I've kinda worried about for a while about myself. To put it simply, I prefer to be friends with girls, perhaps date them, over sleeping with them. I'd rather stay in for a movie and cuddle than have sex. Does that make me weird, for a straight guy? None of my guy friends see what I like about it. (But my female friends tend to love it haha)

My main part to the question is, I see this aspect of me ruining future relationships. I tend to have a couple of female friends at all times, who I often spend an evening with alone. We might go out together, or watch a movie, or whatever. Nothing happens, we're just friends. At the moment I'm single. I worry though that when I have a girlfriend, she'll be always jealous of the fact that i'm alone with other girls (Because I thought about it, and I don't want to stop haning out with friends the way I do because some girl doesn't want me too). I do think that this will make it incredibly hard for me to start a relationship. When the trust isn't built yet, how do you persuade her there's nothing going on?

Any help would be appreciated, but don't insult me, I get enough of that already.

Q: This is a really long story, so i'll try to make it short.

I've known this boy for almost 7 months. we've dated for 4 of them. he left me, he just disappeared for 2 months. and i found him and we started talking again. he says he regrets doing what he did to me, and that he still loves me. he said that if he hadnt left we'd still be together. the thing is he now has a girlfriend who he started dating while we weren't talking. they fight all the time. she tells me what she says; she threatens to leave him almost daily but never does. i feel like she treats him like complete trash. shes only 13, and hes almost 18. which i find absolutely disgusting but thats beside the point. i've asked him multiple times to break up with her. he says that he cant just leave her because after everything shes done to him (lying and such) he still loves her. i says he cant leave because he'll feel bad, and he doesnt want her to be sad. he told me that if he stays he wont be happy and if he leaves he wont be happy.

i really really want him back. of all the boyfriends i've ever had hes the one i love and care about the most. we talk about having a life together but the way he talks about not being able to leave his current girlfriend, i dont think he'll ever leave her. he says it wont last forever but i feel otherwise. i need to know what to do. when i think about him and her i get very jealous and upset. i cant get him out of my mind.


right now he does say i love you to me, he calls me baby and such, just like when we were dating. but i wish the other girl was just out of the picture. im not really sure what kind of advice im looking for. i really want to know how to get them to break up but thats horribly mean, i dont want to hurt his feelings. whats the best thing for me to do?

Q: So there's this guy i use to date 3 years ago which was my first love and a year after me and his brother started talking and now i really like his brother. would it be wrong for me to date his brother?

Q: I have a friend to whome i am close to. He is one of my ultimate best friends and we talk on a regular basis. There has always been this "thing" between me and him and we both know its there. There is like a spark in the air but then again, we have NEVER kissed or anything . But we are so close mentally and emotionally.

He always talks abou what kind of girl he's gunna marry and how hell treat her. It just makes me think even more about how badly i want that life with him. They say that your husband is like your best friend. I think i do want my bestfriend to eventually become my husband. I have never really thought about is like that before but i legit think that we are almost perfect for eachother. And i do think that we could date very easily but I do beleive that the ONLY thing that is holding us back is me. My weight.Dont get it wrong he does love me but he also wants a "fitter " looking gf. And i honestly dont resent him for that. He is really into body building and fitness and he doesnt really judge me at all. I just have that gut feeling that that is what is holding him back from me. But me, i dont at ALL eat junk food. All my weight was put on when I was younger and now im just been kind of stuck with it for four years. For four years after i gradually began to eat healthier my weight still just kinda stayed the same. This summer i have been watching and kind of obsessing what i eat and i have lost about 15 pounds. All i drink is water and eat three times a day of mostly vegetables. But i dont only want to lose weight because i have this weird theory lol...but so i feel better about myself in general...im just getting sick of being fat.

anyway i guess i dont even really know what im asking i just kinda wonderr i guess what you think about all of this or just any advice. ...

Q: hi i have been friends with this guy for about 2-3 years and he has liked me and i knew it... but that was about a couple of years ago... and i thought he went off me i have never reall as in REALLY loved him... but he went out with one of my sorta ish friend but she is not really my friend and they never worked out like at all!!

now he says he likes me... and idk if i feel the same... but he makes me feel good about myself and has always been there for me.. and we are really friends...
should i give him a chance...
or should i wait....
or should i stay friends ?

please help me please i really need some advise
thanks

Q: Ok so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He is really sweet and cute. Last night we were chatting over facebook and he told me he wants to go to the movies and finger me when we are there. I am 13 and i wanna know if i should? and if i do what should i know.. when he does is my cherry gonna pop? And is it gonna hurt? I think he only likes me to have sex with me but I am only 13 im not ready to have sex.. Ok well Please Help Me!

Q: hey,
So i met this guy and we hung out for about two months before we started dating, we only dated for two week but i was lovestruck, i liked him so much. But he ended things one day saying that he doesn't want a relation ship and we rushed into things and that we should just be friends and see what happens. so we talked a couple times but not much. So a couple weekends ago i went to one of my friends party's and he was there and we haven't seen each other since but it was okay and he told me that he misses me. So i hook up with his best friend because i thought that he was over me the day that he broke up with me. so then him and my best friend hook up and i was sorta pissed that she didn't ask me first because she knew i was hurt when we broke up... anyways so the next day me and her sorted everything out but she told me that he said the only reason he hooked up with her was because i hooked up with his best friend and he still has feelings for me and he wants to make me jealous, when she told me i didn't want to look happy because she doesn't know that i still have feelings for him but i do and now i don't know what to do about this whole situation?
please help =(

Q: So. My ex boyfriend and I had dated for seven months. Then one morning, he broke up with me in a text message. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore. He was sixteen at the time, I was fourteen at the time. He's sixteen now, I'm fifteen now. It's been three months since the break up. While we were dating things were pretty bad. He pressured me into a looot of stuff. Like fingering. He physically forced me to give him a hj. And he made me feel guilty for months until I finally gave him a blowjob. He dumped me four days after the bj. I was messed up while we were dating... I honestly don't know who that person was. I was totally whipped, and I don't know why I thought anything he did was okay... but I did. Since the split I've realized how bad it was, and I'm a lot stronger. Thing is, after we broke up things were still bad for about a month. He told everyone how far we'd been, saying "she put out. like we made out all the time, and she gave me head." he even spread a rumor that we had sex saying "when I was on top, I thought I was gonnna break her cause she's so tiny. But she let me do wahtever I wanted. I coulda stuck it up the ass if I felt like it." Just stupid, stupid stuff. One day he'd say he wanted me back, the next he'd tell me I was stupid bitch. It was horrible. We stopped talking for a month. Then he apologized. After a shitty relationship, two months of hell, he said he was done being a dick. Then we were okay... I guess. We've been trying out this whole friends thing for about a month. It's been pretty shaky. But now one of our mutual friends has told me that my ex has been talking shit to him. Saying he didn't wanna be around me because I am immature. IIIII am immature. ME. Excuse me??? Immature people do what he did when we were dating. Immature people break up in texts. Immature people break promises and spread stupid rumors. Mature people take all of that shit without ONCE acting back. No revenge. Ever. Mature people look past what's happen and decide to be the bigger person to make things okay. I'm immature??? I don't think so. I'm pissed. The mutual friend has a certain theory about my ex. He says that my ex broke up with me because he was scared of how intense his feelings were getting for me. He says he just says that stuff to cover up how bad he feels about what's happen. That told everyone how far we went/spread those rumors to cover up him hurting about the breakup. And that he says the immature stuff to cover up him wanting to be around me... but I don't think thats it!!! I don't know what to do. Should I bring it up with my ex?? I mean... if we're trying ot be freinds... I don't know. I just don't want to stir shit up... What should I do???

Q: How do I get over my ex

Q: I think I have a bad problem... Whenever I meet someone new or somewhat new.. I really can't get any good words to come out of my mouth like I want to...

My problem is that I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for about 2 weeks now. I find it really hard to talk to him.. He always has to bring the conversations up, and he's so open to me. The only time I'm comfortable talking to him openly is right after sex, honestly. I'm just afraid that he's going to leave me already because I seem like such a boring person who doesn't talk much. But really.. it just takes me a lot of time to get to the point where I'm that comfortable to talk freely.

Please help... Why can't I say what I want to? Is there something I can do to make me more comfortable around him? This happened with my ex too, I wasn't comfortable with him for a very long time... But I don't want this relationship to be like that one.

Q:

Okay, first of all I'm sixteen.

Here is my question: My best friend who is a girl(I'm a guy) asked me a couple of Saturdays ago if I would ever date her. I said yeah sure. Then the Monday of that week she kissed me, and I liked it. We hung out on Wednesday and Friday that week and we kept kissing, Wednesday was probably the most intimate kissing though. And I don't know how I feel about her and I don't think she likes me. But I can't stop thinking of her kiss. It's pissing me off also how she is acting to it. She is being kind of mean to me and telling me she doesn't care anymore and that makes me feel bad. I just want to sort out my feelings because now she thinks I like her, and I honestly don't know because I'm confused. Plus her friend whom I dislike knows I "like" her. And I think my best friend told him. ._.; And I don't want this stupid thing to go further, But I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help.

Q: To start off, I'm sixteen and my boyfriend is seventeen. We've been dating for eight months. Whenever I go over to his house he's ALWAYS playing call of duty hahaha. And sometimes he'll tell me to come over and I do thinking we're gonna hang out but he already has a friend over and they just play and I sit there for a litte bit till he kicks him out... Like okay?? Haha he'll just be like "oh hey, come here" he wont even look at me just keep on playing and pat his leg to get me to come sit on his lap. I've kind of discovered a little trick. If I sit on his lap and *oops* I put a hand on his dick he'll kick his friend out in a heart beat hahaha. I mean, he'll eventually do it anyway, after abotu twenty minutes but it's just annoying!! I don't wanna be a naggy girlfriend that shows up and commands he stops playing video games and gives me attention. I also don't wanna come off as a physco bitch to his friend, like I wanna be a "cool girlfriend" and it's not a big deal really... but still! Haha should I just keep the same strategy?? I feel kinda guilty seducing him to do what I want but I want my time with him!!

Q: 17/f
seriously, this is probably the worse thing that ever happend to me, and if you laugh i understand =/ haha. i went to my friends house got drunk, came to my boyfriends house and he was also drinking with his friends in the backyard. we hooked up in his bed, and i was drunk so i fell asleep after cuddling for awhile. anyways he left to let me sleep and he calls me the next morning saying i wet his bed ! =X oh and weve been going out for almost a year by the way.. anyways.. no offence but italian families tell eachother everything, and he asked his mom how to clean off piss and said I peed and everythingg ... and worse off he couldnt clean it, and its an EXPENSIVE mattress (800) his mom told his sister, who (HATES ME CAUSE IM NOT "FASHIONABLE") and his sister told his dad. so i havent gone over his house since but hes came here. honestly how the hell do i go back to his house and deal with all of this..... jesusss help me; i dont even have a job to pay for it.

Q: I have been married one year. My husband doesnt work and doesnt look for a job. Ever since we have gotten together I have noticed a huge change in my 3 year old sons behavior. he doesnt listen to anyone he acts up a lot. yells at everyone. My husband doesnt help me with the kids, house work anything. I am only 19 years old. I have two children. I am orignally from ohio but i moved to missouri two years ago with my father. I have no family here other than my father. I want to move back to ohio. but dont want to leave my father. I have been trying yo get my husband to help and look for a job since october. everytime i talk to him about it he helps for a day or so and then everything goes back to the way it was. I am miserable and feel my son deserves better. Sometimes i feel guilty that i plan on leaving my husband any advice??

Q: I was on vacation, and I met this amazing guy. He lives about 20 minutes away from me, and we met four days ago. I ended up bonding with him over our taste in music, and we got along so well and had so much in common that I felt like I've known him for years. He put his number in my phone, and the reason I found this significant is because another girl gave him her number and he tactfully denied her. He told me to text him to let him know what my number was, so I did. He didn't have good service, so his phone was off when I sent the text.

The thing is, he never texted me back. I just don't understand how a guy could give me all the signs that he's into me (he said I was pretty, and he took pictures of himself on my phone "so that I wouldn't forget him," and he carved a stick for me and told me to "keep it forever," and he put his name in my phone as "___(his name)___ is awesome x3", which i believe the "x3" to be a heart, but i don't want to boldly assume this.)
and completely ignore me the next minute.

Even though he ignored my text, I added him on facebook and myspace when I got home from vacation, and he accepted my requests but didn't send me any messages or anything...which continued to leave me confused.

He's at skateboarding camp for a week right now, and I'm going crazy because I can't stop thinking about him and whether or not he is even remotely interested in me.

It normally wouldn't be that big of a deal if a guy was acting "hot and cold" like this, but I really feel like this guy is special. I felt like we had a connection while we were hanging out on vacation. We talked a lot about hanging out again in the future, so I'm not sure why he doesn't want to keep the communication going.

What do I do?!?!

Q: Alright, this might be confusing but bare with me.
Tomorrow my ex-boyfriend wants to hook up(like have a reunion, as he calls it...). Mean while, two of his best friends are bugging me about hooking up with them. Now, my ex isnt expecting to have sex, but his other two friends are. My ex doesnt know his friends are asking me to have sex with them, because if hes knew then hed hate them(because hes very possessive of me...) Meanwhile, if i hook up with my ex, some people(friends included) could potentionally be upset with me. PLUS i might start liking my ex again, which i dont want to like to happen. But i have trouble saying no. Like i dont really want to have sex with my ex's two friends, but i can't say no. And if i say no to my ex, he would probably stop talking to me...and thatd hurt me alot because i love talking to him. Thing is i do want to have sex. But with his friends? And hook up with my ex? I dont know what to do...all i know is that if i end up hooking up with all of them, I'd feel like a hoe...help me pleaseeeee

Q: Okay so i am an average teenage girl! And i like this guy alot but it's like he don't. I want to tell him so badd that i like him but i am on the shy side. I dont like getting rejected because i feel as if there saying i aint good enough or ugly. I wanna know how i can tell if he likes me or like how i can tell him how i feel without things getting akward and not me coming on strong. I just dont know what all to do or say!? So any good advise would help me alot.!

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