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uncomfortable?
I think I have a bad problem... Whenever I meet someone new or somewhat new.. I really can't get any good words to come out of my mouth like I want to...
My problem is that I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for about 2 weeks now. I find it really hard to talk to him.. He always has to bring the conversations up, and he's so open to me. The only time I'm comfortable talking to him openly is right after sex, honestly. I'm just afraid that he's going to leave me already because I seem like such a boring person who doesn't talk much. But really.. it just takes me a lot of time to get to the point where I'm that comfortable to talk freely.
Please help... Why can't I say what I want to? Is there something I can do to make me more comfortable around him? This happened with my ex too, I wasn't comfortable with him for a very long time... But I don't want this relationship to be like that one.
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ok...this sounds silly but...yhey say practice makes perfect, right? well, conversation is no different.
try this: get a pic of your boy friend and tape it to your mirror...every moring have a conversation with him. seeing him will help you to relax so when you really do see him you won't freeze or go blank or sit like bump on a log...also, write down things you want to talk about before you meet him and keep it with you; when he is not looking simply remove it, find a question and fire away...
it takes practice and yes you are going to stumble and freeze up...it's normal, your normal.
if any thing, tell him how you feel, he may be able to help you also...best of luck....
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