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confused about this guy i just met!
I was on vacation, and I met this amazing guy. He lives about 20 minutes away from me, and we met four days ago. I ended up bonding with him over our taste in music, and we got along so well and had so much in common that I felt like I've known him for years. He put his number in my phone, and the reason I found this significant is because another girl gave him her number and he tactfully denied her. He told me to text him to let him know what my number was, so I did. He didn't have good service, so his phone was off when I sent the text.
The thing is, he never texted me back. I just don't understand how a guy could give me all the signs that he's into me (he said I was pretty, and he took pictures of himself on my phone "so that I wouldn't forget him," and he carved a stick for me and told me to "keep it forever," and he put his name in my phone as "___(his name)___ is awesome x3", which i believe the "x3" to be a heart, but i don't want to boldly assume this.)
and completely ignore me the next minute.
Even though he ignored my text, I added him on facebook and myspace when I got home from vacation, and he accepted my requests but didn't send me any messages or anything...which continued to leave me confused.
He's at skateboarding camp for a week right now, and I'm going crazy because I can't stop thinking about him and whether or not he is even remotely interested in me.
It normally wouldn't be that big of a deal if a guy was acting "hot and cold" like this, but I really feel like this guy is special. I felt like we had a connection while we were hanging out on vacation. We talked a lot about hanging out again in the future, so I'm not sure why he doesn't want to keep the communication going.
What do I do?!?!
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Text him again.
Maybe he didn't get it in the first place, if his reception was bad.
Don't wait for him to message you first. It's okay to message him first on social networking sites or to text him first.
Don't jump to conclusions about whether he's playing you or not.
It sounds like he's really interested in you, so I'm sure he wouldn't mind it if you contacted him.
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chock it up to experience...live and learn....i am sure you are a fantastic woman, with many great qualities and you deserve the best...unfortunately, skate-boy is not it.
if i met a woman who knocked me off my feet, as in your case, i too woujld make very attempt to contact her to learn more and share more...but, if she is not willing to make the effort, then i am not going to waste my time and beating myself up for something i had nothing to do with...either should you...
your prince will come on another horse; this guy sounds like he came in on a donkey...best of luck, dont give up...
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