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seriously, this is probably the worse thing that ever happend to me, and if you laugh i understand =/ haha. i went to my friends house got drunk, came to my boyfriends house and he was also drinking with his friends in the backyard. we hooked up in his bed, and i was drunk so i fell asleep after cuddling for awhile. anyways he left to let me sleep and he calls me the next morning saying i wet his bed ! =X oh and weve been going out for almost a year by the way.. anyways.. no offence but italian families tell eachother everything, and he asked his mom how to clean off piss and said I peed and everythingg ... and worse off he couldnt clean it, and its an EXPENSIVE mattress (800) his mom told his sister, who (HATES ME CAUSE IM NOT "FASHIONABLE") and his sister told his dad. so i havent gone over his house since but hes came here. honestly how the hell do i go back to his house and deal with all of this..... jesusss help me; i dont even have a job to pay for it.
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if that is your only problems i wish i was you....life is short m' dear and in ten years no one will remember who peed on who.....
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Number one--what a compliment to your relationship with your boyfriend and his family that he can say something like that to his mother.
number two-of course they are going to rib you about it. You deserve to be ribbed about it. That's what families do. The only thing you should watch out for is that his sister keeps it in the family and doesn't go blurting it out to anyone else.
Number three-take a little time and think of a great one-liner that will break the ice. Something like, "If me and Johnny ever break up I will have the satisfaction of knowing any other girl will be getting a pee-ce of me," well, that's actually not that great, but you get the point.
Number four-realize that this story is never going to go away, and ten years from now it is going to be a family joke, whether you are his girl, or not. Laugh it off just like they are.
Number five-I am sure that there must be something you can do to help clean it up. Shaw's rents a carpet cleaner with an upholstery setting for around $30, and I'm sure there are other methods, too. Plenty of mattresses have gotten peed on, so there is some product somewhere that will help.
If the two of you have been together for a year than his famiy cares about you and isn't going to hold it against you. Hey, it could be worse, you could have been sleeping on the couch.
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