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i still have feelings for him
hey,
So i met this guy and we hung out for about two months before we started dating, we only dated for two week but i was lovestruck, i liked him so much. But he ended things one day saying that he doesn't want a relation ship and we rushed into things and that we should just be friends and see what happens. so we talked a couple times but not much. So a couple weekends ago i went to one of my friends party's and he was there and we haven't seen each other since but it was okay and he told me that he misses me. So i hook up with his best friend because i thought that he was over me the day that he broke up with me. so then him and my best friend hook up and i was sorta pissed that she didn't ask me first because she knew i was hurt when we broke up... anyways so the next day me and her sorted everything out but she told me that he said the only reason he hooked up with her was because i hooked up with his best friend and he still has feelings for me and he wants to make me jealous, when she told me i didn't want to look happy because she doesn't know that i still have feelings for him but i do and now i don't know what to do about this whole situation?
please help =(
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did i miss something?? you hooked up with his friend, your friend hooked up with him?? did i read that correctly??
if i did read it right, then what do you have to be mad about? maybe he hooked up with your friend to get at you for hooking with his friend..
if you have any feelings for him at all, you two need to sit down and talk this stuff out...if he had feelings for you b ut did not act on them, then that is his fault...however, it is not acceptable to hook up with his friends, ever...as a general rule anyway....you should have said to him, hey, i know you are not that into me, but your friend is, would that weird you out or be out of bounds for me to do? then, he would have had to play his cards...now, he can hold it over you, if he is that kind of person....best thing to do is sit down and talk....if that goes to hell, walk away, lesson learned..
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