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my best guy friend likes me :/
hi i have been friends with this guy for about 2-3 years and he has liked me and i knew it... but that was about a couple of years ago... and i thought he went off me i have never reall as in REALLY loved him... but he went out with one of my sorta ish friend but she is not really my friend and they never worked out like at all!!
now he says he likes me... and idk if i feel the same... but he makes me feel good about myself and has always been there for me.. and we are really friends...
should i give him a chance...
or should i wait....
or should i stay friends ?
please help me please i really need some advise
thanks
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Well , it seems that you can't make up your mind. I'd say do what is best because your double thinking it's like you should , but then you shouldn't which is a problem because it shows your not that into him and when your not that into him you will hurt him and it won't turn out good and might ruin your friendship with him right? That's great he makes you feel good and stuff and there for you , maybe you should take it another step further , but like talk to him or talk to hima dn sit down and talk , if it's really what YOU want to do. I mean be aware if you guys go out and you guys dont work out who knows what could happen , but hopefully that never happens with you guys. I wish you guys the best. My advice is don't be afraid to try you never know , and you let it go and it came back to you right? So it's your choice maybe you should give him a choice or see how it goes you know.
Good luck girl : )
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A relationship has to be solid on both ends, and since you're not really sure what you want, it's probably not a good idea to jump into a relationship with him. Don't date him just because he likes you and wants to be with you - you have to truly want to be with him too if you want to have a real relationship.
I suggest that you tell him that you see him as "just a friend," but if you are in fact attracted to him and are beginning to consider the idea of him being more than a friend to you, take things slow and maybe try hanging out together alone (or if you already hang out alone, you could try going on a date.) Make sure you don't lead him on though, because that could put a lot of tension on your friendship - and this sounds like a good friend that you don't want to lose. Good luck!
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yes give him a chance i had the same thing happen to me my boy friend (also best friend) said he loved me and has for like a month now we have stayed together than any of my previous boy friends
hope i helped
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there is a silly saying that goes, the heart wants what the heart wants; however, in this case, you are better off being/staying friends for now....that is best way to truly get to know someone, what they value, what is important to them, and as time goes on, you will know if this is meant to be and go from there...best of luck...
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hm, that must be tough, its completely up to you but I suggest that you should stay friends with him for now and then once you've processed that he likes you maybe your feelings for him will change,
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