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My best friend
Okay, first of all I'm sixteen.
Here is my question: My best friend who is a girl(I'm a guy) asked me a couple of Saturdays ago if I would ever date her. I said yeah sure. Then the Monday of that week she kissed me, and I liked it. We hung out on Wednesday and Friday that week and we kept kissing, Wednesday was probably the most intimate kissing though. And I don't know how I feel about her and I don't think she likes me. But I can't stop thinking of her kiss. It's pissing me off also how she is acting to it. She is being kind of mean to me and telling me she doesn't care anymore and that makes me feel bad. I just want to sort out my feelings because now she thinks I like her, and I honestly don't know because I'm confused. Plus her friend whom I dislike knows I "like" her. And I think my best friend told him. ._.; And I don't want this stupid thing to go further, But I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help.
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This relationship has a limited time span. She likes you as more than a friend. If you do not date her, the friendship will eventually end.
If you find her sexually attractive, date her. Give it a shot. She's your best friend, you get along with her and enjoy being around her alot already. You would not describe kissing her as intimate unless it was some degree of intimate to you. You may not be as into her as she is to you, but that's a matter of timing, not an indicator that you're as far down this particular rabbit hole as you could possibly fall.
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then you need to sit down with the girl and spill your guts...tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may...like you, she is also confused and conflicted inside as well, and god willing will hear what you tell her.
you will find out in life, some women just like the attention and nothing more to it...life and love is unfair. the good news is, you two did nothing you both may regret later in life so i am proud of you for only 'kissing' and not going further...best of luck...
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Hey, thanks for posting your question... I think you should really have a serious talk with your girl friend. Let her know how it is you truly feel about the whole situation... tell her what it is you don't like about her, and tell her what it is about her that you like... let her know how you feel thus asking her as well to be honest with you and let her tell you how she feels towards you.
You might be confused about liking her as something other than your friends but that is totally ok... you might have liked the kiss you guys had but that is not "love" sounds more like lust than love... this is why your talk ( serious talk) with her is important as well as having not only you opening up about how you feel but having her opening up about how and what she feels towards you... if it is meant to be kept as only friends, then that is fine... if it is meant to start a healthy partner relationship, then so be it... you can't fight your feelings the important thing is that both of you get this out of the way so everything can be as clear as water... :)
- you friendship wont be lost of both of you handle things in a respectful, and caring manner... there is nothing to worry about... just talking about it will help answer many question that you might want answers to. no worries bro, take it easy, have the talk and hopefully everything turns out great.
- I wish you the best if anything, i'm here PM me and we can take it from there.
take care,
Best,
- trueadvice3
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