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How to tell a guy how you feel without coming on strong?
Okay so i am an average teenage girl! And i like this guy alot but it's like he don't. I want to tell him so badd that i like him but i am on the shy side. I dont like getting rejected because i feel as if there saying i aint good enough or ugly. I wanna know how i can tell if he likes me or like how i can tell him how i feel without things getting akward and not me coming on strong. I just dont know what all to do or say!? So any good advise would help me alot.!
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ok average teenage girl;
write a letter to him and give it to him...tell him how you feel and explain why you feel as you do...be bold but be realisitic...tell him to let you down easy if that is the case...good luck..you are worth the effort
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How can you tell if a guy likes you?
He listens to you. And he remembers what you say. HHe makes eye contact.
Guys are often good at talking about themselves, which shows that they are comfortable, but when the want to know your opinion, and they make an effort to draw you out and get to know you and not just use you as a sounding board, that is a big indicator of their interest.
If there isn't any of that, do not tell him you like him.
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Well, as much as you wanna jump all over him, you should play a little game called 'hard to get'.
I know it sounds stupid, but trust me it works.
You need to make him notice you and get him to approach you first, which you can do by hanging out with him in a large group,or just saying hi in the hallways.
Make him come to you first with the texts. Know that guys like chasing after girls, being chased just annoys them. So never be pushy to get answers from him or to hangout.
If you would rather continue acting how you usualy are with him, thats fine to. Just a different approach. Before you tell him how you feel though, make sure you have somewhat of a connection with him - like friends who hang out. If you dont wait till he is comfortable, then you could scare him away.
To tell him how you feel, drop suddle hints every once in a while, asking who he likes or what hes into in girls. And if he asks you the same question back, then admit how you really feel towards him in that question. Just dont make him get the idea that your desperate for him.
Good luck!
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