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What do I do about my Ex?
So me and my ex go way back...a year ago in february. So like feb 09. Anyways, we were a thing for a while, until he turned around and chose my best friend over me. Which of course crushed me. And then 3 months later he begged for me back for 2 weeks until finally i forgave him and started dating him a month later. After 2 months of dating we broke up, because I had just lost feelings ever since things went bad. We haven't been very close since, and it's always been kind of awkward around him. I'm not sure what to do, because I want to be close with him. I want to be able to talk to him again without their being any tension.
The truth is, I still kind of have feelings for him...It's really hard because I know he's way over me, but he tells his best friend (who's also one of my good friends) that when we dated, he really cared about me. I just wish it was the same. And I don't know how to approach him..
I guess I'm just wondering what I should do? How do you view my situation? I'm just really confused /: And I want him to be around again. I miss him.
I'd appreciate anyone's help, I'll rate you all a 5 just for a simple input. Thanks.
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love is never a smooth path. my best adice is this: sit down and talk to him, if he will talk to you and just tell him holw you feel...tell him you want to go slow but you also want to be a part in his life; maybe not a major player right now, but that may come in time...don't push, don't rush; bottom line, if it's meant to be, it will be...but, if he says no, accept that and move on( I know, easier said then done)...good luck, tAke care...
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Aw , well I think you should start out with a smile , or a simple ''Hi'' and see where it goes. Always try something , it is better to try something then nothing. Well I think since he did care about you , you never know he might still care for you , maybe he just does not want you knowing , right. But , I would say take it step at a time , do not go and be pushy. Relax and take a breather through it , and you never know about anything that can happen , just do not go head over heels over him , after you guys have talked , tell him later what you just told him in this paragraph , and I am sure it will work out just fine. My advice to you is , you should give a simple gesture out like , a smile , or a simple ''hi'' , show him that you still want to be his friend and care about him , and not care about the past and just move on with it , show him you have moved on with it. Also , just do not stress over it , relax and everything will be okay , it just takes time. My view of this situation is do not be confused and it is normal , you do not know his feelings , so give him a chance , and I am sure he will notice you are sorry and all that. It takes time though , but do not worry!
Good luck girl : )
- It will work out just fine!
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