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Q: I gave my boyfriend a blowjob and swallowed...then shortly after he left I used my spit to lubricate myself when materbating. Can I get pregnant ?
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Q: How do you makeout with someone? Like what are the little details that you should do?
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http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/
its okayy really just dont worry! I remember wondering the same thing i know people may have told you it comes naturally but seriously it does! dont concentrate too much otherwise youll distract yourself just go with the flow.. really really :)
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Q: I'm Kelsey and I am 14... My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year... He has put me through a lot of crap. My friend's have always told me to break up with him but I like him way to much to do that:( So now... He is getting mad because I am not all over him(kissing, hugging, and doing other things)... He told me that I can't get jealous if other girls are all over him and he doesn't stop them. He say's that because it's my job to be all over him.. I'm very shy when it comes to being and doing things around him... I need help trying to stop being so shy for one thing. And also to know how to be all over him! PLEASE HELP... I don't want him to break up with me!
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First off, It is NOT your job to all over him. It is NOT your job to be drooling over him. Your bf seems to be obsessive over himself and that is not a good thing. After 1/2 a yr you should at least pretty comfortable with him. Such as being able to eat, cry, get frusterated, fall, be goofy, and etc in front of him. Just kiss him randomly on the cheek, forehead (that means "your speacial to me") and sometimes a soft kiss on the lips. If your walking downtown, walking to a store from a parking lot, taking a walk, at the mall etc. Link arms with him and lay your head on his shoulder!! Grab his hand and tightly squeeze and say I like you so much!! it'll show him that he's speacial to you but that you dont have to be all over him to show that!!
Hope this works!! Good luck with the relationship girlie!!
Good luck,
P. Trixi
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Q: im not a virgin, and i just started having sex with my new b/f he is like really big and the next day my stomach hurts. what is the problem? when we do it at first it hurts cuz hes hugeee but the next day i dont understand?
what can i do to prevent this and why does it happen?
a poor sole
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First off, if he's huge theres your first problem. It happans alot and its perfectly normal. Your getting stretched down there and I taken if you haven't been with someone as huge as him so its going to hurt, i dont know about stomach pains though. If it continues I would get it checked or just don't have sex for awhile. It should go away. I can undestand the next morning but not the whole day.
Good luck,
P. Trixi
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Q: Well i love my boo very much and i want to show him some love. What are some sweet nothings to whisper into my lovers ear? thnx.
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I love you, you mean everything to me, you make me smily, you make me happy, I'm so lucky to have you, i wish we're together forever, ever hour seems like a minute with you it goes by so fast, i miss you when your not around
Hope that Helped!!
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Q: i like this one kid so hard, he was totally flirting with me and i froze. i was like, "ha.. haa.." *AWKWARD SMILE* hhaha, it really sucks. i've never liked someone so much.
so tips on relaxing and flirting back please? :\
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http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting.htm
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Q: I'm mad at my best friend cause she keeps firting with my boyfriend. Should I be mad at her or should I be mad at him?
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Well if he isnt flirting back then you shouldnt be mad at him but you have the right to be mad at her. I would be mad to but you also need to understand that you need to talk to her. After all friends do come first. Just tell her it bothers you and that he is your boyfriend & you dont like that she flirts with him. Dont TELL her she flirts tell her it LOOKS like she flirts with him. She'll probably think if you TELL her she flirts with him verses it LOOKS like she flirts wtih him she'll probably think your being rude. I hope that made sense. But if he is flirting back then you need to talk to the both of them. And also make sure they just aren't flirtacious kind of people.
Good luck!
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Q: I am going to be 20 in march and Im a female. I've had a man for 3 years this july. He's in the military so its like im livin two lives. Neways, I went out with my friend and I met this boy. He is so sweet and we hit it off pretty good. I've ended up stayin at his house hangin out, talkin to him, gettin to know him better for the last week or two. I love my boyfriend, but i got feelings for this other one. I dont know if i should tell my boyfriend that we need some space. Should i see what its like with this other guy? Take the chance? Is it true that if i realize i messed up by lettin him go, we will find our way back to eachother again?
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Well i'm in the same boat as your bf. Me and my bf broke up of 21 months and he said we needed space. He' hasnt realized it fully that he misses me but its going to hit him. What im saying is your going to question that you miss him and watn him back because its been such a long long relationship between you and your bf. If you two are meant to be together everything will find a way to piece back together. Nothing can change destiny no matter what you do or who you date. You'll end up with the guy you are maent to be with garenteed. So no matter how big,, hard, small, or easy this step will be take the risk. You need to see whats out there exspeacially sense you are questioning the relationship. I wouldnt really tell your bf that your constantly seeign this guy but you could mention him that you just know him briefly but not how well and dont get to into depth. But think about it.. Maybe a break between you and him is healthy anyhow. Try and tell him how you feel and talk to him in a way that shows that you want to be with him you just have mixed feelings and your not quite sure what you want. You cant expect this to be an easy process and you cant expect to be happy right away either but the whole military adds a whole other level to it too. I'd say go for it, and if you are your bf are meant to be-it'll al wok out perfectly.
Promise
Trixxi
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Q: 1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ?
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1) Its the guys job to make the first move.. all the way
2) You compliment them, flirt with them, call them, and ask them to hang out with them. Show that you care about them, ask them questions about them like how they're day went, what they did, and etc.
3) You can't just become "not shy" you have to feel comfortable, and its a trust level and comfort zone. You have to get to know people before you become less shy around them, its a hard thing to overcome I know but you can do it im sure!!
4) Talk aboutthings to get to know them. What music are they into? Do they play sports? Who are they friends with? Whats your favorite movie? Stuff like that.
5) Thats a tuffy you just gotta "go for the gold" you do what you can and if you don't succeed it just gives you more apt-ted-ness to do it next time. But if you show your a caring person im sure they'll like you back.
6) If they aren't flirting back, change the subject, laughing, or just aren't aknowleding you back anymore when you flirt.
We hope this helped you
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Q: which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading
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Well it depends on the girl mostly but i would go for nice teeth so when he smiles you see pearly whites and note golden colored teeth. Umm cheekbones?? As for hair i wouldnt go for balding but thats just my personal opinion. And as for eyes.. I like bright eyes. Like the really pretty blue or the deep brown.
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Q: I like my best friends boyfriend. I can't help it! I would NEVER date him, even if they broke up because thats just wrong and mean to my best friend. What can I do to get over him? He seems perfect and I wish that my best friend hadnt gone out with him in the first place. But I feel really bad for thinking that.
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You can't really decide who you like and don't like. You don't decide that nor does your mind. Your heart does so you can't blame yourself for that. I wouldn't suggest going and telling your friend this because it may make her feel uncomfortable when you're around him. I would just try seeing your best friend and him as the better couple verses you and him. Look for other nice guys (theres plenty im sure) but just relize he's with her, and if you two are meant to be then you two will happan. Just not right now. But keep your chin up kiddo cuz you'll find your prince charming. I promise. I hope I helped you a little bit. If not let me know i'll be glad to help & clear myself up a bit.
love trixx
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Q: Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE! i cant wait for him and he needs to know that.
thank you!
-jool
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I hated when this happned. But i sooner or later learned that what happans.. happens for a reason. You just need to tell him, and if explaining it to him is to hard to tell him in person thats okay, we all get a little bit shy!, but write him a letter sometimes its much easier that way to express how you really feel. I am that way, its so much better for me to write my thoughts on paper, you have time to think about it, and your not pressured to spill words out right then & there. You can also erase anything u said. But you do need to tell him otherwise one day you may look back regretting that u never did tell him. That wouldnt be good, Just remember this ... "Never regret anything that onces made you S.M.I.L.E"
I hope i helped
-Princess Trixx
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Q: Hey,
Right, so I had been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months and recently I told her that I needed some space and I was'nt sure if I loved her any more. She still really loves me and wants to get back together but I don't know what to do. If we do get back together and it doesn't work out she will just keep getting hurt which is not something I want.
I really like her as a friend but honestly don't know if I feel anuthing more than than for her any more.
Any advice is more than welcome,
Thanks in advance.
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Just tell her time is what you need, you do however want to keep her close as a friend but you dont think you want to keep a relationship with that much value or whatever. Im sure you've had your heart broken before just remember what that felt like so be sympathetic but dont just let her dangle by a thread. That wouldn't be nice, dont mess with her emotions but understanding and caring. You gotta be clean, and blunt about how you feel yes she'll have a hard time understanding thats its really over but she also needs to understand that you need your time, space, and other things to do. You do have a life to work on, and your life doesnt involve a gf.. she'll understand. I wouldnt go about using the words i did cuz i would think that if u used all my exact words the relationship afterwords wouldnt be so good.. but you can just use the jist of it.
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Q: well ok there's this guy i like he's totally gangster and i love him we're cool and stuff.. but like my friend told me that she'll give hiim some hints but ya what kind of hinst should she give him?
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Try to avoid the word like cuz i dont understand the question
hints on what?
I'll help if you clarify this :-D
Happy Halloween
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Q: i'm 20; i've known this girl for 8 or 9 years now, i've always liked her, however i'm not really a ladys man. about 5 years ago i asked her out and she turned me down. about 2 years ago i thought i'd try it again, so i asked her out a 2nd time (i did not know it at the time, but found out later, about a week before i asked her out she started seeing someone else) she never really turned me down, but never took me up on my offer either.
we had not really spent any time togather in about a year; then 2 weeks ago she called me up out of the blue on sunday 10pm and asked me if i'd like to come over to her house to "hang out" when ever we hung out before it was always me, her and her twin sister, but that night it was just me and her. we sat alone in her living room and talked non stop from 10:30pm till 2:30am and there was never a dull moment.(she told me about her current boyfriend, and how she wanted to break up with him) we did not talk all week, but again on sunday she called me up, at 8pm and asked if i'd like to "hang out" again, so me and her went mini golfing( shortly after starting she told me she broke up with her boyfriend) we got done at 9pm and she said she wanted ice cream, so we went to dennys at 9pm, and sat in dennys and talked non stop from about 9pm till 11:45pm it's almost midnight on sunday and she knew i had to work monday, but she acted like she did not want me to leave, when we left dennys the first thing she said was "so, what do you want to do now?" so she sugests we go back to her house, for a midnight swim and i agreed, we did not really swim much, just sat with our feet in the water for about 30min then went back into her house and again talked till 2:30am. just me and her, no one else.
when we talk she looks deeply into my eyes and laughs at every lame joke i make, but after beeing shot down twice i'm not so bold this time, does she like me?
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You cant tell really if someone likes you, but she may be starting to like you around, which means she make have a thing for you. Exspeacially sense she didnt want you to be leaving anytime soon. I think she looks at you as someone that she can count on, if she just broke up with her boyfriend then she obviously may need a bit of comfort weather she broke up wit him or he broke up with her,, its always a hard thing on people. I would just defintly try and stay in touch with her and if the signs get to mixed up, ask. You deserve to know whats going on being thats its your love life that we are talking about here. Just ask her if she could see you and her as a couple in the future possibly near future. I know that getting turned down one time is probably already hard as it is, and then a 2nd time? Which is probably even harder, I would go for it one more time if you really think you do like her and if she is worth the "fight." Then go for it! I think if you ask her a 3rd time she may see that you a strong person and not weak. Your a fighter and not a giver upper. She'll see that you really do have something for her. You could possibly call her up one night and ask if she wanted to go do something fun such as : Roller skating, go carting, baseball cages, or walk around in the mall. Something. Just don't make it seem like to much of date, just slowly eaze into it. Maybe for some reason she was possibly scarred of having a relationship with you, I would just talk to her about it first because you don't deserve to have your emotions toyed with. If the third time doesnt work then i hate to say it but i dont think it ever will. I would let it go from there and move on. You two were probably just ment to be friends if that is the case. Sense she isn't giving you even a chane to prove yourself that you can and could be a great boyfriend. Let me know how things work out!
trix
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Q: Hey- I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too and we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem- I want to kiss her (just a kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it... Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help
P.S. we are meeting tomorrow! I need advice soon!
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Be sure to make eye contact!!
http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/
Maybe that will help.
alright jerk
i bet you looked at the website anyways...
Your not even suave
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Q: I'm still in love with my exboyfriend but I know he doesn't like me anymore but the thing is i CAN'T get over him! I've been trying for over 6 months and I just burst into tears when we had this conversation on the computer...
him: i hav a question
me: yess?
me: whats your question?
him: i love u but here is my question can we put clip art on our project
me: lmao yeah
him: not love love but u no
me: lmao yeah
WHAT SHOULD i DO!? PLEASE HELP ME!
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It would be best if you didn't talk to him. I bet your like what? how could i not? i totally like this kid. Its hard i know but you really gotta. But sense the whole deal of it not working by ignoring just remember to look for others. There are always a gazillion other people. Also.. I love this saying- Don't make someone your priorority when to them your only an option.
Think about it
trix'
Good luck
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Q: 15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?
-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.
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Let him know your so happy he's in your life and that you can't beleive how long its been sense you 2 have been 2gether and its been an amazing trip being with him. And you look forward to seeing him every day.
Hope that helps you out a little
trix
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Q: I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?
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I'd say go for the name and that means more thought and time was put into it. Wouldnt you rather see your name under it?
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Q: 13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest
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You know i dont have all that much money either so i am baking a cake for my boyfriend. Just make him cupcakes or a cake. My cake has pink frosting and white lettering and red and white hearts all over. and it says I love you. Its cinnamon swirl cake. Just ask ur mom to pick up some cake mix after shes done with work. Or bake cookies and put hearts on them. Or lips. Its the thought that counts and write him a letter and stick it into a card you make. A CD would be a great idea of course too! let me know how it goes!
Hope I helped (sorry so short im at school)
Trix
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 221551
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