I'm still in love with my exboyfriend but I know he doesn't like me anymore but the thing is i CAN'T get over him! I've been trying for over 6 months and I just burst into tears when we had this conversation on the computer...
him: i hav a question
me: yess?
me: whats your question?
him: i love u but here is my question can we put clip art on our project
me: lmao yeah
him: not love love but u no
me: lmao yeah
Additional info, added Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:20 pm: I tried building a friendship and not talking to him for 2 months...beleive me it doesnt work
The only way you'll ever get over someone is to stop talking for way more than 2 months. Building a friendship definetly isn't the way to go either. Seriously, you have to shut off all contact with this guy to get over him.
x0_maggie answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:29 pm: Try not to talk to him. Avoid him for a while. Start setting your eye on other guys. Take your mind off him. You need to get over him; he needs to be a figure of the past. I think you should just try to let it go....just try.
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:09 pm: It would be best if you didn't talk to him. I bet your like what? how could i not? i totally like this kid. Its hard i know but you really gotta. But sense the whole deal of it not working by ignoring just remember to look for others. There are always a gazillion other people. Also.. I love this saying- Don't make someone your priorority when to them your only an option.
Think about it
soendearing answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 9:36 pm: I advise you to not talk to him. It could work out for the better. Or you can tell him to stop saying things like "i love you" when you guys talk. You don't want to hurt yourself over a boy, believe me hunn, they're not worth your tears. :] [ soendearing's advice column | Ask soendearing A Question ]
jammy12 answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 9:33 pm: Ok so he doesn't like u...but he's sending u that? Are you sure?
Ok so if he doesn't like u build a friendship with him...so ya'll will be friends and you know he's always there..but not as a bf as a best friend (that's what i did)
But if he truly likes u...remember what he did you...or why ya'll broke up. If it's serious just be friends but if it's something petite and can be mended (not him cheatin) give it a nex shot!
loves2shop86 answered Wednesday April 19 2006, 9:26 pm: hey! wow no wonder you can't get over him! why are you still talking to him? he knows you still like him and he likes getting attention from you. as a result he is giving you attention, so that you continue to give it back to him. the only way you will ever get over him completely and stop cying over him is by cutting him out of your life completely! DO NOT TALK TO HIM, not matter how hard it is! in about 2 months of not talking to him at all, you should be over him. after that, you can start talking to him again and you guys can be friends. but for now, you can't keep talking to him and expect to lose feelings for him! trust me, been there done that! good luck! :) [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
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