I'm Kelsey and I am 14... My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year... He has put me through a lot of crap. My friend's have always told me to break up with him but I like him way to much to do that:( So now... He is getting mad because I am not all over him(kissing, hugging, and doing other things)... He told me that I can't get jealous if other girls are all over him and he doesn't stop them. He say's that because it's my job to be all over him.. I'm very shy when it comes to being and doing things around him... I need help trying to stop being so shy for one thing. And also to know how to be all over him! PLEASE HELP... I don't want him to break up with me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday July 13 2007, 4:39 pm: First off, It is NOT your job to all over him. It is NOT your job to be drooling over him. Your bf seems to be obsessive over himself and that is not a good thing. After 1/2 a yr you should at least pretty comfortable with him. Such as being able to eat, cry, get frusterated, fall, be goofy, and etc in front of him. Just kiss him randomly on the cheek, forehead (that means "your speacial to me") and sometimes a soft kiss on the lips. If your walking downtown, walking to a store from a parking lot, taking a walk, at the mall etc. Link arms with him and lay your head on his shoulder!! Grab his hand and tightly squeeze and say I like you so much!! it'll show him that he's speacial to you but that you dont have to be all over him to show that!!
Hope this works!! Good luck with the relationship girlie!!
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