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Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it...

No they dont hurt at all.they just look gross lol.

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hey!!!well what i wanna ask is well i met this really cute guy over spring break!! but hes like 3 years older than me(16). well he also lives in New York and i live in Kansas!!!! hes really sweet and think im in love.....but i dont know if i should have a long distance relationship.so do you think its a good idea to have a long distance relationship? well if you want you can go to my xanga its xanga.com/candyshop_2010!! and my yahoo is frankie_gotti_15!! luv ya!

i dont think theres anything wrong with long distance relationships,as long as you're the type of person that can handle not being near the person you're dating, because you probably won't be able to see him much and you'll only talk on the phone, but if you really want to be with him then do it!
hey ill subscribe to ur xanga if u subscribe to mine mine is xanga.com/x0_mrs_gotti_0x

♥ashley♥

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I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated

When you see her compliment her about something.If you like the top she's wearing say "that top looks really good on you" or tell her she looks pretty today.But don't go overboard because it might make you look kinda stalkerish.Just take it slow and give nice sweet compliments and remember a girl doesn't want to hear that she's hot, she wants to hear that she's beautiful:-)


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THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me desperate, but im not, although i do want a gf pretty bad. What make it worse is that i dont like party girls or girls that would go out with someone that just met and thought he is kinda cute, of course there is nothing wrong with that, im just being picky. I would like to get to know the girl a lil bit before i go out with her, but HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT????

Awww well theres nothing wrong with being picky about who you want to date.If people dating whoever showed interest, they would never be happy.Just be patient, and soon the right girl will come along.You can try going to places where you think the girl you would connect with most will be.If your more the quiet and sensitive type go to borders or starbucks and talk to some of the girls you see there.Or go to the movies,or somewhere like blockbuster if you're like me and love movies.You just have to wait and don't rush it.:-)


♥ashley♥

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

Yeah I think he likes you.If he said no when someone asked him if he liked brooke,but smiled when they asked if he liked you it seems he likes you but doesn't want to let anyone know because he has a girlfriend.He might be confused about whether he likes you or his girlfriend more, so give him sometime to decide what he wants to do.Or you can talk to him about it, and let him know you still like him.If you want to know anything else leave it in my inbox

♥ashley♥

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I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely!

I used to be just like that.I was always so shy, and was taught (wrong) that you shouldnt talk to boys they'll think you're easy which isn't true!just start talking to a boy you feel most comfortable talking to, like the boy sitting next to you in math class.And then maybe you can gather the courage to talk to a boy you like!And think positive about yourself, if you think of yourself as beautiful, you'll have the confidence and ability to do anything:-)

♥ashley♥

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what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~

Ask him staright up.Dont spy on him!he'll just get weirded out, and might break up with u if he finds out.



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when a guy is giving u a hickie, what should you do? just lay their? or do you kiss him or what im so confused?

Play with his hair,or tell him "your lips feel so good on my skin" or something corny like that, cuz when a guy is giving you a hicky theyre usually horny so yeah it helps lol.


♥ashley♥

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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...??

You know you're trying to hard when you repeatidly call him,follow him around and get really annoying with questions lol.You should give up if you've let him know you like him and he shows no interest.It saves the heartache.



♥ashley♥

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

I think you should give it a chance.You never know,he may be different than all the other high school guys.Good luck!


♥ashley♥

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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP!

Awww well it may be you still have feelings for her, and you didn't really want to break up.Take a while and think about everything,and decide if you want her back or not.And you should talk to her to see if she feels the same way.


♥ashley♥

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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?

Talk to her about it.


♥ashley♥

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ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me?

Okay i'm not bi,but i think i can help you out with this one.You start to feel a strong attraction to other girls,and you fantasize about them at times,but you still also feel attracted to guys.


♥ashley♥

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I just recently got asked out, and I said yes to make them happy. But, after the first day I'm already feeling crappy. I find myself comparing him to my first relationship, because it was so wonderful. My question is does this feeling ever go away? Can a relationship that starts off with no spark ever get better?

Just because you don't feel a spark right away doesn't mean the relationship cant turn into something better.If you think it's worth it,give it some time.After a couple weeks if you still feel miserable,it's time to say buh bye.


♥ashley♥

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ok... my boyfriend and i really really like eachother... but online i don't no what to say to him... i want to make him laugh and he already knows my hobbies and i already no his... what are some FUNNY topics that will make him laugh... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers i swear!

Go to a jokes site and look up jokes.


♥ashley♥

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When it comes to dating and what-not, do guys prefer looks or personality? If looks, then what primarily are they interested in? If personality, then what kind of traits do they like?

Well all guys are different. Most guys will say both are important,but they lean more towards personality.If a girl is gorgeous,but has a horrible personality,but good would it be to date her,they wouldnt want anything more than to hook up.The guys I know they like girls who are fun,and can joke around and don't take stuff too seriously.Who don't act all snobby (think regina george from mean girls).Hope I helped:-)

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well me and my best friend have been friends for 9 months. and i love him to death! i was thinken of asken him who he liked/loved or something today but then i found out he was talking be hind my back!!! calling me a slut and a bitch! he gets mad at me very easy. what should i do talked to him about it? i don't want him to get mad at me ! please help

i rate high

Well hun, I don't think anyone who talked about their "friends" behind their back is a good friend.But maybe you should talk to him maybe somethings bothering him and you two should talk it over.

♥ashley♥

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Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too?

Not if you make sure your boyfriend's okay with it.Some guys see that as a sign that you're not interested in him anymore.

♥ashley♥

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I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.

~*~Britt~*~

I'm overweight too, but i've never had a problem getting guy friends or whatever.I'm just laid back and I like to laugh and joke around, and people like me for that.Just be yourself, to the best that you can be.Show guys theres more to u than meet sthe eye:-)

♥ashley♥

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last night i called a guy that i have known for about a year he moved this summer and i havn't really talked to him that much. well we were on three way with my friend kate and him. he asked me if i still had feeling for him. what does that mean? like is he interested in me or what?

i have two questions.

my friend kate told me that she liked this guy on the phone can't say his name. i also like him and i told her and now i asked him if he would ever go out with her and he said idk maybe. so last night she said i'll ask him if he likes you and if he says yes then i'll hook yall up, but if he says no then try and hook me and him up. and i don't want to hook her up with him. i have known him longer and he was my first love. so what do i do?

Tell her that you like him, and don't want to hook her up with him.You knew him longer, so u got first dibs=D

♥ashley♥

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