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being bi


Question Posted Tuesday February 15 2005, 7:35 pm

ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me?

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Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 1:27 pm:
Okay i'm not bi,but i think i can help you out with this one.You start to feel a strong attraction to other girls,and you fantasize about them at times,but you still also feel attracted to guys.


♥ashley♥

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CheRRiiEz_2005 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 12:21 pm:
i sorta had the smae feelings like tis ok if you think a gurl is pretty or something because thats natural! i have even had a few drunk experiences with a couple gurls dat are friends of mine but i didnt really like it and i didnt have no feelings about it like i didnt really like it. now if you really like or girl and you really want to be bi then you can experiment or whatever and find out if thats what you want and once youve dont something with a girl then you will really no if you want to be with a guy or a girl or both! good luck!
shaiina

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russianspy1234 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 1:33 am:
you dont want to be bi, but you are. i can see how taht is a problem based on your religion telling you taht its a choice. experiment with a girl that is either bi or lez, if you like then youll know that you are bi. my friend was kicked out of the house because her mom read her diary and found out she was bi, my advice would be not to come, i know that may sound wrong but its preatty specific to your situation. sicne you mention bieng catholic im guessing you go to services and such and i honestly feel that if word got out about your sexuality in the church your safety could be in danger.

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hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 10:09 pm:
screwing a member of the same sex is a big one.
-hitler

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bucsbaby6969 answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:39 pm:
looking at girls butts, bein in the locker room and lookin at chicks in their undies and thongs and well imagining doing things with girls. I am bi and im 13 i can help u if you need anything so drop me one in the inbox.

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LeXiS48858 answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:15 pm:
Just because you think a girl is good looking doesn't mean that your bi. I do it all the time, I'll just be like "wow she's really pretty, I wish I looked like that" That doesn't make me bi or a lesbian, it just means that I think that the person is pretty and that I wished that I looked like that. I really wouldn't worry about it too much.

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angieroonie answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:13 pm:
you know that you are bi when you long to be with another girl.. havn't been there myself so i cant describe it anymore but my friend is bi and i asked her and that is what she said.

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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Here2HelpU answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:00 pm:
thinking a girl is good looking doesnt make you bi.... its when you feel for a girl strongly... you knwo what its like to have a crush on a guy so if you feel that same way for a girl you probably are bi.... i dont ever want you to think that is wrong though... there is nothing wrong with being bi... some people may say there is but its your life your decision... i hope i helped.

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Nokomis answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 7:59 pm:
Why is being bi a bad thing? Everyone tries something once. I am not bi or a lesbian so I am not speaking from experience, but I do have a lot of friends who are. Hope I helped a little bit.

~Nokomis~

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Untouchable answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 7:53 pm:
When your around girls.. Do you feel like you just want to hold them or kiss them?
When your around guys.. would u rather be around girls?
Maybe you only feel like you becoming one because ur around alot of bisexual people..

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