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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
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Ok just to get things started you should break up with your current boyfriend. I know guys trust me I am one I know how they think if he thinks he can cheat on you and get away with it he will (I personally would never do that to my g/f but im different than most guys or so people tell me) the first thing to understand is he is lieing to you. If someone lies to me once about something major then it takes me a while to trust them again. What I say you should do (by smoke yuo mean weed right) is with my g/f before I was dating her she used to smoke and one day I called her b/c she told me to and lo and behold when I called her she was in the middle of smoking and I said if you ever do that again I will never talk to you again so for the smoking you could try that (go figure a month or so after i said that i started dating her) but if i were you which im not if your b/f now truly makes you unhappy and lies to you and ur ex makes you happy then start dropping hints on your ex let him know how you feel and most of all if you have reason to believe your b/f is lieing or cheating on you or you have proof you should break up with him right then and there (Ok this is a little side note as i said ik guys i am one.. i guarntee you that if he is cheating on you and you find out and you lets say break up with him never take him back no matter what b/c trust me IF HE TRIED IT ONCE HE WILL TRY IT AGAIN AND AGAIN and it will leave you in pieces) hope i helped some sorry for the parts where i blabbed but what can you do lol
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Why are guys so goddamn shallow?! Not saying girls aren't but I know I lowered my standards a bit because the guy I like right now is hott to me but I know the majority of girls would disagree. It's just..the boobs, tall, blonde hair..can't guys see past that to other people with more substance?! Do similar interests mean anything? How can you tell if they're flirting or not or just pretending to lead you on then burn you, or even just being "friends"? Please help, I'm so sick of being a loner. Thanks. (link)
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In all honesty with me i always look for personality over looks because thats just the way i am and not only that but i dont do stuff like lead people on so i would have no clue how to help you
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Why do girls help a guy cheat on his current girlfriend, then date him after they break up? They've already proven that this guy is totally willing to cheat, so do they actually think he wont do the same to them? Are girls really that stupid? (link)
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yes my friend they really are that stupid it goes sumetin like this...come on cheat on her with me then tell her and break up with her that way i can go out with you then you can end up cheating on me because i already proved that you are willing and ready to cheat...they are stupid but it would just make the guys life easier if he never cheated...THATS WHY IM NEVER GONNA CHEAT ON ANY GURLS IF I STOP LIKING THEM OR SUMETIN LIKE THAT I WOULD BREAK UP WITH THEM:-D
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most girls call guys pigs and cheaters....but i was just curious as to how many people know this is that girls actually cheat more than men do its just that they dont get caught as easily as guys do....so y would girls call cheaters and such when its actually proven that they cheat more than guys...but they are better at hiding it so im just curious as to why guys get labeled as being more of the cheating type??? thanks 4 the help (link)
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that is a very good question...i wish i knew the answer to it
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ok well im really confused. i like 4 guys
i dont wanna say names (this is gonna sound mean) but im gonna call them numbers haha
boy #1-hes a complete jerk to me. but he says hes just kidding around...he says i mean the world to him...we went out for about a month and he said that he could be with me forever. but then he dumped me...we're still friends and i think i love him but hes been being a jerk to me lately. and i dont like it! and he just laughs at me when i say STOP BEING A JERK! hes like you kno im just kidding...and he doesnt get it that i DONT LIKE IT!
boy #2--i met him a couple weeks ago and we got drunk together. we had fun and flirted and he said he really liked me...i started falling for him slowly. he really wants to hang out with me again...but the past few days, my friends have been screwing things up for us. by saying i dont like him and i dont wanna do ne thing with him and just being really mean!!!...so i havent talked to #2 in a few days and im gettin kinda worried he doesnt like me ne more (out of the 4 boys...i like him the most!) we might go to the movies on friday and im going to his cookout on saturday. im just not sure what to do or say to him if i really do like him
boys #3--hes my best friend. we went out 2 years ago. nuthin big...and then we didnt talk for like 1 and a half years. then he IMed me and we talked and started hanging out. we went 2 the beach together. and he came over my house after...nuthin happened. just hung out..then he came over my house today and he was flirting with me soooo bad! like cuddling...and then we went in my jaccuzzi and he like held me in his arms...it was really sweet. it felt perfect. but its just so weird kuz hes like my best friend! and i dont know if i should tell him or not...i've never thought of him as a b/f...and now its just kinda weird that i sorta like him....
and finally...boys #4--i just kinda have a crush on him...he likes my best friend. but she doesnt like him back....i just wanna kno if i should get to know him better or just stay friends because of all these other stupid boys in my life!! haha
soooo i just wanna know which boy i should talk to more...or what i should talk to them about....or any advice you can give me
plz and thxx!!! (link)
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wow im amazed you like 4 ppl and im gonna pretend i have no idea who is asking this question even tho i do know who is asking the question....now 4 my answer ummm i say u go w/boy 3
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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money? (link)
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dont dump him listen he already has enough shit to deal with let alone losing the love of his life just stay with him you never know something good could happen he could get promoted or find a better job and make more money just stay with him and tuff it out
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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honestly ur friend dosent sound like a good friend..i think that if your b/f loves/likes you then he wouldnt let one of your friends mess up your relationship he probably likes you alot and wont listen to what your friend says..well if i was him i wouldnt listen to what your friend says
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My boyfriend wants me to do more with him than just making out. I guess I'm kinda prude & clueless. What else is there to do besides having sex/oral? (link)
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hand jobs and having him finger u that is all else so ya ok and he can feel you up but whatever
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okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do? (link)
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i wouldnt talk to him he cheated on you once hewill do it again if he betrayed ur trust once he will do it yet again.
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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
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just be blunt and say i dont love you sorry thats all you have to do but dont sound mean when you do it say it nice dont say it angry.
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well where do i start? im going out with this boy right,(let call him sam) anyway. and of course im atracted to him. but we sed that we were going to try and have an open relationship to bring us closer because weve done everything with each other and he suggested that if we got with other people then it would make us appreciate each other more. and so far its working. we dont share what we have done but we tell each other that we are doing it. so far it working. when we het back together its amazing (just thinking about it and im short of breath if you know what i mean? lol!) nyway ppl found out about it and keep telling us that we dont care bout each other and that its disgusting. we have tried explaining but no-one else seems to understand. what do you think? is it right? (link)
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I think you shouldnt listen to those people ok you do whatever you want with your life and your relationship dont let ppl tell you something is wrong just because it dosent work for them.
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alright so last month around feb 9th my boyfriend fingered me and i wasnt sure if he had anything on his fingers or not..well i freaked out because my period didnt come till feb 28!! (and im positive it was my period not just spotting) well this month i havent got my period yet and its april tommorow..i havent done ANYTHING whatsoever with my bf at all this month. maybe my period is just late because i didnt end my last period till march 6 or 7th. im not sure. so ive been REALLY freaking out about this. and today i took at pregnancy test and it said i wasnt pregnant. but what if it was lying? could i be pregnant? the test only costed 10$ so it was kind of cheap.. (link)
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if you have had your period then you cant be pregnant your cycle is probably irregular...
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Hi I'm 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m. We've been going out for 2.5 years now and like every couple, we have our share of arguments.
The problem with my boyfriend is that he's beginning to develop a short fuse. The reason I say develop is because his anger has never been this bad, not until recently. Fortunately, he doesn't get violent, but he does say a lot of mean and hurtful things that he admits that he regrets later.
When I talk to him about it, he sincerely apologizes, and tells me that when he gets angry now, it's hard to control his anger. It's really bothering me that he's like this because it seems like he gets irritable more often over the silliest of things and his hurtful words are taking its toll on me and our relationship.
We've decided long ago to keep our disagreements and conflicts civil to the best of our ability, and it was working for the most part, but now I'm the only one putting in any real effort.
I know he doesn't mean it, and my question is if there is anything I can really do to help him? I'm usually good at giving myself advice on how to handle situations like these, but I feel I've tried everything. I've confronted him about it, when we fight I hardly raise my voice and I tell him to calm down, I've proposed taking breaks, just anything you can really imagine. Some say that I should threaten to leave him or something along those lines, but trust me, it only makes him more angry.
It's like male PMS or something, he gets more irritable than me sometimes!
And no, it's not because he's sexually frustrated. How I know it's not a problem is because we are very honest and open about sex and everything for that matter; our communication and sex life are great.
So really I need advice on if there is anything I can do (that I haven't tried) and if anyone knows where this sudden bad temperment could have come from? Thanks so much! (link)
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He has to g to counsling or anything to control his anger the reason is almost all cases of physical abuse begin with verbal abuse.. now he might just say hurtful things now but one day he could hit you now i know you are thinking he would never do that but you have to a counsler with him to get his anger under control.
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okay.. well theres this one guy names tony and me and him were makin out and all, and i gave him a handjob. but i didnt have sex with him and i had my period. sO , he went and blew his load and it went on my hole. so i was wondering if u have ur period, and that happened, could i possibly be pregnant??? ill rate high, just please help .. (link)
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If you had your peirod then you are ok you dont get your period if you ae pregnant ok.....
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i need a website to make a jornal or a cool subprofile if you can help me ill give u a 5!!!! (link)
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www.xanga.com
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I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated (link)
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As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me? (link)
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I would say anyone older than 22 is to old for you just wait and the right guy will come along for you. Dont go searching for love Love will find you. EDIT to what you said in the feedback You are welcome
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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok??????? (link)
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If you ask me it is ok because i feel exactly like that and it sux :-(
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I have this boyfriend, he's really nice but i never ever get to see him because he lives in a different town. Everytime i get the chance to go visit it seems like he has something else to do. He has cheated on me about 3 times already but we made up. He calls me every night and is a sweet heart. I dont noe if i should stay with him or break up. I feel so bad when i break up with him because ive done it before that i just go out with him again. what would i say? someone please help (link)
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If he cheated on you. Then you should stop going out with him ok Once a cheater always a cheater ok hope i helped bye
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
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oh if you are 14 then i would say anyone older than 16 is too old maybe areound your age or 15 but older than 16 i think is too old
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