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Hello! I'm Jenn! I LOVE my friends and I'll try really hard to give you good advice. I like to sing, dance, and act and I love theater! So go ahead, ask me anything!
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well my boyfriend broke up with me this saturday and i was actually not too upset, i felt a little heartbroken but thats it. when he broke up with me he told me to see other people and that i should try to get another boyfriend by the end of the week. well, i didnt want to really do either of them but then i decided i sort of wanted revenge so i hooked up with kid i knew from school, we've talked a little before but not too much, we snuck out and met halfway and then we talked for a long time which led into messsing around. at the end of it i found out he was the best friend of the kid who likes me and wants to ask me out, so im screwed. i dont know what to do, my ex hates me know because he found out what i did.
Why would your ex be mad? Wasn't he the one who told you to see other people?! So the kid you hooked up with is the best friend of the kid who likes you. Do you like the kid back? Do you like the kid who you hooked up with? I would just see which one you like better or date neither of them. Hope this helps!
my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you
I honestly doubt they'll kill eachother. But I think you should talk to both of them seperatley. Tell your boyfriend that you'll stay with him and you love him. And about your relative liking you...that's gross. And it's illegal to do stuff with people who are related to you. I'd tell him that since you two are related, you don't see him in a boyfriend way and you're already with someone. I'd also tell them to NOT FIGHT because I'm pretty sure fighting wouldn't win your heart. (It sure wouldn't win mine) Best of luck!
I am 15 years old and so is my boyfriend. There is this girl that he talks to that has been his friend for years. They both say that they are brother and sister type friends. I believe them but I have really big jealousy issues. This girl is skinnier than I, and prettier. I recently got into a fight with my boyfriend because when he went to his friends house she showed up. I ignored his calls and everything. Well, this girl Instant Messaged me asking me if he could go to San Francisco with her tomorrow to hang out with her and her mother because it is her birthday and she has no one else to go with and doesn't want to go alone. I want to feel sad and just cry thinking about. But they're just friends, right? Should I just let him go and face my jealousy and see if it helps me get over it? Or should I put my foot down and object of the whole thing?
I'd deal with it. Trust me, if they've been friends for years, they don't see eachother any other way. I understand that you can be jealous, but take my word for it: they're only friends. My best friend is a guy and we've been best friends pretty much our whole lives. HIs crushes get completely jealous of me because we're so close. But any affection between the two of us would make us puke. So, I'm pretty sure they're only friends.
Me and my boyfriend lets call him Tom have been together for about a week. We really have a good connection. I have hugged him once. And he asked me if he could kiss me twice, but i didn't answer him. I really want to kiss him so badly, but im nervous. When my friend lets call her Megan kissed her boyfriend lets call him Dan she nearly missed. So i don't want to miss like she did. But however I'm more experienced. And she's only kissed twice.Should I kiss him??
Yes. If you want to, then do it! Don't worry about missing or being nervous or whatever. Just follow your heart!
Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him?
no. Do you realize what you'd be waiting for? A guy to dump his girlfriend. I don't think it's a good idea to be waiting for a guy to dump his girlfriend. Who says he wouldn't promise another girl he'd date her when you two went out? Trust me, there's plenty of fish in the sea!
hey! 16/f
well you see there is this guy...and its one of my cousins good friends. they're a year younger than me but who cares. anyways i kinda started to like my cousins friend (kevin) and we always flirted like him grabing me..wrestling..just anything. and then yesterday me and my other cousin came back to her house afer being out and then she had to just do something quick and we were gonna go back to my house. well we see kevin and my cousin hanging out and my cousin is like where are you going? and we're like back to my house.and then kevin comes over and just sits in the backseat of my car and they want to go back to my house for a little bit. so we did and then when we were coming back kevin always wants "shotgun" :D i dont mind at all haha. but he is just so cute and he was like singing these love songs it was adorable the only problem is he has a ..GIRLFRIEND. yeah but then when we both got home we were talking on the computer on AIM and hes we had like the longest conversation and how we said we are best friends haha and im like are you scared to drive with me? because some people say im a crazy driver and hes like no why do you think i would sit in the front..i trust my best friend. i was like aww
I think he likes you. But I wouldn't do anything about it yet. Just keep on flirting and doing what you have been doing, in time they'll break up and you can act on your emotions! Btw, I think the stuff he says to you is uber cute.
I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?
Be friends. The most you can do is be good friends and you may hopefully date her in the future.
Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.
July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.
The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.
Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.
HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME
holy shit. Well, I definitly wouldn't go out with Mark seeing as though he dumps everyone within a week or two. And for Felix, as long as you're happy with him I'd stay with him. But to me, he seems a bit crazy. it sounds like he really loves you. As long as you love him back... But I think he needs to see a therapist. Hope this helps!
I'm a 14/f and i haven't had a bf in like over a year!i think i might be giving off the wrong vibe to guys but i'm not a les.I'm supposedly the prettiest out of my friends and i like guys but they dont seem to like me!Help please!
Don't worry. The same thing actuslly happened to me. I was in a relationship and then when that was over I almost went 2 years w/o another one. I'd be open, honst, and very flirty. Just find a guy you like and connect with him. Deff. flirt with him and such. Good luck with finding a b/f.
i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please
It all depends on how much you're willing to do for this boy. If you really like him and you're sure you want to be with him, then yes I'd date him. But if you're having second thoughts, then I'd pass him up. I have a friend whose going into high school while her bf is staying in middle school, she dumped him and she already has a high school guy who likes her! But I also have a friend in high school while his gf was in middle school. They're made for eachother and they love eachother. It all depends on what you're willing to do for him!
Allright well im 16/f!
and i just wanna say im like really gettin upset and down on not having a boyfriend. i just want to feel needed by someone and know that someone is always there to cuddle with me,hug me, kiss me. ive NEVER had a boyfriend before but now..i just really want one. i know you cant just say you want one and have one because someone just has to come to you..has to be at the right time. but you see im a shy girl around 120 pounds 5'6 brown hair and eyes..tanner..and i just dont know whats wrong with me?? no guy has ever liked me how sad is that. i just want a guy that i can be with and know that they like me back. im just so sick of trying to look and WAITING ... im scared one will never come i feel like such a loser. but i am so shy as i said before so what can i do to help this? there is this kid that my cuzin likes and his name is bobby and well ive always thought he was hot!! but ive never got to meet him before and she wants me to hangout with him and her sometime soon! i want to get his attention but i feel bad cuz my cousin likes him =p i love her so much that i wouldnt wanna do that to her but it would be such a perfect opportunity and she knows that i think he is hot! well thats not the problem really..the whole problem is the boyfriend thing! lately ive been feeling so down and ugly..and alone.
what should i do?
i'll rate 5 for anyone who helps me
ok, well I know what you're going through. Although I have had a couple boyfriends, it was about a year in between them. So for that year I was feeling ugly and lonely. If you want a boyfriend, all you have to do is do massive flirting! Just hug them and make eye contact and flirt with them. I'd also flirt with other guys around them. Trust me, they'll like you in no time. As for you thinking you're ugly, every girl thinks that! Think of the one quality you like about yourself and focus on that. And for the cousin thing, DO NOT FLIRT WITH HIM! She saw him first and she liked him first. Let her have them. Hope this helps!
okay my boyfriend got out of this 9 month relationship ect.. and the break up was bad
he actaully hates the girl now
and like..i feel like hes not putting forth no effort in ours relationship like with him and his ex;s he was like perfect he called her ect.. got her things..
and with me he never calls
i always call him
and i get him things.
he got me a bear and hasnt gaven it to me yet i mean hello?
i feel like im putting forth more effort than him
how do i tell him?
Just go up to him and say, "I don't know if you're truly over your ex. You seemed like the perfect boyfriend with her. You would get her things and call her, but with me it's like the opposite! ALl I'm saying is, it feels like I'm putting more in our relationship." I hope ths helps!
me and my boyfriend broke up today because another boy blew a kiss at me and i laughed -- which he considered flirting i didnt do it on purpose so we broke up and today after school he told one of my friends he was just made and he wants to get back with me as all day at school he screamed and yelled at me and told me he didnt want to go on our class trip with me any more and we always fight and argue is it worth the troubles? should i get back with him or not? i love him but i dont think i can handle this anymore. Should i move on to see if theres better things or stay with the person i love that always hurts me? some one please help me!
Honestly, if you two fight constantly, then I'd give up on him. He's not worth your tears. Deff. flirt with the kid who blew a kiss at you. (Even if it was a joke.) IF you really love your ex and you don't mind always fighting with him, then sure, get back together. But he's not worth your time. Hope this helps!
omg i am sooo scared. i think my boyfriend is mad at me i just don't know why. we were in pe and stuff and we were playing softball but we aren't on the same team and we were playing against other teams and stuff and when we were on the way back to the gym i called his name and he turned in looked then looked away and kept on walking. Then i'm trading lockers with one of my friends that's a guy and he saw me putting stuff in the locker and he just walked right passed me. I don't know if i should say something to him or not. I'm just really scared that he might get even more mad if i do ask him that question. things like this are so confusing.
If you can't even ask your boyfriend if he's mad at you then you know the relationship is going downhill. I'd just ask him what's up and if he's mad at you. Let him talk it all out before you say anything.Don't get defensive or say anything you'll regret later. I'd just apologize, make it up to him, and turn a new leaf and forget about it(as long as he does too.) Hope this helps!
okay well a few years ago i was going out with this kid and we broke up. well all of a sudden he starts talkin to me again. he says that he still likes me & wants to give us another shot. the problem is he lives kinda far away. i do really like him but i've been hurt so many times before that i'm not sure if i want to commit to another relationship. i do really like him though. im just really confused & anybody who can help please!
Well, let me tell you that long distance relationships usually don't work out. But don't get me wrong, I've known plenty of people who have had long distance relationships and they're still together and stuff! The question is, do you really want to commit? I'd only go for the long distance relationship if you're ready to commit like that and if you really like him. If you don't think you're ready to date him, then maybe you can just be better friends with him (a little flirting never hurt anyone!) and if he's like, well why won't you date me? Just say your reasons. Hope this helped!
I am 14 and I have been dating this guy who was one of my best friends beforehand for about a month now. However, for the last week or so, my boyfriend has been really serious about us, and I don't like it. I much preferred being good friends with him or going out with our friends. All in all, I don't like him that much anymore. But he's just the opposite: I think he likes me even more than before.
I don't want to hurt his feeling, but I really want to break up with him; I like someone else. He is the typical popular person, and though I am not really in his crowd, we are still friends. We both play hockey and he is so much fun to talk to. I really enjoy spending time with the popular person, but I always feel guilty because I really like him and I don't think he likes me any more than a friend.
Should I break up with my boyfriend and ask out the popular person? Or should I keep everything the way it is?
Thanks,
Cat
If you don't like the guy you're dating, dump him. I know you don't want to hurt his feelings but you guys aren't going to be together forever. One of you eventually will break up with the other. So again, if you don't like him dump him. About this other guy, popularity doesn't really matter. It matters if you both like eachother. If he only likes you as a friend, show him your affectionate side. Show him and tell him that you like him and you really want to be with him. Let's hope he'll see that he wants to be with you as well. Hope this helps!
tomorrow i am meetin my boyfriend of 10 months mom. i would like to know some do's and dont's about. i was wondering if it would be okay to wear make-up and what is something to wear. thanks 4 everyone who answers. i will rate
Do: Treat her like a friend
Don't: Be too friendly and gossip or start cursing.
Do: Compliment her
Don't: Overly compliment her. one or two compliments are good but too many make you seem nervous and fake.
Do: Tell her how much you enjoy being with her son.
Don't: Go into full detail of what you guys do together.
Do: Tell her it's nice to meet her.
Don't: Say it fake. *Always be sincere about everything you say to her.
Do:Be yourself!(But in limitations)
Don't: Be fake. And don't start talking about uncomftorable stuff (Like periods or making out)
It'd be ok to wear make-up don't put pound it on. I'd say a little eye-liner and some cover-up would be fine. Maybe lip gloss.
Don't wear jeans. I'd maybe wear a nice white skirt and sweater or a shirt. You can also wear nice pants or gauchos.
hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
If he's more like a brother, I'd tell him. I'd gently break up with him but say you still love him like a brother. I'd try to be his friend after that but he may need time. I once had a break up with somebody and it was terrible! We were swearing at eachother and yelling at one another but we have it time after the break up and now we're really good friends. Hope this helped.
This is kind of long and confusing, but bear with me.
Well, I like this guy Jerry. We've talked and flirted before but we usually never see eachother that much. There was a weekend at my friend Kia's church called Disciple Now, and Jerry was there. Usually he would talk to me or say SOMETHING but he he didn't say one word to me the entire time! My friend Kia talked to some people, that don't seem like the people that Jerry would tell his business to, but she that they said that he liked me. But the weird thing is that she finally said that AFTER I admited to like Jerry. She's not the most trustworthy person, but she can be. So then I hear that he gets a girlfriend the week after she told me that. That kinda made me feel down but I knew that I probably wouldn't have a chance with him.
A few weeks after that Kia said that Jerry told her to say hi to me, which made me smile. He acts like he likes me yet he has a girlfriend.
And another problem is that we are in two completely different cliques. He's preppy, and I'm classified as emo/punk. It's really weird too.
A lot of people found out I like him ((like the youth leader)) and I think he knows.
Now, that you've heard everything, do you think he likes me?
(13/f)
Thanks, I rate high
wow. I'd talk to him and tell him how you feel. But don't try and break him and his girlfriend up. Maybe he likes you both. I'd just talk with him and try and become good friends with him. Once him and his girlfriend break up, I'd deff. ask him out. (But wait a couple of weeks for him to get over her). About the clique thing, who cares? I recently dated a guy who my friends and I have never hung out with. None of us cared about our cliques. hope it helped
My bf has an older brother (11 years older). He looks up to him like a father cz he helped bring my bf up. I like his brother a lot. Hes a nice guy.
Ive realised that whenever his bro is with us my bf doesnt treat me too gd (rude etc), for no reason. As soon as his brother has gone hes really nice to me.
He can't even be bothered to see me, or talk to me, if hes going out with his bro later on.
When we talk on the phone he doesnt make an effort. Its like Im talking to myself. When he talks to his bro they're laughing n hes telling his brother everything.
Before I didnt see it. Then I thought I was exagerating n I thought it was me who was acting diff. But now its jus obvious to me.
I have tried talking to him about it but he jus says Im being stupid and he wouldn't do that to me. If I say smething about his bro hes gonna get annoyed with me. He always does.
I dunno how to approach the situation.
I'd meet with him IN PERSON one on one and then tell him how you feel. Tell him what's bugging you and give him suggestions how to change it. If you do talk to him, remember not to say anything bad about his brother. Just tell him how he acts around his brother. If ur bf really loves you then he'll try and change his ways. If you talk to him and nothing changes, I'd suggest dumping him.