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hookin up dilema
well my boyfriend broke up with me this saturday and i was actually not too upset, i felt a little heartbroken but thats it. when he broke up with me he told me to see other people and that i should try to get another boyfriend by the end of the week. well, i didnt want to really do either of them but then i decided i sort of wanted revenge so i hooked up with kid i knew from school, we've talked a little before but not too much, we snuck out and met halfway and then we talked for a long time which led into messsing around. at the end of it i found out he was the best friend of the kid who likes me and wants to ask me out, so im screwed. i dont know what to do, my ex hates me know because he found out what i did.
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Why would your ex be mad? Wasn't he the one who told you to see other people?! So the kid you hooked up with is the best friend of the kid who likes you. Do you like the kid back? Do you like the kid who you hooked up with? I would just see which one you like better or date neither of them. Hope this helps!
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your ex is no longer your boyfriend, he has no control over who you date or who you hook up with. If he has doesn't have any feelings for you anymore, you should be able to date who ever you want.
hooking up with this guy just for revenge was in a way wrong, because if you think about it, what has it solved? -- nothing. matters just got worse, but hey, its a learning experiance for you. this is what life is all about.
there's not much you can do in the situation to make him not hate you. have you tried explaining things to your ex and sharing your side of the story? if he isn't willing to listen to you, then give him some space. Give him time to think things out, then maybe in a week or two ask him how he's doing. He's probably just really aggrivated right now, so trying to talk to him and get through to him may only make things worse.
well i don't know how much of a help i was, but good luck =]
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