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me and this guy...
okay well a few years ago i was going out with this kid and we broke up. well all of a sudden he starts talkin to me again. he says that he still likes me & wants to give us another shot. the problem is he lives kinda far away. i do really like him but i've been hurt so many times before that i'm not sure if i want to commit to another relationship. i do really like him though. im just really confused & anybody who can help please!
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Well, let me tell you that long distance relationships usually don't work out. But don't get me wrong, I've known plenty of people who have had long distance relationships and they're still together and stuff! The question is, do you really want to commit? I'd only go for the long distance relationship if you're ready to commit like that and if you really like him. If you don't think you're ready to date him, then maybe you can just be better friends with him (a little flirting never hurt anyone!) and if he's like, well why won't you date me? Just say your reasons. Hope this helped!
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i say just let it go.. its summer and you said urself you dont know if you want a relationship.. use the summer to decide if you actually miss him and still have enough feelings for him to risk getting hurt again
is he worth it?
goood luck =)
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Okay, well in my opinion, I woudlnt go out with him again. If you broke up and it didnt work, what makes you think it will work again you know? And plus if he lives far away, how do you know he isnt with other girls? And if you dont feel your ready to be in a relationship agian, then dont, listen to your heart.
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I have a friend who's in the same situation. You just have to listen to your heart (note that's my column name lol) but you have to remember that you did go out before. and what ever the reason you guys broke up was for a purpose. and if you really like him then go out with him...but no matter what you will get hurt...every guy hurts you...i've been hurt many many times but it's part of life and everytime you get hurt you get stronger and you start choosing a better guy. and i can tell you is you need to clear your mind first and then come to a conclusion. Go out with some friends and don't think about it. and then when he asks you or call you again then you can say yes or no.Well i hoped that helped!!!
-STEPHANiE xx
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