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Does he like me?
This is kind of long and confusing, but bear with me.
Well, I like this guy Jerry. We've talked and flirted before but we usually never see eachother that much. There was a weekend at my friend Kia's church called Disciple Now, and Jerry was there. Usually he would talk to me or say SOMETHING but he he didn't say one word to me the entire time! My friend Kia talked to some people, that don't seem like the people that Jerry would tell his business to, but she that they said that he liked me. But the weird thing is that she finally said that AFTER I admited to like Jerry. She's not the most trustworthy person, but she can be. So then I hear that he gets a girlfriend the week after she told me that. That kinda made me feel down but I knew that I probably wouldn't have a chance with him.
A few weeks after that Kia said that Jerry told her to say hi to me, which made me smile. He acts like he likes me yet he has a girlfriend.
And another problem is that we are in two completely different cliques. He's preppy, and I'm classified as emo/punk. It's really weird too.
A lot of people found out I like him ((like the youth leader)) and I think he knows.
Now, that you've heard everything, do you think he likes me?
(13/f)
Thanks, I rate high <3
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I've had a friend in the same sort of position. She just walked straight up to the guy and asked him what was up. She got some answers and felt better afterwards. They went out for a couple months too.
Just talk to him, you might not like his answer, but what if you do? You'll never know unless you ask.
Good luck :]
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wow. I'd talk to him and tell him how you feel. But don't try and break him and his girlfriend up. Maybe he likes you both. I'd just talk with him and try and become good friends with him. Once him and his girlfriend break up, I'd deff. ask him out. (But wait a couple of weeks for him to get over her). About the clique thing, who cares? I recently dated a guy who my friends and I have never hung out with. None of us cared about our cliques. hope it helped
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We all know that relationships aren't "until death do we part" at age 13, and even though he has a girlfriend right now the chances that he'll be single again soon are pretty high. Don't give up!
Even though you might think it's obvious to Jerry that you like him, he may be unsure. Girls tend to drop signals that boys hardly ever catch, so continue to talk and flirt with him.
He probably does like you, but he might not be bold enough to date outside his clique. Again, don't give up! As he gets older he'll hopefully grow some balls and do what he wants to do instead of what he thinks people want him to do.
Keep flirting, and go get him girl!
-Carollani
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It sounds like he is definitely attracted to you, but maybe too chicken to go against his 'clique.' Preps can be really bad about looking down on people and it doesn't sound like he looks down on you, but maybe his friends would and he's not individual enough to date who he really wants to. You are in a really tough age range.... usually when you get to 16 or so, then it's cool to be different and friends with all kinds of different people.
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