me and my boyfriend broke up today because another boy blew a kiss at me and i laughed -- which he considered flirting i didnt do it on purpose so we broke up and today after school he told one of my friends he was just made and he wants to get back with me as all day at school he screamed and yelled at me and told me he didnt want to go on our class trip with me any more and we always fight and argue is it worth the troubles? should i get back with him or not? i love him but i dont think i can handle this anymore. Should i move on to see if theres better things or stay with the person i love that always hurts me? some one please help me!
Vikki27 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 1:31 pm: To be honest, this really depends on what you want. Everyone is allowed to get jealous from time to time but in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with a little light flirting, as long as you don't intend to act on it. My other half and I have flirted with other people from time to time. It's natural. But neither of us gets jealous about it because it's just playing and never serious.
Really, you need to have a talk with him about this because if you go straight back to him, there is a risk he could do this again. Explain to him that flirting is a natural thing and it doesn't mean there's anything in it. Reassure him that you really like him and you didn't mean to upset him but if he wants you back, he needs to learn to control his jealousy. If he thinks he can do this and you want to give him another try, do so, by all means. However, if he can't control his jealousy and knows this or if he does it again, let that be the end of it and find someone else. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
losers1 answered Tuesday June 6 2006, 2:12 am: well i would advice you to just go wherever the wind takes you. or what i'm trying to say is follow your heart. if you really love him then go out with him. good luck and have a great summer! bye!
-.christina* [ losers1's advice column | Ask losers1 A Question ]
mxpimpette26 answered Monday June 5 2006, 8:50 pm: babygirl move on. you need better. if he is going to flip over some guy blowing you a kiss then he aint worth it. he should know that your his and he should have taken that as a complament cuz someone else thinks you look good and should make him feel good that he has you. and if yall always argue then it isn't health yeah it's going to be hard to move on trust me been there done that. but you'll soon meet someone else. trust me arguing and stupid fights are just the start of it. cuz who knows how one of your fights could turn out. not trying to scare you but i'm just saying you really never know. you may love him but if he always hurts you then he truly doesn't love you. and love is a VERY strong word. so please becarefull how you use it. MOVE ON SWEETIE! [ mxpimpette26's advice column | Ask mxpimpette26 A Question ]
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