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my bf is fightin
my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you
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I honestly doubt they'll kill eachother. But I think you should talk to both of them seperatley. Tell your boyfriend that you'll stay with him and you love him. And about your relative liking you...that's gross. And it's illegal to do stuff with people who are related to you. I'd tell him that since you two are related, you don't see him in a boyfriend way and you're already with someone. I'd also tell them to NOT FIGHT because I'm pretty sure fighting wouldn't win your heart. (It sure wouldn't win mine) Best of luck!
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This seems like a hard one to try and help you on, but I'll give it my best shot. From what this looks like, your current boyfriend seems like a type of guy who want to be the murderer type of person. If they are talking about a til death fight, this is telling me that he isn't a good guy. No boy would ever get that physical if someone tried to go after you. Who do you like more? You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and if he dosen't want to work with you on this matter, then I don't the guy you are going out with is the right guy for you.
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Don't worry bout them fightin to the death, alot of people will drop out of a fight after the first haymaker makes contact, but even if they do fight the worst that will happen is a broken nose, which isn't that big of a deal, better to let it play out, let them tend to their wounds then after smakin both in the back of the head tell them if they pull that shit they'll have to deal with you, they'll get a laugh, and in all honsety, alot of friendships of my brothers and myself and other guys i know stemmed from fights, so let the boys have their fun, cause honestly that's what it is for guys, fun.
GoodLuck, don't worry
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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I love the smell of excess testosterone in the morning.
For a start don't worry abuot them "fighting to the death" they sound like hyped up little boys trying to prove themselves to me and I'm sure it won't get far past a few punches and insults before they can go home all pleased with themselves about what big tough men they are.
Even so it's worth asking them what exactly they're hoping to achieve by this as whatever the outcome you will still love your boyfriend and still not be with this relative. Tell them both that you do not want them to do this and if they have any consideration for your feelings they won't. If they still go ahead walk away and have no part of it or if you think it will get really out of hand inform their fathers or even the police, or at least make it clear to them that you are prepared to.
Either way this really has very little to do with you and is more about two little teenage boys trying to mark their territory so don't waste energy feeling bad about it.
If all else fails, let them beat the shit out of each other and refuse to give either one any sympathy or praise for it. It'll blow over quicker than you think
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Dear,Tug of war ...My your in a sticky siduation so i'll see if i can help..first of you can't just hope the fighting will stop unfortunatly, I would talk to your relitive about this whole and explain how you don't want anyone to get hurt and do the same with your boyfriend..if it comes to it you may have to get an adult or adults involved i'm sorry to say but if it prevents death than that's worth it right?..if you'd like to disscuss this in detail with me please contact me at Kakashi_hero_narutofan13@hotmail.com i wish you the best, hang in there. Your friend Violet
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Well, the way I see it, you probably dont like your relative? So talk to him, tell him it cant work out, and talk about him respecting your boyfriend. If that doesnt work, just try to keep them apart, or have a talk with all three of you, and explain to them how you feel. If they really love you, and see that your upset, chances are they wont fight.
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Keep them away from each other and teach them about how God doesn't like fighting. You're supposed to love; not hate.
-Sarah
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ok one question...who DO you like exactly....your relative or your boyfreind?if its your boyfreind that you like explain to your relative that you are just freinds,if you like your relative more than your boyfreind then brake up with your boyfreind and stay with your relative and dont worry about hurting anyones feelings cuz this is all about you here.talk to them and tell them if they DO fight that you never want to see them again and that will scare them into NOT fighting.And tell your boyfreind that this guy(your relative) is part of your family and it is disrespectful of him to hit your family members.sit down and sort out your feelings for them both and go to the guy you really like.hope this helps :)
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seems like you're not changing their minds... just let them fight... they'll realize how stupid they are afterwards
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