okay so many people or teens these days are having sex. and me and my boyfriend had been dating for almost 3 years now but I feel as if I don't show him I love him enough. he knows I love him and we've been talking about having sex but we're sure that we wanna do it and we wanna be safe and it's our first time. so will it hurt or feel good during the first time you had sex? will the condom slip off?
I'm just trying to be safe that's all.
All of those questions really depend on the person. Most likely it will hurt the first time. If you want it to be more enjoyable of an experience, then take some time exploring yourself or ease into it gently with some foreplay with your partner. If you get used to each other's bodies it shouldn't be as bad or as painful.
And as for the condom slipping off - well that can happen to anybody. No one can really forsee that happening. All you can do is make sure he gets the right size condoms and that he applies it properly, and hope for the best.
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ok well my boyfriend ask me to choose between one of my best guy friends and him and i choosed
my friend because i knew him way longer and then my boyfriend broke up with me....... was i wrong to choose my friend? also take in the fact that me and this guy friend use to date i still love him but he has a girl friend he's been dating for like a year
You weren't wrong for choosing your friend. Your [ex] boyfriend shouldn't have made you choose like that. Anyone who puts you in a situation like that isn't worth your time. And the fact that you dated your friend and that he's dating someone else now, and it hasn't impacted your friendship with him negatively shows that you guys should stay friends. You made the right choice. Never let a guy compromise any of your friendships.
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so my boyfriend and I goof around a lot and yesterday he was asking me like lets just try to have sex and if it hurts i'll stop
the thing is im a virgin and he isn't and hasn't ever taken anyones virginity away so would it pop my cherry right away?
In short: most likely yes. Maybe not immediately but if he gets in deep enough it can. If you bleed after that would be a definite sign that he broke your hymen. However, it's possible you've already "popped your cherry" just by other activities.
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i am not sure if it was flirting considering the nature of the initial relationship (he was my teacher in a course that i just took over the summer... no school problems attached here and that is what is confusing me because he is not a professor in college just a language course i am taking) but i am really kind of interested in this guy and i want to push it...
i don't know if he is a sleezball or if he is nice or if he's even as smart and unique as i'd like him to be... but i know he kind of understands my background... all i know is that i want someone and that someone could potentially be him...
in any case he seems interested in my background. in fact he asked me about myself on more than one occasion and he seems to see me under a different light after he realized we share a similar background with cultures that have similar norms (i am not sure for good intentions or for bad) in any case i can't seem to get a chance to be alone with him (with exception to this one time and we both had to go back inside and he pretended to step out for fresh air when he saw me go out distressed after a phone call... he asked what was wrong and offered to help me with studying... but being in such a foul mood i am not sure what signs i gave him................)
i will be seeing him monday... and it is probably the last time i will unless something happens... a girl i know from that class is coming along because we need to give in an assignment... how do i take advantage of this situation???? she is leaving with me so i can't wait for her to leave before me... and if in case that happens what do i say.... and how do i know if he is just caring or if he actually is interested!? any suggestions would be fantastic!!!
Well first off - a few questions: How old is he/how old are you? Will he only be your teacher for this summer course, or will he be teaching you again at some point after this? What grade are you in/are you in college?
All of those factors are vital. Also, most importantly, were there any definite signs he might have been flirting/you could tell he was into you? Did he ever treat you differently than any of the other students? You said you never really had the chance to be alone with him, which would have helped you to tell if he liked you or not based on how he is alone with you. Before you jump into asking him out or anything, make sure there are some more definite signs.
As for talking to him, try and get your friend to give you two a little alone time. Then when you're talking to him, maybe just tell him that you enjoyed his class and his insights and what not. Maybe say that you appreciate his understanding of your background, and that it's nice because he's the only one who does (it's okay to stretch the truth a bit if you want to.) Then ask if maybe you could exchange e-mails so you can have someone to talk to, or maybe just to seek help from on other topics. If all goes well, maybe he'll ask you for your e-mail first! Then just try to converse with him a bit and see how he acts. I wouldn't advise asking him out right then and there [unless he does first], but you could keep talking to him later over e-mails and see how the correspondence progresses. Get to know him as a person instead of a teacher, and see if any relationship can form.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out! =]
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15/f
Right now i am "talking" to this really cute popular guy that goes to my school. I'm really excited and everything but there are some problems i don't know what to do about.
Problem 1- He has a lot of girls that are his best friends and he talks to them about us and sometimes the conversations we exchange. I mean, i don't care if he has a lot of friends that are girls but sometimes i don't want the stuff we say or do for them to know. Also, the first time we started "talking" he called his friends and told them only 5 minutes after we did and they all called me and were like "aww, you guys are talking now?" I can't tell him about this because i am just now getting to know him and i really do like him and i don't want to scare him away.
Problem 2- I haven't ever been kissed before and he found that out and he was talking to one of his friends (leads back to problem one) and she called me and she was like "you don't care if he kisses you right?" I really don't care but i have never found a guy that i want to kiss. I am very unexpierienced and let's just say he is very expierienced. I don't care but his friend which is one of my friends to kind of said that if we date, we will be doing a lot of kissing.
Problem 3- I don't know how to make out and i really do like this guy and we will probably make out if we start dating.
Problem 4- Even though there are some problems so far i still like him and i don't feel like i am giving him emough clues that i like him. He dosen't call me everyday and that's okay but i think he thinks i don't like him that much so i want to give him hints or clues so he knows. Can you give me any clues on how to do this?
I'm really sorry about how long this is but i really need your help. Please help me on each problem. Thanks so much!
Well for the first problem, if anything I think you should feel flattered that he's willing to talk about you to other people -- esp. girls. It's almost as if he's letting them know that's he's ready to get "off the market" and with you. But if there's anything "private" that you don't feel comfortable about him telling people, you could just let him know that. Maybe bring it up like "so and so said...blah blah and it's really nice that you talk about me, but I'd feel more comfortable if you kept some things between us..."
Problem 2 - I keep seeing this all over the place about someone being unexperienced and wants to kiss a guy who is, basically just DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. If he goes in for the kiss, just go with the flow! If anything his top lip will touch your bottom lip and vice versa so just keep that in mind and GO WITH IT. Since he already knows you won't have to worry about him "finding out" when he kisses you (which guys usually don't anyway) and plus that hasn't detered him from wanting to kiss you, so there's really no cause for concern!
Problem 3 - Pretty much the same as number 2, JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. It won't be bad at all. The more you kiss him the more you get used to it, and then making out will just come naturally.
Problem 4 - Just be you and let him know that you're happy to be talking to him. If he seems to be flirting, don't be shy and flirt back. Any time he hints at liking you just give it right back to him. And don't worry about him not calling you everyday - that's not a problem. Since you guys aren't dating yet you can't expect that from him (heck some guys you can't even expect that from if you are dating them, lol). And maybe let those girls that talk to you know that you're interested as well, and hopefully they'll put in a good word for you :).
Hope this helps, and I hope everything works out between the two of you! =)
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17/f
I am currently seeing a nice, respectable guy but I`d really like to see a more outgoing side of him as he is usually a little too laid back and it leaves me close to boredum. So far we have watched a movie at my house & his house, watched shooting stars at the beach, sat on the beach & talked for hours, and hung out with a few of my friends at my house.
These situations are not particularily exciting so I would like to try something new or improve something we have already done. Any 'activities' (such as bowling, amusement parks, etc) do not work because we both have busy schedules for the next month and will only see eachother in the evenings. We are not at the point of going out for dinner, either. What might you suggest we do? I was thinking of having him over to watch a movie again. What might be a good movie for us to watch?
Thanks so much for your advice or any other insight, I really appreciate it! I think we both could learn something from this relationship, even if it is not quite challenging enough for me, and I would really like to make the most of it.
Umm I disagree with the person who commented before me. Obviously this guy seems pretty nice and it's awesome that you guys can just spend time talking. Maybe try having a cute little picnic at night at a park or beach? It will be something different and romantic. To make it even more fun, do it spontaneously so he doesn't know what's happening.
And, it might sound lame, but game nights with him and with friends too can be fun. It sounds dorky - but when you get into it it usually turns out to be a lot of fun. Also you said bowlings out of the question - but you can still go bowling at night if there are any nearby open late. Also maybe try talking to him about his more outgoing side. Find out different things he's been wanting to try or do that you didn't previously know about and look into trying them out with him :).
I hope this helped =)
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im 16/f & i really like this kid, jake & we have sucha good connection..whenever we hang out he flirts with me hardcore, touches me, gives me long hugs, etc. 2 nights ago we hung out and it was the best time. but the thing is so far it has always been me & my friends instigating the hanging out part..i know he & his friends have fun (or at least they tell us that.) we dont want to be too needy, so when we left the other night, jake's friend said "we should deff hang out again" & my friend was like "yeahh give us a call when you want to!" but so far, i've heard nothing..what if they never callll..basically, what should i do and how much time should i give them before i call them (if i should at all) haha thanks!
I'd just wait it out a lil more. It's not as if he's your boyfriend or it's for a date, so it's not as serious as he takes his time. He might have just been busy these past few days and he's waiting for when he's ready to hang out again to call. But if it's been a while and you start to get antsy then come up with some fun plans and give him a call. Since it's just for a hang out, there's no shame in calling just for that =]
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15/f
Okay, well i went to a party about two weeks ago and this guy i didn't know but thought was cute told one of my friends he thought i was cute and we started texting and he said i was pretty and cute and all that but he saw me from a distance and i usually don't get boyfriends because i mean i'm not the most prettiest girl in the world but i'm not the worst either but i think that once i see him again he won't think i'm pretty because he saw me from a distance and he is a really popular guy and i can't believe he would like me. So i don't know what to do. Also, i haven't kissed a guy before and i didn't want him to know that but one of my friends told him. I don't want the cutest guy in school to think i am unexpierienced. I mean i am but i found out from his best friend that he was talking about that to him, not bad about it but just talking about it. I mean, i am really shy but and i just don't want him to know that. Once, he sees me up close, i don't think he will like me...what should i do?
Well I think even if he saw you from a distance that wouldn't be enough for a guy to be that interested. For all you know he might have been liking you for a while now. I don't think you should worry that much, all you should do is be YOU. An air of confidence can make any girl beautiful. And think about it this way: if he sees you and thinks you're ugly (which I'm sure you're not) then why would you want to be with someone that superficial? Also, he could be diggin you for a lot more than just looks alone. And if that's the case, you're in even more luck!
And don't worry about not being "experienced" - you're only 15! And that won't mean that you're gonna be a bad kisser or anything. Just go with the flow and enjoy every moment ! Plus it wasn't really your friend's business to tell him that about you. But so far that hasn't changed his mind so that could also be a good sign :]
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i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP
f/16
I think it might not be the best idea. To do that might make you gain even more feelings for him and feel even more attached, which would just make the break up even harder. Having sex is a big step to take and a big choice to make, and I feel if you're really serious about this you might have to be more than just "ok" with it. In the end the decision is up to you, obviously, but you have to be alright with not seeing him after, which is difficult in any case esp. if it's your first time. Also if you already feel like you might regret it, it could be your subconscious trying to tell you something. If he's sure that you guys cant see each other after he moves, then it might be the best option to not make that big step with him so soon before he leaves.
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Okay so ive been dating this guy on and off for the past year and 4 months. We have had some pretty bad issues that lead to our break ups but we've worked through them all i guess. I've always felt great wen i was with him and like everything was perfect, excluding when we were fighting.. Except out last break up we spent 5 months apart and we both dated 2 other people before we got back together. Now that we're back together (Mind u this is the 6th time we have got back together) i thought everything would be great again, cuz well i love this kid and this is what ive wanted the whole time we were apart.. Butt i guess i was wrong.. Wen we got back together he just seemed to be more controlling and really distant.. it even feels weird to talk to him on the fone. I tryed to talk to him about it the other day and he told me he kinda thought the same thing but he didnt know wut to do about it and well neither do i. Also lately i found myself starting to get feelings for someone else.. Friends ive asked for advice told me that maybe we shouldnt be together. Im so confused, please help.
I too second your friends advice. It sucks to have to end it with someone whom you love and who you've been through a lot with, but sometimes it's just for the best. Maybe you guys are meant to be together -- just not right now. I think that if there's someone else you're developing feelings for and who you could see yourself with, then you shouldn't deny yourself a chance to be with them and to be happy. And if you're boyfriend feels the same way now then it's probably best to end it mutually and on fairly good terms. Who knows? You guys might end up together again in the long run. Or maybe this new guy might be exactly what you've been looking for. Just be with who you think will make you the happiest.
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my boyfriend was arrested for robbing over 20 cars and havin a loaded gun on him and then he ran from the cops but then was caught again. he is 17 years old.hes being charged as an adult. an officer told me that he will be held for 28 days and then it will be decided how long hes in jail for. does anyone know what the penelty for all the above is?? please help
Grand theft auto? That's pretty serious. I guess it all depends on where you are but that could land you a good 2 years in prison...but over 20 cars?! That's definitley a felony, so that could possibly make it a lot longer.
Now on top of that, the gun charges. With a felony weapons offense and sentenced to prison, the judge will choose from three prison terms: "low-term", "mid-term", and "high-term". For example, for an assault with an assault weapon, the low-term is four years in prison, mid-term is eight years and high-term is twelve years. With no criminal record, the sentence would most likely be four years.
Now like I said, it could be different in various places, but basically your boyfriend made some dumb moves and he's definitley gonna pay for them.
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11 months ago this guy asked me out, we saw a movie and everything it was perfect...but it just faded away and I realized that we never really were actually bf/gf or that's just what I thought. Now, everyone thinks he still likes me by the hints he gives me..Like we were playing tennis on sunday and he dumped buckets of water on me and expected me to chase him..He laughs at everything I say, and my friend says that he kept trying to walk with me at the mall. I'm really confused because I still really like him, but I just don't know what to do anymore., I don't want to get my hopes up and think that he does like me and get crushed...I don't know...I just really need advice.
It is possible he still likes you. A similar thing happened to my friend. This guy she worked with who she really liked asked her out on a date. They went out and everything was nice and then that was it. He just kinda avoided her and made no mention of it. She was pissed and just ignored him. But he was still crazy about her; but instead of talking to her about it, he talked to everyone else instead. She liked him still too, but neither of them would make the first move. On random occasions they'd end up hooking up here and there but that was it. Eventually she kept pushing him away until she decided she was ready for a relationship with him, but by that point he was already with someone else.
So long story short, if you still like him and he seems to show signs of liking you, then don't wait any longer! He obviously has liked you in the past, so that's a start. Try spending more time with him and finding out if he really does like you. Then be upfront and try and discuss both you're feelings. You might end up having something special, so don't let a (potential) good thing slip away! =)
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I'd be greatfull to hear the answer for my problem typed below:
I'm a student in India and I'm not an Indian citizen. It has been two years that am in this country. After my two months spent in India, a classmate of mine, spent a night in my home and she agreed upon a love relationship with me...despite she having a boy friend..but, we were sure, he'll not come within our graduation who lives in U.S. Since then we vigorously started making out and spending hundreds of condoms till now that too with a deep love affection...to be honest I totally became used to this girl and her car...we had toooo muchhhhh funnnnnn and luxuriesss! Now all of a sudden she has resumed her school boyfriend, with whom she was involved in class 7th. Although she doesn't tell me, about it, but, I'm damn sure, that everything happens to her from his side...I notice big big love bites in her valua and ties and boobs...and she suddenly broke off with...me, now I'm feeling not like living life any morrre..I'm dying to be honest...any severe advice will be expected from your side. plz! Steff.
Well if she's back with her boyfriend then you can't expect her to not do stuff with him.
So basically just move on with your life. Find someone else, and preferably someone who DOESN'T have a boyfriend, no matter how far away.
...And maybe love a girl for more then sex and luxuries?
And as for the columnist below, "finding another hoe" isn't the best way to put it. Maybe these 2 girls weren't faithful and could be considered that, but that doesn't mean all girls are. Find one who's faithful and honest. And if all you're looking for is a good time, then don't expect much more from her...
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okay, i had this ex named bradin about a yr ago and we both liked each other but i dumped him for another guy that i went out with. now im startin to like bradin again because we've been talking again. he says he likes me too but has a girlfriend or "has a girl in mind".. he always flirts with me, saying he wishes it was me and everything just doing normal flirting stuff but wont break up with her because he says hes been waiting for her for a long time. whenever i ask him if i have a chance or whatever he says maybe and then when i ask him if theres any point to liking him he says yes but he doesnt know what. i know he has been waiting for this girl but she says that they arent going out but they both like each other. i really want to go out with him but i dont know what i should do or say to him or act around him or even if i should stop liking him. i dont want to stop liking him. he really does act like he likes me and everything but doesnt want to cheat on his "girlfriend"
what should i do!
I think you should move on. For the simple fact that if he has the chance to be with someone he really likes, he should take that chance. Remember, you ended it with him for someone else, so he deserves to be with someone he really likes now.
Plus, you never know if he really likes you or if he's just getting revenge. Has he made any mention of how he felt when you dumped him? Because it could be a factor.
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Well, you see I'm posting this question for my best friend. Just so you know, she's 12 and is going to be 13 in another week or so. I wanna help her out, being best friends and all. So yeah, I'll just get to the point. Today she told me on myspace about how her boyfriend N told her to stop talking to one of her guy friends O. She asked him why and he was like 'cuz i'm your boyfriend, thats why.' i mean, that is being way too overprotective. she told me she was so happy when he left and about how he was being too clingy and calling her every minute of the day. ShesI just really want to help her out...wat should she do abt this? and please dont tell me about how she should deal with this by herself. i kmow!!! I just wanna help!!!
She should dump him. She's only 12, she doesn't need to deal with that now! And she should be able to talk to whoever she wants; esp. if it's a friend. It's better she loses him then she loses any friend. Plus if he's like that now, I can only imagine how much more controlling he'll get in years to come...
Plus she was happy when he left, so her feelings for him must be dwindling. It's best she gets rid of him now, before things get worse.
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Okay, so recently my family and I went on vacation to the beach and one night my parents and his dad were out at some dance club place and my sister was asleep in her room and so my cousin and I were laying on the pull out couch on our stomachs watching the TV. My cousin is an avid texter and so he was always texting but I noticed his foot started to touch mine really softly. At first I thought nothing of it and was like whatever, it's nothing. But then he would roll onto his back to text and go back to lying on his stomach and look back to where our feet were and then I would feel his foot on mine again. This happened a lot more than once too.
What does that mean if anything? + Should I ask him why he was doing that or let it be?
I wouldn't ask just yet, or even be to worried about it. As Hitoast said, it could be as simple as him not even realizing what his foot was touching and then looking back and seeing. And he might have continued just as a joke. Or it felt good, which could be weird but he might not have meant it like that.
However, if things like that arise more with him, or he continues that or does anything else strange, then I'd start to be concerned. Then you could let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable and you'd appreciate it if he stopped. If he persists, then you might want to tell another trusting family member of the situation.
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O.k. sorry if this takes a while, but there's sort of a lot to it. I'm sixteen female. I've liked my best friends brother for quite a while, maybe 2 years now, but in the past couple months, about the last 7 months I've Really liked him. It sounds petty but to be honest I've never liked a guy like this, ever. I always thought it was sort of stupid how girls become obsessed with a guy just because he's cute. But, it's not that. And I understand how they feel. Not to sound like a creepy stalker but he's seriously in so many of my dreams I can't help it. He's super quiet, but not in a wierd way, I know there's more to him.. he just has this way about him. He's never had a girl friend, and he's a year older than me. My best friend knows how much I like him.. well actually I don't know if she really knows, she always brushes it off because obviously it's wierd. But every time I get a chance I'll make casual jokes about it, and recently I've done it more and more.. actually.. about a million times in the past ten months. The thing is, I know we'd be perfect, if that didn't sound creepy, but whenever he sees me, which is really rare.. he gives me this smirk, that's really hot. Haha. Anyway, I never see him because when my best friend and I do something together it's usually not at her house but out somewhere, and if it is he's at work. We're both sort of quiet and don't talk to eachother much at all. He's not that type of guy really. So it would be really awkward to say something wierd about how much I like him to his face. And trust me, his sister doesn't want to hear it. So I guess I just want at least Something to happen by the end of the summer. And I know it takes time, but I've been waiting for about a year now, maybe longer. And it's all I can think of.. well sort of. I guess my question or questions is/are, how can I approach someone so quiet, yet really appealing, without it seeming wierd? How can I include him in something me and his sister are doing, without her protesting, and without it seeming odd? And please don't say she should understand if I like him this much, it's not that simple. I guess, how can I get something to happen? Help would be appreciated times a million. Thanks :)!
I think before you talk to him, you really have to talk to your friend first and make sure she knows and understands the situation. It's awkward for someone to watch their sibling date their best friend. She might be worried that you'll tell her things she doesn't really want to know about her brother, or she'll be concerned that if you guys break up (esp. on bad terms) she'll be stuck in the middle ground and won't know who to help. So first make sure that she is ok with it (she needs to be, she lives with him!) and that you can work out something where she either won't mind him being there, or that she won't be weirded out by you being with him. Also make sure you talk to her just in case there's a reason she doesn't want you with him. She's his sister, so she obviously knows more about him than you, and she might know something about him that you'd be turned off by, or that you should know before having a relationship with him. Also, be serious about the situation when you talk to her, and ease up on the jokes since those only make her uncomfortable anyway.
Now as for him, I know you want something to happen soon but sometimes things take time. Slow and steady wins the race =). But anyway, after you've cleared the air with his sister, maybe try making small talk with him everytime you see him. Just little things here and there to get to know more about him, and see if he shows signs of interest in you. Also, he'll see that you're interested (be subtle about it, not too overbearing) which will help. Then try going out with him and his sister, so he can see that she's ok with the situation, so he should be as well.
I hope this helps, and I hope everything works out =).
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ok. well. this storry is really messed up.
in september i met gabe and i really liked him for like ever but i was too shy to talk to him.
so then my best friend was jsut like "ok ill become friends with him and get him to talk to you"
so i was like "whatever"
months later i still liked him
but then my best freind tells me that gabe kissed her.
so for about 2 months they were making out in cemetaries and giving and taking handjobs in the woods.
and she knew i liked him.
so then she kept saying "get over him get over him hes just gonna hurt you."
so then i was just liek "ok im over him" even tho i really wasnt.
then rite when i told her i was over him, she said she liked him.
so i was like inlove wiht him while i saw them getting all googley eyed around eachother.
but they never went out.
so then like suddenly they stopped hanging out.
and nika (my best friend) got diagnosed wiht cancer.
and she wanted me to tell him.
so i did cause at that time i was kinda giving up cause i kinda almost figured in my head they would end up going out.
so then liek nothing happened wiht her cancer.
and i know its a horrible thing to say but i think she was lying.
and honestly its obvious shes lying.
so then i never said anything cause i didnt want to start a fight.
then me and gabe got alittle closer cause i let my guard down.
so then like month later gabe texted me when nika was in ohio.
we talked alot and we found out alot about each other.
then he told me he liekd me for about a month.
so i was really happy about that.
so he asked me out.
i said yes.
we went out 4 3 weeks.
hung out ALOT.
like seriously alot.
we did things that honestly i didnt really want to do but eh.
im an idiot.
but then exactly a month b4 my birthday and exactly 3 weeks that we were going out
he broke up with me
in a text.
he said he jsut couldnt b in a relationship at that moment.
i was really upset.
but i got over it, yet i still liked him.
after that, he barely came to school.
nika would always say "oh yea, gabe calls me all the time and we talk for hours!"
so i was like "whatever" yet i honestly wanted to bite her head off.
nikas also a huge poser. shes like "i love emo boys!"
god. its just like "nika! shut up! no one likes you! ughh aussies.."
but then gabe completely disappeared from town.
changed his number. moved. hes just gone.
basically to wrap up the story, before he left town, he screwed around with the biggest slut in town and then told nika that he was inlove with her and then nika told my other friend that she loved him too but he "hurt" her way too much and "caused her too much pain"
ughh. also, gabes a drug and sex addict.
i dont know what to do. help?
Well first of all, make sure you definitley know that Nika never had cancer before saying she didn't. Because to be accused of lying about an ailment when a person actually has one is one of the worst things to be accused of. Now, if you're correct and she actually didn't, then that's a horrible thing to lie about on her part. Even worse, to make you tell Gabe AFTER she pretty much stole him from you (or at least killed your chances with him). I know Nika may be your friend, but she's gotta straighten her act out. And it might be good to let her know that you don't like the way she's been acting.
As for Gabe, he's just not worth it. First off - do you really want to be with someone who's a drug and sex addict? Not the best for a relationship. Plus, it's obvious that he just got close to your friend and you so that he could get some from 2 girls. He was playing off both of your emotions for his own sexual gain. But at least he's out of the picture now and isn't cause for too much concern, and at least you got the chance to be with him for a little bit, so you can't feel as if you lost out.
Sometimes you need to experience something first hand with someone to realize they're not worth it. But I feel that Nika is more of the problem here than Gabe. You should probably confront her about her actions if she continues behaving the way she has been.
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ok well does it?i have morals and plan on saving myself until im married :D. i have had guys flirt with me and then see the ring on my finger and will be like oh? so do purity rings turn guys off?
I think if it turns them off, they're not the type of guys you'd want to be with anyway.
If they're turned off by it, then it shows what's on their mind and why they were flirting.
But I don't think seeing that should turn too many guys away, esp. not a good one.
Plus, not too many guys may know what it is to be turned off by it.
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hey i dont know if this can be answered on here, but i have given my guy hand jobs and stuff, and he says theyre really good. i wanted to know some new ideas and different techniques to try, that make work/feel better. also if anybody has any realy good ideas to turn a guy on? and what do guys find sexy that a girl can do?? thanks so much. if you can't answer on here send me an email
jamour-tu@hotmail.co.uk
please answer quick.
thanks. X
Using both hands is a good idea.
Also focus a lot on the tip. When I gave one to the guy I was with at the time, he requested that I focus on that area & he really enjoyed it.
Also, don't be afraid to explore the balls either. JUST BE CAREFUL! Those things are mega-sensitive so no squeezing, lol.
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