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Creating a comfortable situation
17/f
I am currently seeing a nice, respectable guy but I`d really like to see a more outgoing side of him as he is usually a little too laid back and it leaves me close to boredum. So far we have watched a movie at my house & his house, watched shooting stars at the beach, sat on the beach & talked for hours, and hung out with a few of my friends at my house.
These situations are not particularily exciting so I would like to try something new or improve something we have already done. Any 'activities' (such as bowling, amusement parks, etc) do not work because we both have busy schedules for the next month and will only see eachother in the evenings. We are not at the point of going out for dinner, either. What might you suggest we do? I was thinking of having him over to watch a movie again. What might be a good movie for us to watch?
Thanks so much for your advice or any other insight, I really appreciate it! I think we both could learn something from this relationship, even if it is not quite challenging enough for me, and I would really like to make the most of it.
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Umm I disagree with the person who commented before me. Obviously this guy seems pretty nice and it's awesome that you guys can just spend time talking. Maybe try having a cute little picnic at night at a park or beach? It will be something different and romantic. To make it even more fun, do it spontaneously so he doesn't know what's happening.
And, it might sound lame, but game nights with him and with friends too can be fun. It sounds dorky - but when you get into it it usually turns out to be a lot of fun. Also you said bowlings out of the question - but you can still go bowling at night if there are any nearby open late. Also maybe try talking to him about his more outgoing side. Find out different things he's been wanting to try or do that you didn't previously know about and look into trying them out with him :).
I hope this helped =)
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tell him your going to break up with him if he doesnt start lossening up
or just leave him
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