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Waiting.
11 months ago this guy asked me out, we saw a movie and everything it was perfect...but it just faded away and I realized that we never really were actually bf/gf or that's just what I thought. Now, everyone thinks he still likes me by the hints he gives me..Like we were playing tennis on sunday and he dumped buckets of water on me and expected me to chase him..He laughs at everything I say, and my friend says that he kept trying to walk with me at the mall. I'm really confused because I still really like him, but I just don't know what to do anymore., I don't want to get my hopes up and think that he does like me and get crushed...I don't know...I just really need advice.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
If that doesn't help, I'll add more information ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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It is possible he still likes you. A similar thing happened to my friend. This guy she worked with who she really liked asked her out on a date. They went out and everything was nice and then that was it. He just kinda avoided her and made no mention of it. She was pissed and just ignored him. But he was still crazy about her; but instead of talking to her about it, he talked to everyone else instead. She liked him still too, but neither of them would make the first move. On random occasions they'd end up hooking up here and there but that was it. Eventually she kept pushing him away until she decided she was ready for a relationship with him, but by that point he was already with someone else.
So long story short, if you still like him and he seems to show signs of liking you, then don't wait any longer! He obviously has liked you in the past, so that's a start. Try spending more time with him and finding out if he really does like you. Then be upfront and try and discuss both you're feelings. You might end up having something special, so don't let a (potential) good thing slip away! =)
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Well i would call him or text him and just be casual like "hey, what's up, i havent talked to you in forver." Then after you get to talking, ask him what his feelings are toward you and tell him your feelings. Hope this helps!
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