i am 15 years old and i am a female. Well, there is this boy i like and we have bean seenig each other for abot 1.5 months, but we aren't going out. he tells me that he loves me, gives me kisses, and stuff like that, but this is when we are at his house. when we are at school he doesn't kiss me or tell me that he loves me. he doesn't even talk to me that much. all he does is say hi give me a quick hug and say bye. he said that he doesn't want to get into trouble.
does he really love me? is he embarassed to be around me? does he only want sex? well, thank you for helping me out....bye.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xEVYx answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 9:10 pm: If he says he doesn't want to get in trouble, then maybe he really doesn't want to get in trouble. He could be the type of guy that doesn't really like to do things in public, maybe he just likes his privacy. He could also be busy. This doesn't mean he only wants sex and it doesn't mean he's embarassed to be around you. However kissing in public, etc might not be comfortable for him. Give it time, if he doesn't come around in a while talk to him about it. No one here really knows how he feels. good luck!
x3candiigrl answered Monday April 24 2006, 9:00 pm: he could be embarrassed... or maybe he just doesnt likee PDA. or maybe he really IS scared hell get in trouble... another option is that he loves you so much... he wants it to be just between you two, which is soo sweet. i wouldnt worry about it, but the best way is to just ask him yourself [ x3candiigrl's advice column | Ask x3candiigrl A Question ]
helpmebrenda answered Monday April 24 2006, 8:50 pm: Hi
It could be that he is just a little shy to show you affection infront of all his friends, which is ok (for a while).
With that being said, if this continues, and he wants sex, and shows you affection while alone, but never when you are around other people, then that to me is a RED FLAG!!
Someone who truly wants to be with you, will want people to know, and will gladly show you affection around them. I wouldn't let it persist too much longer. Take care.
crashxheart answered Monday April 24 2006, 8:50 pm: Well, in my school we get detentions for hugging in the hallways due to an incident with sexual harrassment and all that. Could that be the reason? [ crashxheart's advice column | Ask crashxheart A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Monday April 24 2006, 8:39 pm: most guys are like that. they are embarrassed to show their love for you in front of their friends or other people. i dunno why but thats how it usually is with most guys that age. theyll get over it though. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
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