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Decoding my cousins signs.
Okay, so recently my family and I went on vacation to the beach and one night my parents and his dad were out at some dance club place and my sister was asleep in her room and so my cousin and I were laying on the pull out couch on our stomachs watching the TV. My cousin is an avid texter and so he was always texting but I noticed his foot started to touch mine really softly. At first I thought nothing of it and was like whatever, it's nothing. But then he would roll onto his back to text and go back to lying on his stomach and look back to where our feet were and then I would feel his foot on mine again. This happened a lot more than once too.
What does that mean if anything? + Should I ask him why he was doing that or let it be?
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I'd just let it be. It's kind of an awkward situation, and you don't want to make it worse. If he keeps doing it, and does other things like that, then ask him why he's doing it. But for now, just let it be.
-Laura. (16-f)
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I wouldn't ask just yet, or even be to worried about it. As Hitoast said, it could be as simple as him not even realizing what his foot was touching and then looking back and seeing. And he might have continued just as a joke. Or it felt good, which could be weird but he might not have meant it like that.
However, if things like that arise more with him, or he continues that or does anything else strange, then I'd start to be concerned. Then you could let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable and you'd appreciate it if he stopped. If he persists, then you might want to tell another trusting family member of the situation.
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Probably just nothing. He was probably wondering what he was touching and that's why he looked back, then he was like "Oh it's just her foot" and forgot about it. Just tell him if it really bothers you and ask him not to do it again :] goodluck!
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