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Okay, well i went to a party about two weeks ago and this guy i didn't know but thought was cute told one of my friends he thought i was cute and we started texting and he said i was pretty and cute and all that but he saw me from a distance and i usually don't get boyfriends because i mean i'm not the most prettiest girl in the world but i'm not the worst either but i think that once i see him again he won't think i'm pretty because he saw me from a distance and he is a really popular guy and i can't believe he would like me. So i don't know what to do. Also, i haven't kissed a guy before and i didn't want him to know that but one of my friends told him. I don't want the cutest guy in school to think i am unexpierienced. I mean i am but i found out from his best friend that he was talking about that to him, not bad about it but just talking about it. I mean, i am really shy but and i just don't want him to know that. Once, he sees me up close, i don't think he will like me...what should i do?
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Hi!!!!
no worries! I know it's hard but just be confident! believe you are pretty and he will believe it too (even though he already does)...
It's like selling a product (don't get me wrong you're not selling yourself), If you don't believe the product works no one else will, you have to belive it and if you don't, like any good salesperson, FAKE IT! after a while you will believe it. And just be yourself cause that is the best you can be, believe me. He will like you. and if he doesn't you're to pretty for him anyways hehe
toodles
Alexandra~
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well change your attitude if you think your mean then do something about it next if you want him to like you why dont you change the way you look if you really really like him but dont you want him to like you just for who you are??
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Well I think even if he saw you from a distance that wouldn't be enough for a guy to be that interested. For all you know he might have been liking you for a while now. I don't think you should worry that much, all you should do is be YOU. An air of confidence can make any girl beautiful. And think about it this way: if he sees you and thinks you're ugly (which I'm sure you're not) then why would you want to be with someone that superficial? Also, he could be diggin you for a lot more than just looks alone. And if that's the case, you're in even more luck!
And don't worry about not being "experienced" - you're only 15! And that won't mean that you're gonna be a bad kisser or anything. Just go with the flow and enjoy every moment ! Plus it wasn't really your friend's business to tell him that about you. But so far that hasn't changed his mind so that could also be a good sign :]
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don't worry about it! Once he gets to know you and you him, things will go the way they go. If he's right for you, he'll understand the inexperience and will be willing to take it your pace.
And you shouldn't worry whether or not he thinks you're pretty. In the end, it's the inner beauty that lasts and shines through the most.
cheers,
stargirl
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develop a solid relationship. either bf&gf or just as good friends. when you have this solid friendship then he will be more understanding about you being unexperienced.
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