how do you have sex with your parents being home. if there room was downstairs and yours was upstairs and you wanted your boo to stay the night. how do you do it without gettin caught!
just dont moan to loud...i dunno never tried it!?
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Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
-cRw-
Hey Sweetie,
Damn Dude that sucks, You need to talk to her tell her how you feel that you thought everything would work out and be strong like your friendship but when you two got together it wasnt the same. I had the same exact problem but technically me and my best friend didnt go out we just flirted and talked alot, You should talk to her because if you keep the relationship going while your havin doughts and she is perfectly fine it could hurt her in the long run. Just talk to her and if she is your best friend she will understand, Well at least for me my best friend listened and understood where I was coming from!! Hope I helped!
-x0x0x0-
STEPHANiE
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Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing.
Hey Sweetie,
Ok what you should do first of all if her parents know it was "You" that she snuck out with you should go to her house and apologize to her parents to be on the safe side, And it might help ya out in the long run. Then you should stop sneaking out and you need to exsplain to her to stop sneaking out to because if you do something bad could happen if pat curfew or something. Best bet is when she gets off of bein grounded ask to hang out with her during the day so she wont have to worry about sneakin out at night! Hope I helped somewhat!
-Stephanie
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I have liked this guy since I was in third grade, (I'm in tenth now) and he told all of my friends that he liked me too. But when my friends told him that he should ask me out, (with out me knowing so i was like incredibly embarresd) he said he wasnt alowwed to date yet. But just last Sunday when i was sitting in his car and we were listening to music (Hollaback Girl) he said it was his girlfriends favorite song! I just brushed it off at first and pretended that i didnt notice, but it really hurt! I dont know how to act around him anymore, cause he still acts like he likes me....Someone help me please!
Hey Sweetie,
My Mom used to Hate when older boys would talk to me and then like in 9th grade I got my first bf he was a sweetheart but he was 17 and believe me its a shock! But his mom prolly im guessin he is a Mommys Boy and so that prolly means that she needs more time tryin to figure out how to let go. But that shows he is very respectful and doesnt lie to his mom you shouldnt have anything to be mad about or anything its perfectly fine. Just find ways to make him want you more and even try goin to his house and meeting his Mom or something! It will work moms are better talking to then the fathers lol!! And thats from expierene!!
-StephAnie-
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ok so i was talkin to my ex n he told me to listen to a song n thats what he wants in life....the song is swing life away by rise against.....the he IMed me n said "we live on front porches and swing life away"...anybody know what the song means or what that verse above means?
thanks
"WE LiVE 0N FR0NT P0RCHES AND SWiNG LiFE AWAY"
~iT KiNDA MEANS HE iS TALKiN AB0UT H0W LiKE HE WANTS T0 JUST LiKE S0METiMES BE WiTH Y0U AND JUST SiT D0WN AND SWiNG WiTH Y0U AND C0MPARE EVERYTHiNG YALL HAVE BEEN THR0UGH AND iF Y0UR STiLL THERE F0R HiM...iTS A PRETTY C00L S0NG i LiKED iT!!!~
Am I loud and clear, or am I breaking up?
Am I still your charm, or am I just bad luck?
Are we getting closer, or are we just getting more lost?
I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words
We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand
I've been here so long, I think that it's time to move
The winter's so cold, summer's over too soon
Let's pack our bags and settle down where palm trees grow
I've got some friends, some that I hardly know
But we've had some times, I wouldn't trade for the world
We chase these days down with talks of the places that we will go
We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand....until you hold my hand
I'll show you mine if you show me yours first
Let's compare scars, I'll tell you whose is worse
Let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words
We live on front porches and swing life away,
We get by just fine here on minimum wage
If love is a labor I'll slave till the end,
I won't cross these streets until you hold my hand
Swing life away [x4]
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13/f
okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
Hey Sweetie,
I dont get it, before im assuming you loved him and wanted to be with him. Therefor your feelings changed overtime, You should really be concerned bout talking to him! Its messed up in a way cause its gonna break his heart more then it will break yours because sometimes boys can take that a lil harder specially now if a boy says he loves you then you know he will defintly take it harder while your takin it lightly going to someone else. I guess that teaches you to think before you act and say yes to someone! By the way how long have you been together?
Anyway contact me on aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO, and I could help ya out with this!! Cause I need lil bit more info to go off of!
-Hope things work out hun!-
Always,
Stephanie
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!
SiNCE Y0U iNViTED HiM YEAH Y0U SH0ULD PAY iT W0ULD SH0W H0W MUCH HE MEANS T0 Y0U! HE WiLL LiKE iT T0 AND WH0 KN0W`SZ Y0U MiGHT RECiEVE S0METHiNG iN RETURN!!! Xoxo Hope I Helped oxoX!!!
Alway`Sz
STEPHANiE
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alright my boy friend has some issues and i dont know wat to do about it . He has a problem in figuring out who he wants to be . He sed one day that he wants to be gothic but then he changed his mind and i cant stand all the pressure of worrying about him all the time . I realy love him and i dont know wat i wud do with out him but im tired of waiting on him to figure out who he wants to be and im scared to break up with him cuz i love him so much . Wat shud i do?? -worried
Hey Sweetie,
I see your bf is changing his image alot. Its usual for a boy, He is just tryin to see what fits him more and what he likes better. It will be worth it in the long run all you have to do is be honest with you like the goth look if my bf asked me if he lookd good in that honestly I wouldnt care because I love him for what how he treats me and his personality not for his self image. Im sure you will like it in the long run it will take a while, Just sit back and think about how much you have changed since you were lil! I know I have went from wearin skirts n all kinds of cute stuff to like wearin diff. stuff and havin my own style hes just tryining new things!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!
-AlwaySz-
StephAnie
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ok this is really worryin me my g/f is in middlsboro with her mom 4 the summer there is alot of boys that like her up there. i mean yea i trust her and all but i rlly dont kno what 2 think about all those boys can any1 help me????
Hey Sweetie,
Well I feel really good bout' this but I had the same exact problem! My bf went and is currently in New Mexico. Its soo hard but like if anything happens we just would tell each other. And im sure if ANYTHING did happen an she is truthful to you then you have nothing to worry about. Girls usually are very truthful to there boyfriends but then again you have them hoesish girls. Looks like your girl loves you an im sure misses you alot. Just it will take time yall will overcome it and soon you will be back with her soon!!! xOx Hope I helped xOx!!
-AlwaySz-
StephAnie
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hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks
Hey Sweetie,
Sorry to say this but if you EVER think in your right mind that if your going to go out with your best friend it wont work even if he give in and decides to make things work it wont. Believe me I felt sooo uncomfortable with my bets friend it was like almost impossible for us to talk. You should just tell em how you feel if that doesnt work just move on cause at least you kno he wasnt for you anyway!!Hope I helped!!
-StephAnie
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im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks
Alright best thing to do is next time she is crying tell her how much you love her and how you hate to see her down and crying. But sometimes you never know because she might have stress from the baby its crazy my friend she had to literally move out of the state to go stay with her dad because her mom was always crying and arguing with her. I think its natural but next time it happens just ask her to go out or like randomly suprise her and like send her flowers and tell her your gonna like pick her up at whatever time and take her out to dinner. It will definetly make a girl feel happy to recieve flowers. Anyway hope it gets better!!!
Always,
Stephanie
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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
16 f
Well its always like when the girl gets extremly mad and hits the boy. I think if you and him both love each other like you said he even told you he loved you. Then you should def. forgive him but if you feel and your mind is telling you it may/might happen again best thing to do is wait things out till you feel comfortable gettin back with him. Sorry hun! Always here for ya my aim screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO if ya wanna talk!
Always,
Stephanie
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wow i dont even know where to begin. i'm 15m, my name is jake. just like at every school, theres that group of people who are popular and stuff right? well i was new to this school, and i kinda just joined this group. the thing is, in that group, theres guys and girls and they all have their own love triangles, but when i got in there all the girls liked me. and well at my friends party, rachel, kelly, may, sarah and i were having a little fun in a room, if you know what i mean. and well a some my friend walked in. before i could say anything he just left, and when we got done putting on our cloth he was gone. so i just went home form the party, cuz i was embrassed. so wow, this is bound to be extremely ackward to explain to the group, since all the guys in that group like one of the girls that i uh.. had fun with. what should i do? should i just find new friends?
No you shouldnt find new friends just like talk to the person who walked into the room whoever that may be and then tell whoever likes whatever girl you "had fun with" tell em all what happened and how it met nothing to you, that you all were just havin fun. But its kinda a sticky predicament considering you had fun wit 4girls and one of your friends likes one of em! xoxoxox!!!
-StephaniE-
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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right?
You did the right thing by protecting her but you need to tell the police right away cause you never know adults are really tricky these days with there actions! But at least you were protectin ur girl!
-steph
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Im in love with this guy, and he always tells me he loves me. Well I just found out from a friend that he had feelings for a short time on another girl. He never knew that I knew, and he always told my friend it was just a short time, and he doesnt like her anymore, and he hates himself for thinking like that about another girl. Well its been a couple weeks since that happend, but I still cant help but feel hurt and to feel like he'll do it agian. Im only 14 and I dont want to be hurt so badly so young, but I dont want to break up with him..what should I do? please help I'll Rate High!
Alright Hun question is ask yourself how you think he feels or mayb the way he looks when he tells you he loves you, Then think about how you feel when he tells you them 3sweet words "I love you" if your love is strong and you dont wanna risk losing him talk to him tell em you dont wanna lose him because he means everything to you and you dont want him to make the wrong mistake again and have feelings for another girl, And if he doesnt understand you then you know it wasnt met to be! But if he loves you and you love him then it will work out believe me ive been through that alloott and finally im settled down with just one person and one person only! Anyway best wishes hun hope everything works out!
-stephie-
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him?
Aww, thats really sweet...Seems like you found your match. If you ask me you should give him a chance see what he is doing this weekend, go see a cool movie and hang out and go out for ice cream. That would be awsome then late at night when he is takin you home tell him you feel towards him and you dont wanna ruin your relationship as friends over a relationship and stuff! If he likes u and cares about you as much as he shows then he will understand!!
-stephie
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
Let me tell ya this...Girls talk for a fact, Really do know this. And if you dont tell him before they do them he is gonna feel hurt and if you do end up breakin up he is gonna always throw it up in your face about you not being honest and stuff if you were to actually wanna go out with him. So tell him before stuff gets bad!! Just to be on the safe side!! Just be like Baby I kno this may hurt you as much as it hurts for me and for me having to tell you this but the other night I went on a Bonifire with Ryan and we kissed. Then see what he says if he gets pissed tell him that u didnt mean to hurt him and you care about his feelings soo much and that you dont wanna lose him and exsplain to him how much he means to you!! If that doesnt work then your pretty much screwed!! But if you like ryan and you and your bf breka up you could possibly go out with him!! Hope I helped!!! Best of Lucck!!!
-steph
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ok this has been really hard for the last couple weeks with boys well there was this one boy ive liekd all summer did everythign with and then jus dumped me one day and been wit a a new grl since.. and then one kid i liked i mean really leiked well he leikes sum other grl but jus keep leading me on and now he has a gf and then recently i got wit a boy and i really leiked him also but now he has a gf who is one of my bff'z and it seems its a pattern.. im left empty everytime .. WHATS RONG! plz help
I think if I put myself in your position I would stop with the whole dating thing. I mean you dont ALWAYS need a bf. You should take time and meet people and get to know them first before you jump into a relationship!!
-steph
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!
TELL HIM IF HE IS REALLY REALLY IN THE MOOD TO BEAT HIS MEAT HISSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARENT HIS LIL KITTY AND AINT GUNNA DO NOTHING JUSS BECAUSE HE NEEDS TO SCRATCH YO KITTEN DONT MEAN HE CAN SCRATCH IT WHENEVA HE WANT TO CUZ THATS JUST MESSED UP! AND IF HE STIL DOES IT..THEN YOU MIGHT WANT TO BREAK UP WIT HIM..BUT THATS UP TO YOU..CUZ YOU CANT CONTROL LOVE!
-STEPHANIE
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okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again?
MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM, AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND SEE IF YALL HAVE A CHANCE OF GOING OUT BECAUSE YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM. AND ITS PROBABLY HIM TRYING TO GET AT YOU AND ITS WORKING BUT YOU HOULD TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL IF THINGS DONT CHANGE MOVE ON AND MIM SURE YOUR PRETTY ENOUGH TO GET SOMEONE SPECIAL!
~x0x~STEPHANIE~x0x~
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