Well here the thing. I'm a sixteen year old guy and I have a problem. The thing is that... I like older women. Not just like a little older. MUCH older. Like women fifty and up. I know its weird and gross probably, but I can't stop thinking about it. It's not like I want a relationship with an older women I'm just extremely attracted to them and I can't stop thinking about them. I just want to have sex with older women, and even if I did try to get with an older women they might think I'm weird and I wouldn't know what to say to them in order to try and attract them to me. I just need help on what I should do about this and how I should go about it. Please help me A.S.A.P.
Okay, Its not uncommon. So you're not completly out of the norm. But step out of your shoes for a second and think about this... a lot of males that have this sexual craving dont have either a mother figure, was abused or abandoned by their mother... so their looking for that "mom like" figure in their life. Even though most dont look at it this way. It's just sort of a fantasy. There's nothing you can really do but if you dont want to be with an older woman... then dont let it come between you and someone you may be with for the rest of your life. Also there are a lot of older women or older men that date younger people.. they wont think its weird. Just gotta find the right person.
Good luck.
Holly
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Me and my bf make out all the time but i always have my hands just like to myself idk what to do with them..... anybody have any ideas of what i can do?
You should put your arms around his neck. Anything that feels comfortable.
its kind of awkward to kiss and just keep your hands to yourself
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This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks!
Take things slow. if you try and rush into relationships they always turn out bad. Take the time to get to really know him and talk to him about what he wants in life like relationships and future and what not. If he doesnt want the same things as you, its not worth it. good luck
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well i really like this guy and he is real nice including really HOTT. Well i want to do some thing with him because ive not got to hang out with him out of shcool. but im not alowd to have him over. eny ideas were we could hang
well if you arnt allowed to have him over its probably because you're a little young to be dating.
I know how that is. I was once there too. Find a girlfriend that is allowed to hang out and have guys over... Go over there and just chill!
:) its kinda fun being sneaky anyway
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Hi, I really like this guy I used to work with. I've liked him for 3 years now. We used to have a little thing where we looked like we were going out but we weren't. Well he came over the past few nights and it seemed like he really liked me but since those few nights he hasn't called or talked to me. Can anyone tell me what they think about this and whether or not I'm just wasting my time on someone who is using me. What should I do?
well he might like the fact that you like him so he plays hard to get? But maybe hes just being an ass. Try calling him and leaving him a message asking whats going on. He might just be busy. But if he doesnt call you back in a few days its not worth a heartache. Good luck!
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Hey how do i get a girl to like me?
Honestly just be yourself. Dont act any other way, because if shes going to like you she needs to appricate you for who you are :). Just try talking to her and asking to hang out and what not :) if shes interested you can move from there. But take things slow and dont push anything... girls dont like to be pushed into any type of situation it makes us uncomfortable
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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him?
Well I guess you can just try and focus on other people/things. Surround yourself in class with people that will help you get your mind off of him. In time you'll get over him. It might take a long time but sooner or later you'll find the right guy!
Best of luck
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ok theres this guy that asked me out i met him BEFORE MYSPACE. now he asked me out on myspace and way before he said do you want to hang out sometime this week but that was like 2 monthes ago and i asked if he wanted to hang out again.
it said he read it but no reply. and i left a bulletin saying something about this guy and this other guy because i asumed we wernt going out. and he replyed to that saying..that boy you like better be me. and im like. yeah it is lol. WICH WAS A HUGE MISTAKE. so what do you guys think. is he playing me? i mean it seems like he dosnt want to do anything. if he asked me out why dosnt he talk to me? PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED.
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Any type of internet relationships are stupid. Go for the other guy. This guy obviously isnt giving you the time of day! Forget him!
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okay so ive been best friends
with this boy,his names JR,for
a couple years now. ive always thought
of us as best friends and stuff.
i never really thought of liking him
liking him..but the other night we
were texting and i was like "so how
are things goin with katie?"who is
this slutty girl that i always tease
him about liking cuz he did a long timeago,
and he was like "i dont like her natasha.god damn." and he got mad kinda so i was like "wow wtfs wrong with you"and he was like "well i like someone else,and it makes me mad that you always think i like her" and i was just like"ooh ok sorry" and thne i was like "so then..who do ya like?" just wondering u know since he is my best friend, and he was like "i dno if i should tell you,you'll think im dumb." and i was like TELL ME! and it took a couple texts to get him to come through then he was like "ok are you ready?!?" and im like "yah" and hes like "ok jfdladajldajfyoujlafjdaljfad find it in there"at first i didnt see it so i was like"huh?"and hes like"omg jflajlfadIljfdaljdaLIKEjfdjallaYOU!!jlfdjla"and i couldnt believe it so i was jus tlike"r you serious"and he is and everyhting...what do i do?
i actually have began to like him.but hes my best friend, if i got with him and we broke up it might ruin everything.he said it wont, but i ndo.
HELP.
you should talk it out. Explain your thoughts about how you are worried about the friendship. Also, guy bestfriends are always the best boyfriends. You start out with a good strong friendship and then you build off of that. Take it slow, dont officially have the name "going out" be "together" for a while to build up to see if you like it without the full commitment yet. If you feel weird about it just let him know. If hes your best friend for that long and you decide its not working out. He'll most likely understand! Just talk things threw. And take it slow.
Hope everything works out for the best hun!
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okay..well i'm a 13 year old girl and i like this 17 year old guy and he liks me too. my best friend is going out with his cousin so we get to spend a lot of time together. he's a really awesome guy and i know he'd NEVER hurt me. he really cares about me..but the thing is we want to be friends with advantages before we date but it's hard cause he lives in a different town..even though he can drive i don't want him to come over cause i don't want my parents to freak about the age difference..he's the same age as my sister. how should i tell them how old and how good of a kid he is..my mom's met him before but it was only for liek 2 seconds. idk what to do..if you can help i will rate high. please and thanks to those who do help me.♥
sweetie a guy that wants to be friends with advantages before you date is no good. It shows hes using you. The 5 years isnt a big deal.. but what is a big deal is that you're 13 and hes 17 there is such a big matureity diffrence there. I'm not trying to be against you at all but he may seem like a great guy that has good intentions but a great guy wouldnt say he wants benefits before you date. No matter what your parents probably arnt going to like it. He is almost illegally out of your range. He probably is and I just dont know the complete rules. But if he was to turn 18 soon. you're relaly screwed. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear and i'm sorry. But if it means a lot to you then tell your parents. see what happens. But dont completly trust this guy by his words. Guys are pigs sweetie, remember that.
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13/m
There is this girl at school that I have a crush on and I tend to always offer her a seat in my 7th period class {study support} and I offer to help her with math and social studys. I am always talking to her and commenting her.
Am I flirting?
No I dont call that flirting. Flirting is when you're like laughing or like teasing each other and pushing each other around type deal... Kinda like people do on movies I guess you can say. You're just being a nice guy and helping her out. I dont know if you're trying to flirt or not, but that isnt what I would consider flirting!! Hope i helped
holly
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I am 17/M. I have a girlfriend that I have almost dated for 4 months. We had a great realtionship to start out with. Once school began though I start to drift away from her. I am very active in school and after school. She is in love with me but I am not.(I told her I didn't after lying about it for awhile) She calls and I am not really inclined to call her back or even talk to her when she does call. It is like a chore for me. I wuldn't mind spending time with her but only if it was for awhile not some BS 15 mins. When we are together I feel really close and begin to like her a lot. Then after like 2 weeks I just dont care anymore. She is really serious in this relationship and I am not so much. I don't know what to do. I just want some direction or arrow telling me what I need to do. Plz give me that DIRECTION!
I think you need to break up with her sweetie. Whenever a relationship turns to a chore its not worth it. Why waste your time? 17 is still young and all and ifyou're so into sports why waste the time! A girlfriend is someone you should constantly want to be with, and cant live without seeing her. I think its time to move on. become friends, maybe you can give it a shot another time!
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do girls like the smell axe or tag.
ooo I enjoy AXE!!! yummy. Axe touch. its the best:D!!!!
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but we never hade sex our idea was 2 get to now evey thing about each other then we can really tell if we want to be togeather and its been my longest realship and hes the person i can say i love you 2 i dont evan say that 2 my family youse my say wait till u 18 but i it hearts me now 2 have him here ive started drinking and smoking sice hes been gone and he want me to go down see him when he gets out he said im so in love no one understands that i dont cry 4 no one but him
yeah love is such a tough thing to deal with. As long as theres no sex involved hes a safe man. Just be careful with your feelings. Love can get so confusing. Just be safe and i hope everything works out once he gets out of jail. :) if you ever have more questions hun please ask away!
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Sooo along time ago i like this boy jack a whollle lot!!! And now... a year later... me and him started going out.... I dont do any drugs or smoke or anything. Andi knew he smoked cigs.. but i can deal...and then i find out he smokes weed.... once again i can deal...just as long as he dont do it around me. But now im seeing that hes a lil too obsessed with weed ...and now i find out he does dip. I DONT WANNA KISS THAT!!
I really loves him and ive waited so long for this , but the dip and stuff crossed the line .... I dont know if i wanna break up with him, cus i love him ...but it seems a little out of control. PLEASE HELP!
first off I dont know what dip is never heard of it but. I think that any girl can be treated better than a guy that is involved with drugs. You may have liked him for a long time and whatever but sweetie you dont need to get involved with that mess. drugs are such a horrible impact on the other persons life. Believe i've watched a close friend have her heart ripped out by a guy that was involved with drugs and its so hard to get out of situations when the person means a lot to you, but since its a new relationship I'm sure you can possibly get out fairly easy. Just think about your life. Do you really think that this guy that is involved with drugs is gonna be the one you want to spend the rest of your life with? He has no future with that path hun. Think about it :-/
Good luck and best wishes
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is it unusial for a guy 2 cry over his girl
Not at all, it most def. shows that he cares for her. I think its about the sweetest thing :D
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well i'm goin out with this one girl. i love her to death. but she cheated on me awhile back. so i forgave her and we started goin out again.well the past few days she has acted like she don't want nothin to do with me, and she seems more "interested in this other dude". so wat do i do? should i break up with her? or wat. HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!!!
Yeah break up with her hun, I say once a cheater always a cheater. you deserve better in the first place. You should never take someone back for treating. That isnt love. She obviously doesnt care for you as much as you do for her. Sad story i know :-/
good luck
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im a younge girl turning 16 in march the 1 and i been going out whith this guy for 9months now but the only diffrence is hes 21 a five year gape i dont see nothing wronge whith it but some people do im really in love whith him and he says he loves me and wants me 2 be hes 4 a enternity hes in jail at a moment but 4 somthing his friend done and i dont want eny one else to be his girl sep me can i hear what yous got to say plz
Alright sweetie. I say since hes already in jail, you dont want him to get out and have to go back in because of a dating you since you are under age. I personally dont see to much wrong with it. But look at the numbers 16 & 21 they dont look right. I say hold off until you're 18 to become really serious, if he was to get caught with you he'd have to register as a sex offender, you know how that would fuck his life up? Think about it. Love is choosing the highest good for the other person. Think about it, would you risk his person future for a love so young?
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Okay so My best friends brother is really hot and nice. Ive had moments when I almost kissed him! Ive touched his cheeks many times gettin ready to do it, but alwayz stoppin b4 the time came. My best friend knows that I think hes hot and ive said that I like him a couple times. Everytime it comes up again she acts as if I dont like him so I started denying it. Now my best friends brothers best friend ( wooh thats hard ) told my best friends brother I liked him. I told him it wasnt tru. is that right? should i tell him? Hes older than me by 2 and a half years? wat should i do?
Hey you need to tell him.. be like yeah i like you. But if he likes you back i think that you should make sure its ok with his sister (your bestfriend) because guys arnt worth losing friends over and you dont want her to be upset at all. It doesnt matter if hes 2 years older than you.. my boyfriend is also two years older than me... older guys are better than younger.
Best wishes
-holly-
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well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way.
Ok first of hes not your boyfriend! boyfriends dont act like that! not at all! Get over him and find a sweeter guy. and yeah if he was just joking i'm sure hes going to hate you but you didnt know because you cant trust him. But if hes mad oh well. His loss he shouldnt be acting like an idiot!
-holly-
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